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You can sing praises, but you can't kidnap them, your parents are great, and you can't just ask your mother to be great
I casually complained that day that it would be nice if a man could have a baby, my brother was immediately anxious, and he was very angry and said why should a man have a child. I was stunned at the time, and he was only twelve years old, and for a moment I thought he was so annoying.
Motherhood is not just a physiological aspect of morning sickness. What is even more terrifying is the bondage at the cultural level, the moral kidnapping. Yes, it is natural for a mother to take care of her children, and if she does not take her children, she will criticize her verbally and penny, and her father with her children is a good father
If there is any big problem, there is a high probability that he will be divorced, and it is quite miserable for the child to bring it to the man. I heard that the woman was depressed after giving birth and didn't make trouble, and her husband directly asked her to die, and a friend of the same age as this girl told me about the real incident.
The same husband, I still vomited to my husband for more than three months and scolded the baby through the belly, and told me distressedly that I would not suffer this crime if I didn't give birth. At night, when I rolled over, he woke up immediately to see if I was not feeling well. I'm not afraid to have a child, I'm afraid that that person is not worth it.
I have seen a man who had sinusitis surgery so frightened that he ran off the operating table, and several doctors and nurses couldn't pull it off
2 hours after giving birth, my wife was pushed out extremely weakly, the doctor said that the most serious tear, felt swollen bigger than the basin; and then the nurse came to deal with it, like a dough, completely belly directly against the back and forth rubbing; I saw that I was in tears, although she didn't feel pain, I later thought, where did the human internal organs go?
I especially hate the kind of "after giving birth to a child, you should be a mother", "you have to be the mother of the child first, and the child is the main thing".
Why do you think girls are afraid to have children?