Text: Song Moxing
If you have a mother, you will have a home, and if you have a family, you will miss your mother, and if you have a mother, you will have a home, and your children will not grow up, and you will kiss your mother's cheeks, and you like to be spoiled, and if you have a mother, you will have a home, and I will ......always worry about it, and I will not be able to let go of my heart wherever I go. Today, I listened to Gao Guiqiang's "If You Have a Mother, You Have a Home", and inadvertently the great image of the mother's diligence, strength, love and tolerance came to mind. The mother is not tall, her face is delicate, although her face is covered with the vicissitudes of time, she is still in good spirits and full of spirit. Her mother, who is over 80 years old this year, still lives in the old house in her hometown, and she has also set up a fitness dance waist drum team for the elderly who is about 80 years old.
Only when there is a mother can there be a home, and the mother is at home, and the home is a place for relatives to get together. When the parents are there, the brothers and sisters are one family, and when the parents are absent, the children are each family. When her father died, her children went to pick up her mother and live with her, but she insisted on living alone in the old house. In fact, the purpose of the mother's watch at home is to give her children and grandchildren a kind of concern, that is, to give her children and grandchildren a bridge and bond to get together. Now my mother is the backbone of this family, my mother is at home, and every holiday, my children and grandchildren will come to my home to get together with my mother, and I usually take time to go home to accompany her old man.
Mother is a person who is smart, hard-working, and loves her family. She grew up in a family with advanced ideas and a progressive pursuit. In the early days of liberation, her father was the chairman of the peasant association, and her mother was the director of the women's relief association. Under the influence of advanced ideas, she has become an independent-minded, active-minded, hard-working, and family-loving person. In 1960, she graduated from the Qiannan Autonomous Prefecture School of Posts and Telecommunications, was arranged to work in the Yunwu Post and Telecommunications Office, and was later transferred to the Baoguan Post and Telecommunications Office, when the system was decentralized, the post and telecommunications office was managed by the Baoguan Commune, and for various reasons she went home to farm, and in 82 years the policy was implemented by the Yunwu District Government to arrange work, when she took into account the education and life of her five children and the practical difficulties of the family, she did not accept the work arrangement, and chose to engage in agriculture and business to maintain the family that was not financially rich. The hard work in the fields, the busy family affairs, and the hard and difficult life, the mother did not retreat, but persevered, overcame all kinds of difficulties, faced life with an optimistic and positive attitude, and met the challenges of life. She is highly skilled in collective labor, and every time she completes the labor tasks arranged by the production team ahead of schedule, and then uses the spare time to carry out manual labor, making small commodities such as baby cloth shoes, maltose, and rice candy to sell in the market to subsidize her family. My father had been engaged in carpentry, masonry and other handicrafts for a long time, and all the burdens of the family fell on my mother's shoulders. The family's living fuel is all used by her and her neighbors to cut firewood and pile it at home when she is not working, and at the same time, she also goes to the mountains to pick charcoal and sell it on the street to accumulate the family economy. After the reform and opening up, she got up early in the morning and went to the dark to wholesale rural daily necessities to rush to the market (our rural area is to use the genus to set the day of the market, so the time of the surrounding market towns is inconsistent, and there are places to rush to the market almost every day, which is called the transfer of the field). To get up early to get up early, take a car to the place to set up a stall at about six o'clock in the morning, close the stall after the end of the market, and generally return home at seven or eight o'clock in the evening. It is very hard to rush to transfer early and return late, and it is a mixed load of passengers and goods, and the safety factor is small. In my memory, it happened from time to time to roll over and rush down the road. My mother was injured and went home to take some medicine, and after a rest, she went to the market to set up a stall the next day, and the injury was a little more serious, so she rested for a few days and went to the market again. This is how my mother worked silently, endured hardships and stood hard work, got up early and worked hard in the dark, and made great efforts for the family.
Mother is a diligent and thrifty housekeeper, selfless dedication, optimistic and calm person. Mother is one of the most important people in our lives, she is diligent and thrifty, selfless and selfless to nurture our growth, and give us endless love and care. My family has a small shop, and my father doesn't work outside the home after the age of 60, but keeps the shop at home and takes care of his grandchildren. Instead, the mother took on the burden of the family's financial income. She is strict and tolerant of her children's education, and when she eats and rests at night, she constantly gives her children the truth of treating people and things. She often admonished us to know how to be humble and sincere when we go out, and to respect each other, understand each other, support each other among classmates and friends, and not to bully the weak. As long as you hear that your child is in conflict with someone outside, you should be beaten first when you go home, and warn your child not to cause trouble outside. After education, we will understand the situation of the conflict, and then find the other party to explain the reason and solve the conflict, so that the two sides can shake hands and make peace, and so on in the future. My mother has a friendly and harmonious relationship with her neighbors, and she is very sincere in her dealings with others. All the guests who come to visit can experience the easy-going and warm welcome of their parents, including the classmates and friends we brought home. The hospitality and sincerity of our parents, the home is often full, and it is a gathering place for neighbors to gather and chat, as well as a place for our classmates and friends to visit and party.
She attaches great importance to educating us about our outlook on life and the world. She always taught us to study hard, and only by mastering more knowledge can we enrich our lives. He also often told us about the principles and methods of receiving people and treating people. For those who go out to work and work, we are often patient and enlightened, and we must do everything seriously, not perfunctory, and be worthy of the money. Don't be greedy for small Xixi outside, small cheap, don't take other people's things indiscriminately, you can't eat enough food on your beard, instead of living a life of fear, it is better to be a frank and dignified person.
Mothers are very tolerant and generous in their dealings with their children. She worked hard to raise our five children, helped us start a family, and helped us take care of our children, so that we could work hard and work with peace of mind, and she spent all her life's energy and income on her children and grandchildren. Mothers in their 80s do not want to drag their children down when they are able to take care of themselves, for fear of affecting the harmony of their children's families, and do not want to live with their children and do not ask for their children. Even if they are sometimes strapped for money, they would rather borrow from their neighbors than ask for it from their children, and they will not complain. I also often nag: It's not easy for them, they have to raise children and daughters, and maintain family harmony, as long as they live well, I am very happy. In her heart, she is full of children's good, and she often thinks about what she bought with him, which one will buy from him, which one called her today, which one has a video with her, and so on. In short, she only remembers the kindness of her children and grandchildren to her, and never talks about the disrespect of her children.
Although she does not want to live with her children, in fact, she sincerely hopes that her children and grandchildren will be around her. Every holiday and weekend, he will call one by one, if he can't go home, if he wants to cook, as long as he hears who wants to go back, he will keep calling, asking where he is, and he will be home for a long time, so that he can set up dishes and eat. As long as the children and grandchildren arrive at home, she will be busy, tidying up the house, cooking and cooking, although we see her busy, but we are also very happy to see her happy busy.
Time flies, the mother will slowly grow old, whenever I think of her for the family and children, give up their dreams, pursuits, as children we not only have admiration for her, but also know how to thank the mother for her dedication. Mother is the most important person in our lives, and she nourishes us with selfless love. Without asking for anything in return, her greatest wish is to hope that her children and grandchildren will be safe, healthy and happy, work smoothly, and have a harmonious family. We are now also parents, and we truly understand and feel the greatness of father's love and mother's love, and we also know how to be tolerant and understanding of our children. Mom, as your children, we have nothing to reciprocate, only silently pay attention to your physical health and living conditions, and be by your side as much as possible, and we will remember your love and dedication to us.
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