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Thirty-year-old Xiao Ming and twenty-eight-year-old Xiao Hong are a couple who love each other. They have been married for many years and have a three-year-old son, Xiaoqiang. An ordinary working family, life is quite ordinary and happy.
Until one day, Xiao Ming's mother, Grandma Yang, suddenly came to their house and offered to help take care of Xiao Qiang.
"The child is so young, mom will help you carry it, and you two will be more relaxed. Grandma Yang said kindly.
Xiaohong was slightly uncomfortable, she felt that it was her responsibility as a mother to take care of the child, and she didn't want to trouble others. "Grandma, you are really good, but Brother Ming and I have taken good care of the child, so you can rest. ”
Grandma Yang's face suddenly sank, "What's the matter, Hong'er, you don't let your mother-in-law help take care of the children? This is not the way of a good daughter-in-law." ”
Xiao Ming saw that the atmosphere of his wife and mother was a little delicate, and hurriedly persuaded, "Mom, don't be angry. What Xiaohong said also makes sense, it's good for the two of us to take care of the children together. It's time for you to get some rest, too. ”
"I'm your elder, do I need your permission to take care of my grandson?" Grandma Yang said in a bad tone.
Xiaohong felt a little aggrieved, she lowered her head and said, "Grandma, I didn't mean that, I just think that taking care of the children is the responsibility of our husband and wife, so you should come to rest as a guest." ”
"What do you mean by 'the responsibility of our husband and wife'? Am I not the child's own grandmother? I don't think you are filial, and you don't take me as a grandmother in your eyes!" Grandma Yang said angrily.
Seeing this, Xiao Ming hurriedly played a round, "Mom, don't be angry first. Of course, we hope you can help more, but Xiaohong may have her own ideas. We can discuss it slowly, don't rush. ”
Grandma Yang snorted coldly, "Discuss, I see that you were deceived by your daughter-in-law." Well, since you won't let me help, then I won't force it. I'll go back now, and I won't bother you in the future. After saying that, Grandma Yang turned around and was about to leave.
Xiaohong hurriedly took her hand, "Grandma, don't be angry. We can discuss, and if you want to help, we're welcome. ”
"Hmph, do you still know about discussion?" Grandma Yang looked at Xiaohong with disdain, shook off her hand, and walked away without looking back.
Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong looked at each other, and their faces were full of disbelief and helplessness. How did this turn into such an embarrassing situation, which was originally a simple family visit?Xiao Ming sighed and put his arm on his wife's shoulder, "Don't be sad, I'll tell my mother." ”
Seeing Grandma Yang leave angrily, Xiao Ming was inevitably a little anxious and worried. He turned his head and gently comforted his wife, "Don't be angry, I'll go talk to my mother, I'm sure she will understand." ”
Xiaohong nodded, her eyes full of helplessness, "I don't want to get into trouble with my mother-in-law like this, but I really think that it is the responsibility of our husband and wife to take care of the children, and we shouldn't trouble my mother-in-law." ”
"I know, I'll communicate with her. You have a good rest at home first, and I'll talk to my mother. Xiao Ming patted his wife's hand soothingly, and then chased after him quickly.
Soon, he rushed to Grandma Yang's house. The old man was sitting on the couch and sulking.
"Mom, I'm really sorry for what happened just now. Xiao Ming said sincerely, "I know you came to help out of good intentions, but Xiaohong does have her own ideas, don't be angry." ”
Grandma Yang snorted coldly, "You said she has her own ideas? She is just not filial, and she doesn't take me as a grandmother in her eyes! I raised a son of yours, can't I even take care of my grandson now?"
"Mom, don't say that. Xiaohong has never meant to be unfilial, she just feels that taking care of the children is the responsibility of our husband and wife. You also know that we both have jobs and are busy during the day and need your help. Xiao Ming patiently explained.
"Hmph, that's why you don't want my help as a grandmother. Well, in that case, I won't bother you again in the future. Grandma Yang said coldly.
"Mom, don't say that. You are our elder and your help and support is too important to us. We just hope you understand our thoughts and give us some time and space to take care of the children. If you're really bored, it's okay to come over and spend time with your kids once in a while. Xiao Ming sincerely persuaded.
Grandma Yang was silent for a moment, and finally showed a little softness in her eyes, "You're right." I just wish I could spend more time with the kids, after all, you two are too busy to have time. ”
"I know that you are in your heart. Otherwise, let's discuss, you can come to our house to help take care of Xiaoqiang, but you also have to respect our opinion. Let's discuss how to arrange it together. Xiao Ming sincerely proposed.
"Well, that's fine. Grandma Yang nodded, "I don't have to bring it myself, as long as you don't reject me." ”
"Great, Mom, don't worry, we will arrange it well. Xiao Ming breathed a sigh of relief and said happily.
At the same time, Xiaohong was home alone, thinking about what had just happened. She actually doesn't want to go toe-to-toe with her mother-in-law, she just feels that taking care of the children is the responsibility of the husband and wife, and she doesn't want to trouble each other too much. But now it seems that she has made her mother-in-law feel unvalued, and she feels very uncomfortable.
At this moment, Xiao Ming pushed the door in, "Xiaohong, I've talked to my mother." She said that she could come to help take care of Xiaoqiang in the future, but we still have to discuss specific matters. ”
Xiaohong was stunned for a moment, and then showed a relieved smile, "That's good." It's not that I don't want my mother-in-law to help, I just think that taking care of the children should be our husband and wife's business. ”
"I understand your thoughts. Xiao Ming walked over and hugged his wife, "I explained your concerns to my mother, and she understood." In the future, the three of us will discuss together how to arrange the most suitable arrangement. ”
"Well, that's good. Xiaohong nodded, her eyes full of gratitude, "Thank you so much for speaking for me, and I don't want to be unhappy with my mother-in-law." ”
"Fool, you are my wife, of course I will speak for you. Xiao Ming touched his wife's hair dotingly, "Let's discuss it carefully and see how to arrange for my mother-in-law to help so that everyone is satisfied." ”
"Good. Xiaohong smiled and nodded, "I believe that as long as everyone communicates well, we will definitely find a way to make everyone comfortable." ”
In this way, on the basis of mutual understanding and tolerance, Xiao Ming's family finally resolved this family conflict. In the following days, the three of them discussed together and decided that Grandma Yang would help take care of them two days a week, and Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong would take care of the rest of the time. Everyone was satisfied with the arrangement, and the family became more and more harmonious.
Under the arrangement of Grandma Yang to help take care of Xiaoqiang regularly, Xiao Ming's family's life has become more and more regular. Grandma Yang comes twice a week, when the children are taking a nap or in the evening, to help feed and put them to sleep, so that Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong can have time to do their own things.
Xiaohong was originally worried that there would be some estrangement between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but she didn't expect that Grandma Yang actually loved Xiaoqiang very much, and she was careful when taking care of her children. Xiaohong also gradually let down her guard in her heart and took the initiative to ask her mother-in-law for some parenting experience, and the two got along more harmoniously.
With the help of grandma, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong's quality of life has improved significantly. They can work with peace of mind during the day, spend more time with their children at night, and the family of three gets along more warmly.
Sometimes, Xiao Ming would come home early after work to help his wife tidy up the house. Xiaohong felt very happy when she watched her husband carefully help clean and cook.
"Brother Ming, why did you come back so early today?" Xiaohong asked in surprise.
"Of course I'm coming back to help you!" Xiao Ming said with a smile, "You've been too tired to be alone lately, and I want to do my best." ”
Xiaohong walked over and kissed her husband on the cheek, "It's so good, it's great to have you here." Let's cook together, so we can play with Xiaoqiang early. ”
The two of them made dinner with their hands and feet, and Xiaoqiang also woke up from his nap. Xiao Ming picked up the child and teased his little face, "Come, Xiaoqiang, dad will play with you!"
Xiaoqiang giggled and reached out to grab his father's face. Xiaohong watched the intimate interaction between her husband and son, and felt extremely happy in her heart. She walked over and gently kissed Xiaoqiang's forehead, "My good baby, mom will also play with you." ”
Just then, the doorbell rang. Xiaohong opened the door curiously, only to see Grandma Yang standing outside the door.
"Grandma, why are you here at this time?" Xiaohong was a little puzzled.
"Oh, I'm here to see if my little darling has eaten and slept properly. Grandma Yang smiled.
Xiaohong hurriedly let her grandmother in the door, "Don't worry, Xiaoqiang has always been very well-behaved." I took care of him with Brother Ming and he was healthy. ”
"Really? That's good. Grandma Yang nodded with satisfaction, "You two have really worked hard, and having me can give you more time to do things on your own." ”
"Grandma, you are our greatest reliance. Xiaohong said sincerely, "With you here, we are really much more relaxed." ”
"Oh, you're such a sensible girl. Grandma Yang smiled and touched Xiaohong's hair.
Seeing this, Xiao Ming also walked over, "Mom, why are you here so early today?"
"I just wanted to come and see my precious grandson. Grandma Yang smiled and said, "It's not easy for you two, it's easier to have me helping." ”
"Thank you so much. Xiao Ming said sincerely, "Our family can be so harmonious, all thanks to you." ”
"Gee, you're all good boys. Grandma Yang smiled and shook her head, "I just do my best to do a little bit, you are the most amazing." ”
The family chatted happily in the living room, and the atmosphere was warm and happy. Xiaohong watched the intimate interaction between her husband and mother-in-law, and a warm current surged in her heart. She finally understood that what she needed to be able to make her family live together was mutual understanding and tolerance.
Since having the help of his grandmother, the quality of life of Xiao Ming's family has improved significantly. Xiaohong no longer needs to do all the housework and take care of the children alone, and has more time to spend with her husband and children. And Xiao Ming can also focus more on his work and have more energy to care for his wife after work.
Gradually, the problem of child-rearing, which might have caused conflicts, was resolved with the joint efforts of everyone. The relationship between Xiaohong and Grandma Yang has also become more and more harmonious, discussing children's affairs together, supporting and understanding each other.
This kind of life makes Xiao Ming's family feel extremely satisfied and happy. They know that only by understanding and tolerating each other can families truly live in harmony.
As time passed, Xiao Ming's family's life became more and more happy. With Grandma Yang's help, Xiaohong was able to spend more time with her children and take some time to take care of herself.
Whenever Grandma Yang came to their house, Xiaohong would always greet them warmly, "Grandma, you are so nice." With your help, we've really made it a lot easier. ”
"Oh, you, you're just too polite. Grandma Yang couldn't put it down and hugged Xiaoqiang, "How can I, a grandmother, not help my grandson?"
Xiao Ming stood aside and watched the intimate interaction between the two women with a smile, "Mom, you are so good, our family is very grateful to you." ”
"Okay, okay, you're so polite. Grandma Yang said kindly, "Naturally, I want to love my grandson well." You two just work hard and support your family well, and I'll take care of the children. ”
"Thank you so much. Xiao Ming said sincerely, "Our family is very happy, all because of you." ”
Grandma Yang waved her hand, "You're just too good at saying nice things." I think you are the most amazing, and the children are raised so well by you. ”
The family gathered in the living room, and the atmosphere was warm and harmonious. Xiaohong looked at the scene in front of her, and her heart was full of gratitude and happiness.
"Brother Ming, I really appreciate you being able to help me convince my grandmother. If it weren't for your efforts, we'd still be arguing about it. Xiaohong said softly.
"Fool, you are my wife, of course I will speak for you. Xiao Ming touched his wife's hair dotingly, "The most important thing is that our family should get along in harmony." ”
"Yes, with Grandma's help, our lives have indeed been a lot easier. I can finally find time to spend time with you and Xiaoqiang. Xiaohong leaned into her husband's arms and said contentedly.
"Of course. Xiao Ming hugged his wife, "You are the most important person to me, and I will always treat you well." ”
At this moment, Xiao Qiang let out a cheerful cry, which attracted everyone's attention. Grandma Yang hugged her grandson lovingly, "Oh, my little darling, you want to join us too?"
Xiaohong walked over with a smile, "Xiaoqiang, you are so good, you have to listen to grandma." ”
Watching his wife and son interact intimately with his mother-in-law, Xiao Ming's heart was full of satisfaction and happiness. He knows that as long as everyone understands each other, the family will become more and more harmonious.
In this way, Grandma Yang came regularly every week to help take care of Xiaoqiang, and the family's life became more and more regular. Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong also took advantage of this to have more time to cultivate their hobbies, and their lives became more and more colorful.
Sometimes, Xiao Ming will take Xiao Qiang to the park for a walk and exercise. Under the leadership of his father, Xiaoqiang began to learn to walk, and every successful attempt made him excited. Xiao Ming watched his son grow up little by little, and his heart was full of pride and joy.
In her free time, she learns to cook and prepares her husband and son's favorite dishes. She enjoys researching recipes so that her family can enjoy delicious food. Seeing the family happily eating the food they cooked, Xiaohong felt extremely relieved.
At the same time, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong did not neglect their own personal development. Tom finds time to learn new skills and hopes to be promoted to work. Xiaohong regularly goes to the gym to exercise and maintain a good figure.
With the support and love of their families, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong have become more confident and positive. They know that as long as they understand each other and help each other, a happy family will be built.
On weekends, the whole family goes for a walk or play in the park. Xiaoqiang had a great time under the care of his grandparents. Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong looked at their son's cheerful appearance, and they couldn't hide their relief.
"Seeing Xiaoqiang so well-behaved, I really thank you, grandma. Xiaohong sincerely thanked Grandma Yang.
"Oh, you're welcome. I, as a grandmother, should love my grandson. Grandma Yang said lovingly.
"Mom, you're so nice. With your help, our family's life will be so happy. Xiao Ming sincerely thanked his mother.
"Alright, alright, don't praise me. I think you're the most amazing!" Grandma Yang smiled and shook her head.
The family walks in the sun, laughing and laughing. Xiaohong held her husband's hand tightly, and her heart was full of satisfaction and happiness. This is the perfect family she has longed for for a long time, and with the love and support of her loved ones, life will be so happy.