Women will encounter all kinds of problems in their relationships, and the most troublesome problem for women is whether their men love themselves or not. Because this is a question that women often ask men.
Someone once said that when a woman asks a man "do you love me", she is asking herself "do I love him". Because when you ask this question, you're already putting yourself in a vulnerable position.
In love, it is normal for no one to guarantee that they will always be in an advantageous position. But a wise woman knows that a woman only needs to look at one thing to know if a man really loves her.
Of course, this is not for women to compete for favor and force men to ask whether they love themselves or not. It's about letting women understand whether they're good enough to attract men's attention.
- See if he's willing to spend money for you
Many women will say that although their boyfriends are rich, they are never willing to spend money for themselves. In their opinion, when they fall in love with a man, they are trying to get his money. As everyone knows, this is also the true thoughts of many men.
Women have to understand a truth, that is, a man is willing to spend money for you, it does not mean that he loves you. And a man who really loves you, even if he doesn't have much money right now, will leave the best things for you.
If a man has no money, but he is very good to you, good enough to do anything for you. Then this man really loves you.
Maybe he doesn't have money now, but he's willing to work hard to make money for you, maybe he doesn't have money now, but he's willing to save money for you.
Women must understand this truth, and don't dislike and look down on their boyfriend because he has no money. Because when a man really loves you, he will be willing to spend money for you.
- See if he is willing to reject all members of the opposite sex for your sake
"Like is presumptuous, love is restraint. The same applies to relationships. A man's liking for a woman should come out of his bones, not from his mouth.
Because I like it, I have concerns. Because of this, I become cautious when expressing my likes.
A wise woman knows that if a man really loves you, then he will definitely reject all the opposite sex for you. After all, it's also a responsibility, not an excuse.
If a man has never rejected any overtures of the opposite sex, it can only mean that the man does not like you that much.
Everyone has their own friends of the opposite sex, but a man who can treat everyone of the opposite sex equally can only show that he has true love for you.
Because if you really love someone, you won't mind how many friends of the opposite sex you have around him. On the contrary, if a man can't even treat his own women equally, it can only mean that he doesn't love you that much.
- See if he's willing to make you better
In love, it is actually difficult to judge whether a man is willing to become better for a woman.
Because the three views of two people are different, many times there will be a lot of contradictions between them.
But this does not mean that they do not love you, if a man really loves you, then he will change himself for you and make himself better.
Because in his opinion, if the man you love becomes very bad, then you can't be with such a man. So he will try to make himself better to be worthy of you.
And when a man really loves you, he is willing to change for you. Because he wants to bring you happiness instead of letting you down in him all the time.
So a smart woman knows that if you want to judge whether a man really loves you, then you only need to see whether the man is willing to be better for you.
If a man is willing to change himself for your sake and strive to make himself better, it means that he really loves you. Because when a person wants to give for another person, then he must try to make himself better.