When we are in love, we often say that if you love someone, you must see each other in your eyes.
In fact, whether a person has you in his heart or not, what he says, does, and what he sees can be reflected.
Women want to know whether a man loves her, and she often depends on what the man says and does to her.
- "I'm busy"
"I'm busy, but I still want to be with you. —Anonymous
For the person you love deeply, even if you are busy, you will find time to contact each other. Even if you are busy, I will find time to accompany you.
"I'm busy", these three words are the answer to whether a man has you in his heart. People who truly love you will not be willing to leave you alone. If he's really busy, you don't have to worry too much.
Men always have a lot of concerns when facing the woman they like, such as not being able to meet often, not being able to contact often, and so on. But if a man really loves you, then he will be willing to do these things for you.
Even if he is busy, he will find time to spend with you, because he knows that if he does not contact you, he will miss out on many opportunities to spend time with you.
If he is really busy, he will also find time to chat with you and talk to you.
- "You can do it yourself"
When many women are in love, they will always have this feeling, that is, men may often ask themselves "where do you want to go?", "what to eat?", "is there anything fun?", and so on. But the response I often get is, "I'll do it myself." ”
The attitude of a man makes a woman feel very aggrieved.
Because, in their opinion, women are not appendages of men, but independent individuals with their own ideas and opinions.
They feel that two people are together on an equal footing, and no matter what they do, they should decide by themselves.
When in love, if a man often says to you, "You can do it yourself!", it means that he does not have much respect and trust in you, and even treats you as an accessory in his life.
Because people who really love you, care about you, and feel sorry for you will not just treat you as an accessory.
On the contrary, he has you, a family, and a career in his heart, and as long as it is beneficial to him, he will support you to do it.
This is the best expression of loving someone! Because we love each other, we want to create a happy life with each other, and enjoy happiness and happiness together.
- "I don't want to"
A man who loves you will often say "I don't want to", for example, if you ask him to pick you up from work, he will say "I don't want to", and if you ask him to take you out to dinner, he will say "I don't want to".
However, if a man often says "I don't want to", it means that his attitude towards you is perfunctory.
If a man often says "I don't want to" to you, it means that he doesn't take you to heart.
Women sometimes ask men, "When can I pick her up from work?" In fact, when a man says, "I don't want to", he is already thinking about something else, and if a woman asks again, it will cause men to be disgusted.
The most basic manifestation of loving someone is to leave the most important place in your heart to the other person.
If a man always uses all kinds of excuses to reject women, or says all kinds of "I don't want to" things to women, it means that there is no woman in the man's heart at all.
Such a man is very selfish and does not know how to cherish a woman's love.