Marriage is the most important and happy event for men and women. Chinese still want to have a real Chinese wedding in their bones. The customs of Chinese weddings are rich and colorful, reflecting China's deep cultural heritage and respect for marriage. Banchengyue spent 2 days to compile a complete set of process lists for Chinese weddings, including 20 items in 5 major aspects.
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1. Pre-marriage preparations.
1. Proposal: The man's family goes to the woman's house to formally propose his intention to marry.
2. Nacai: The man's family sends a matchmaker or goes to the woman's house in person to propose marriage to the woman, and the marriage contract is confirmed with the consent of the woman.
3. Ask for a name: The man asks the woman's name and birth date to get married to see if the two are compatible.
4. Najib: If the characters of both parties match, the engagement ceremony will be held on an auspicious day.
5. Recruitment: The man sends a dowry gift to the woman's home, including money and money, to show his sincerity.
6. Invitation period: The two parties negotiate to determine the specific date of marriage.
7. Make a bed: Before getting married, prepare the wedding bed for the couple and perform some auspicious rituals, such as sprinkling red dates, peanuts and other items that symbolize fertility and good fortune.
8. Purchase of dowry: The woman prepares the dowry, including furniture, jewelry, etc.
9. Prepare for the wedding banquet: The families of both parties prepare the wedding banquet, including the dishes, venue decoration, etc.
Second, welcome relatives.
10. Wedding: The groom leads the wedding party to the woman's house to marry the bride.
11. Out of the cabinet: The bride is accompanied by her mother or other female elders to leave her mother's house and go to the man's house.
12. Crossing the door: When the bride arrives at the man's house accompanied by relatives and friends, she usually needs to cross a brazier or a threshold, which means to ward off evil spirits.
3. Enter the cave room.
13. The bride enters the cave room and waits for the wedding ceremony to begin.
14. The groom and the man's relatives and friends greet the guests and prepare for the chapel.
4. Wedding ceremonies.
15. Chapel: The newlyweds worship heaven and earth, worship the high hall (parents), and the husband and wife worship each other under the auspices of the elders or the officiant.
16. Tea ceremony: The couple offers tea to both parents, and the parents give red envelopes or jewelry as blessings.
17. Wedding Reception: Hold a wedding banquet to celebrate with family and friends.
18. Haunted Cave Room: Friends and relatives joke and play games in the couple's cave room to add to the joyful atmosphere of the wedding.
5. Post-marital activities.
19. Returning home: On the third day of marriage, the newlyweds go back to the woman's house to visit, and the woman's family hosts a banquet to entertain them.
20. Honeymoon: Newlyweds embark on their honeymoon trip and enjoy the world for two.
。 Even so, the basic traditional meaning and cultural connotation of Chinese wedding are still retained, and the core cultural values contained in it are still cherished and inherited.
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