If you "routine" your child with your heart, your child will become better and better, and your parents' language will affect your child's life

"Mom, I didn't win, am I stupid?" My youngest son, Xiaoyu, looked at me with tears in his eyes, clutching his painting in his hand, which was his work in a painting competition held at school.

I crouched down and hugged him gently, "You know, my mom was often not the first when I was a kid, but every time I tried, I learned something new and became a little smarter." What did you learn today?"

Xiao Yu wiped his tears and thought for a while, "I learned how to draw the leaves of a big tree." ”

"Look, that's progress. I smiled and encouraged him, "Every attempt brings you closer to success." You're great, you know?"

This conversation made me think deeply about the impact of parents' words on children. Every word from a parent can become a seed in the child's heart and affect their growth. I decided to write an article about how to "routine" my child with my heart and make him better through positive language.

At the beginning of the article, I described a conversation with Xiaoyu, introducing the theme with this vivid scene. I wrote: "In the process of growing up, parents' language is not only a communication tool, but also a pillar of self-perception. ”

In the article, I continue to explore the power of positive language. As I answered to Xiaoyu, it is more important to emphasize learning and growth. I share several positive language strategies that parents can employ, such as emphasizing the process of effort rather than the outcome, expressing recognition and support for their child's attempts, and teaching children how to find learning opportunities from each experience.

I also introduced research from psychology to illustrate how positive feedback and positive motivation can help children build self-confidence and how to express unconditional support for children through verbal expression.

In each part of the article, I have carefully inserted fragments of real conversations with children, so that the theory and practical life are closely integrated, so that readers can better empathize.

Finally, I summarized the importance of parental language and encouraged all parents to pay more attention to their daily communication with their children. "Our language is the nourishment for children's growth, let us use the most beautiful words to accompany them to grow into better people. ”

After finishing this article, I felt a deep sense of satisfaction. This is not only a commitment to Xiaoyu, but also a reminder to all parents. In this challenging world, positive words are one of the most precious gifts we can give our children.