Preface
Recently, there is a video circulating on the Internet, the content of the video is very shocking, a family because of some conflicts, the woman was slapped by her father-in-law, and this is not over, the woman even knelt down and said: Dad, I was wrong, this matter caused a lot of discussion, the child was also frightened and cried after seeing this scene, and the staff of the Women's Federation said that they were intervening in the investigation.
The woman was slapped by her father-in-law, what was the reason?
Recently, there is a video that has caused a lot of controversy on the Internet, in the video, the father-in-law and the daughter-in-law have some disputes because of the problem of taking the child, and then the scene is out of control, who would have thought that the father-in-law would directly slap the daughter-in-law continuously, and the mouth has been scolding.
After the daughter-in-law was slapped, she cried directly, but her next behavior was even more incomprehensible, instead of resisting, she knelt down to apologize, saying: Dad, I was wrong, my father-in-law didn't seem to be angry because of this sentence, and he was still slapping his daughter-in-law.
This scene is very shocking, and the child is still on the side, the child cried directly, which will leave a big psychological shadow on the child, the staff of the local women's federation said that they are investigating and dealing with it.
This domestic violence is very bad, many netizens also expressed their opinions after seeing it, and many netizens are very puzzled, why not resist and apologize, so what about the friction in the next quarrel, and then apologize.
Some netizens also feel that this father-in-law is very domineering, and he can't beat his daughter-in-law if anything happens, and besides, there is only some friction in the quarrel, and it is not that something unforgivable has happened.
At the same time, some netizens questioned it, thinking that this is very strange, I usually hear about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the father-in-law generally has no contradiction, and this time he even did it directly, and it is very strange to apologize at the end, if it is a normal person, he will definitely resist, or run away.
Some netizens analyzed that if this is not hype, then the woman's behavior means that it is not the first time she has been beaten, and her husband doesn't care, and even her husband often beats her.
But what is the specific reason, we still need to wait quietly for the investigation, can not blindly draw conclusions, this kind of behavior is undoubtedly very bad, I have seen a lot of similar incidents like this on the Internet before, but there are also some people who have properly dealt with these problems.
Domestic violence is not limited to this
Domestic violence is very bad, often because some small things are not handled well, resulting in the inability to control their emotions, I have seen a lot of such things before.
There is a woman in Anhui who married far away to her husband's family, and every Spring Festival is spent at her father-in-law's house, because of the distance she rarely returns to her biological parents, and misses her parents very much, and then when she sees other people's family reunions, she also wants to return to her own home and accompany her parents, so she said this wish, and then something unexpected happened.
I didn't expect my father-in-law to be very dissatisfied with this request, and even slapped her, but fortunately, my husband stopped it in time, so that things did not continue to develop in an uncontrollable direction, and at the time I wanted to fight for an apology for my wife, but my father-in-law did not agree, but felt that he was not wrong.
Fortunately, her husband was always by her side, and took her back to his hometown, where he started his life again, and it didn't cause things to go in a worse direction.
I also saw a woman who was breastfeeding, who was beaten by her father-in-law, in the video we can see that the woman sat next to the child, and then a man walked in and tried to hold the child, the woman stood up and hugged the child, and then the man slapped the other party, and the man in the video is the woman's father-in-law.
His behavior is very violent, the child seems to have just been born for a long time, the mother's body is very weak, and the public has repeatedly carried out violent acts such as punching, and he has not stopped his bad behavior after slapping him, and in this video, no one stood up to stop this matter, making people question, where is the husband, this behavior makes the woman feel extremely desperate, and once had the idea of suicide.
There is also a daughter-in-law who was violently beaten by her father-in-law for disciplining the child, the reason is because the child did something wrong, so she is educating the child, but she didn't expect this scene to be seen by the father-in-law, and the father-in-law felt that he couldn't educate the child like this, so he said that the daughter-in-law was beaten.
And the daughter-in-law felt that her father-in-law's education method was wrong, so she returned a few words, but she didn't expect her father-in-law's emotions to be out of control, and she directly beat her daughter-in-law in the past, and her husband's behavior after seeing it was even more speechless.
After the husband saw it, he stepped forward to stop him at first, and was greeted with a slap, and then he stepped aside, watching his daughter-in-law being beaten by her father, and finally the daughter-in-law called the police, it is said that it is not the first time she has been beaten by her father-in-law, and she is completely disappointed in this family and is ready to leave this home.
I also saw a case where the husband and his father-in-law committed violence against their daughter-in-law together, and according to the man's description of what happened was because the child refused to drink porridge, and then the wife forcibly fed the child, and then he looked distressed, so he went to discuss with his wife.
But the wife refused, and locked the child in the warehouse to make him cry, and then he went to the warehouse to take the child out, and in the process of fighting with his wife, because his wife beat him, he couldn't bear it, so he pressed his wife to the ground, and then the father-in-law also came and kicked again.
In fact, if you communicate well, you can avoid this problem, and your father-in-law is involved, which may lead to the happiness of the family in the future.
There are also a lot of contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I saw a pair of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because of some conflicts between families, there was a conflict, in the video, you can see that the mother-in-law is wearing a red dress, pressing the daughter-in-law under her, and has been scolding, and the neighbors next to her also dissuaded after seeing it, but the mother-in-law did not listen at all, but according to the Internet, there were staff members to mediate in the follow-up, and the two sides have reconciled.
There are many such things, some husbands will stop it in time after seeing it, and prevent things from developing in a worse direction, and some people acquiesce to this kind of behavior, which is very bad, and when we see this situation, we have to wait for the investigation, because it may be "posing" for "hype", and I have seen many people on the Internet before, for the sake of traffic, to "pose".
"Posing for domestic violence".
There is an anchor who hyped it on the platform, and when he was in the live broadcast room, the anchor said that the contradiction between him and his wife was particularly big, and the marriage was unhappy, and then he suddenly picked up the things around him and threw them at his wife, and his wife immediately fought back, and even in the process, he still wanted to take a knife.
The whole live broadcast quickly attracted a lot of people to watch, and the barrage was full of remarks urging the anchor to calm down, and it was later discovered that the two were hype, just to attract people's attention, and in the end they were also punished by the app.
I also saw one on the Internet, because the wife wanted to go out to play mahjong, the husband disagreed, so he directly kicked his wife to the ground, and the son picked up a stool and smashed it towards his father after hearing the movement, wanting to be angry for his mother.
As everyone knows, their family is an old "actor", and some attentive netizens found that in the video, there were many cameras in their room, and another video was posted afterwards, that is, the father didn't know why he kicked his wife, but the daughter came out directly and threw her father's mobile phone to the ground, and then the son came in and smashed the father with a bench.
It has attracted a lot of attention without accident, but there are still some careful netizens who have discovered that something is wrong, and they use this behavior as a password for traffic, and finally pay the price for their behavior.
There is also an Internet celebrity in Anhui who posted a video on the platform, in which she walked on the ground by herself, was beaten by a man, and even dragged on the ground, the woman said that she was abused by her ex-husband and had called the police, which caused a lot of discussion for a while.
Later, after investigation, it was found that it was posing, and everything was fake, just to use the public's sympathy to win traffic and get what they wanted.
There are many such things, and some people will do anything for the sake of traffic, so when you see such things, you must not be impulsive, stay calm, wait for notice, and cannot become a "weapon" in the hands of those who have other purposes.
summary
Domestic violence is a very bad behavior, and we can see from this incident that while many netizens condemn their father-in-law, many people are very sensible, because there are many things hyped in this name.
Domestic violence will not only bring psychological harm to the other party, but also destroy the happiness of the family, so that the original complete family is broken, but also will leave a bad look for the child, affecting the healthy growth of the child, when this kind of thing happens, the rest of the family should be stopped in time, and should also communicate more, because this kind of thing happens because of some small things, if it is handled properly, it will make the relationship between the family better, I hope everyone can meet the right person, live the life they like.