We often say, "The most beautiful thing is the red sunset." ”
In their old age, people have a lot of time to use, some old people go to the mountains and rivers and travel everywhere, some old people raise flowers and grass to live in their old age, and some old people practice calligraphy, play chess and fish, and go to universities for the elderly, in this way they pass the leisure time.
Of course, the quality of life of the elderly in their later years depends on all aspects, first of all, they must be healthy, secondly, they must have a sufficient economic foundation, and more importantly, they must have spiritual enrichment. There is a confidant wife by their side, physically they take care of each other and support each other, and spiritually they trust each other to comfort each other, so that the old age can be considered happy, in order to achieve this wish many single old people have been working hard.
The uncle was widowed for two months and went on a blind date, and the young and beautiful aunt in the picture, he tried his best to chase the aunt into his hands, and planned to grow old with the aunt and live in a two-person world, so as to fill the emptiness in his heart. What's going on?
Uncle Li is 58 years old, with a pension of 3,500 yuan, and a house of 80 square meters.
In terms of material, Uncle Li was greatly satisfied, and he was very unsatisfactory in spirit, the reason was that his wife died of illness, and Uncle Li was lonely, no one accompanied him, and no one took care of him, and the feeling of loneliness was really uncomfortable.
Uncle Li and his wife have been together for most of their lives, they have a good relationship, rarely quarrel, and have the same views on many issues, which can be regarded as soul mates. After retirement, my wife did her best to do laundry, cooking, housework, and take care of Uncle Li's food, clothing, and daily life. Uncle Li thought that he could spend the rest of his life hand in hand with his wife, but this was not the case.
My wife was sick and couldn't walk. Uncle Li has always been by the bedside to take care of him, and Uncle Li has fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband. Even so, Uncle Li still did not keep his wife's life. Uncle Li spent a lot of money and put in a lot of effort, but as a result, others were empty, can they not be sad and sad?
During that time, Uncle Li was depressed, his spirit was sluggish, and his whole person was not good, he washed his face with tears all day long, he didn't think about tea and food, and his state was worrying. In order to get out of the pain of losing his wife as soon as possible, Uncle Li came up with a bold idea.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "The best way to forget a person is a new love or time." Uncle Li didn't want to spend time forgetting about his wife, so he chose another method. Uncle Li plans to find a new wife and start a new life through a new love.
Uncle Li said that he would do it, and he began to go on blind dates frequently through a TV marriage program. Uncle Li's own conditions are good, his requirements for the other half are naturally very high, he wants to find a healthy, gentle and considerate, young and beautiful, slender wife, Uncle Li feels that a woman who meets these conditions can be worthy of him, and marrying such a woman, his old age will be happy.
Uncle Li has seen a lot of blind dates, but he is not satisfied, he either dislikes the other party's appearance, or he dislikes the other party's honesty, has no interest in life, and has no way to have a spiritual fit with him, so Uncle Li refuses.
Aunt Zhao is 56 years old, well-maintained and can dress up, with a good figure and sweet appearance, she can be regarded as a leader among her peers. Aunt Zhao has been divorced for many years, has a pension of 2,300 yuan, and has a 70-square-meter house. Aunt Zhao is healthy, cheerful, likes to sing and dance, and also likes to shoot videos for live broadcasts.
Aunt Zhao envies the love of other people's husbands and wives and the harmony of the family, but looking at herself, she guards the empty house alone, which is really uncomfortable. Aunt Zhao can't help but have the idea of remarrying, she doesn't have high requirements for the other half, as long as he is healthy, has no bad habits, can treat her well, and give her good living conditions.
Uncle Li was attracted by Aunt Zhao's beauty, and at the same time moved by Aunt Zhao's warm and cheerful personality. Aunt Zhao's impression is also good, she thinks that Uncle Li is gentle and elegant, eloquent, knowledgeable and cultured, he is a good man, and their first impression is very good.
Uncle Li made no secret of his special situation, he said that his wife had passed away for more than two months, and he chose to go on a blind date in order to get out of the pain of bereavement as soon as possible, but his attitude towards feelings was very sincere, as long as he identified a woman, he would definitely stay with her for the rest of his life. At the same time, he will try his best to spoil her, love her, meet her life needs, and provide her with superior and comfortable material security.
Uncle Li is willing to bear the living expenses, and is also willing to give the other party pocket money, take the initiative to hand over the salary, and will also use practical actions to express the most sincere love for his wife, Uncle Li is full of sincerity, threatening that no matter which woman marries him, he will live a good life, and he will pamper his wife like a princess.
Aunt Zhao doesn't care that Uncle Li is widowed, and she doesn't care that Uncle Li is old and ugly, she thinks that Uncle Li is a good man with responsibility and responsibility. Although Uncle Li's wife died not long ago, the true feelings he showed were really moving. In addition, Uncle Li's economic conditions are good, he has a house and savings, and he can be regarded as a high-quality man. Out of this consideration, Aunt Zhao agreed to come down.
They plan to have further relationships, Aunt Zhao is willing to move to Uncle Li's house, they get along for a while, and at the same time increase understanding, enhance feelings, and examine whether the other party is the person they really like, whether they are really suitable for themselves, and then decide whether they want to get a license to get married. Uncle Li specially bought a bouquet of flowers to express his deep friendship with Aunt Zhao, and this blind date was very successful.
This incident has attracted widespread attention from netizens. Many people agree with Uncle Li's approach, believing that the most important thing for people in old age is to have a confidant wife, they go shopping together, travel together, and enjoy a happy old age together. With an old wife who understands him, appreciates him, and accompanies him, the quality of life of the elderly will be higher, and the old man's life will be happier in his later years.
More people are not optimistic about this relationship because they have a problem with their attitude towards the relationship. Uncle Li was widowed not long ago, he should have sorted out his emotions, adjusted his state, and used time to heal, which was not only responsible for himself, but also the memory of his wife, Uncle Li did not do this, he just ran to a blind date, planning to find a new wife to relieve loneliness and loneliness, this practice is not advisable.
Some people also ridiculed: "It is a recognized fact that men like beautiful women, and no matter how old a man is, he likes young and beautiful women!"
Uncle Li was widowed for two months and went on a blind date, do you agree with his approach? Do you think Uncle Li and Aunt Zhao are suitable for marriage? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.