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"Mom, when do you think it's better to get married?" Son Xiao Ming asked, looking at his fiancée Xiao Hong beside him.
"It's better early next year, when the weather won't be too cold. Xiaohong suggested, in a gentle tone.
I was sitting on the couch listening to the two of us discussing the date of marriage, when suddenly I felt the world spin and my stomach churned. I quickly covered my mouth for fear of throwing up on the spot.
"Mom, are you alright?" Seeing this, Xiao Ming hurriedly helped me and asked.
Fragments of the past echoed in my mind. Twenty-five years ago, I was a young and beautiful bride, smiling in the mirror and imagining her future life. At that time, I had good hopes that my married life would be smooth sailing.
My face was pale, my brow furrowed, and I was in a cold sweat. Seeing this, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong hurriedly helped me to the sofa, and Xiao Hong also brought me a glass of warm water.
"Mom, what's wrong with you? Xiao Ming asked with concern.
I fought back against the feeling of nausea, trying to calm my breath and try to calm myself down.
I nodded, in a trance. After the doctor told me some precautions, he asked me to go back and have a good rest.
"What's the matter, Mom?" Xiao Ming asked.
Xiaohong covered her mouth, tears streaming straight down.
I had mixed feelings inside. On the one hand, I am extremely happy and looking forward to being able to get pregnant again. Just like when I was pregnant with Xiao Ming, a new life will be born in my womb again, which is a gift from God to me.
On the other hand, I am well aware that I am not young and my body functions have deteriorated in all aspects, and it will be very difficult to withstand the trials of pregnancy and childbirth. What's more, I should have been a kind grandmother and enjoyed the joy of family, instead of being a mother at this age.
My brain was in a mess, and I couldn't concentrate on how to deal with this "surprise".
My palm gently touched my lower abdomen, and my eyes were a little distracted. Seeing this, Xiaohong's tears flowed down her face, and she almost couldn't breathe from crying.
I sighed, tears streaming down my face. Seeing this, Xiaohong quickly hugged me and cried bitterly.
I nodded: "Of course, this is a gift from heaven, how can I miss it?"
I interrupted him: "Don't worry, Mom has always been in good health and should be able to survive this pregnancy." As for your marriage, why not postpone it for a year? Anyway, you are so young, it would be better for us to wait until the child is born. "
Xiao Ming wanted to say something more, Xiao Hong pulled his sleeve, the two looked at each other, and finally didn't say anything.
Over the next few days, I shared this "surprise" with other friends and family, and it was met with a variety of reactions and suggestions.
Some people blessed me and said it was a gift from heaven and something to be happy about. Some people also advised me to think twice, I was afraid that my body would not be able to bear it when I was too old.
My heart is also at war with heaven and man. On the one hand, I certainly hope that this new life will come smoothly and that I can feel the joy of motherhood again. But on the other hand, I also know that my body is not as good as before, and if something goes wrong, it will be more than worth the loss.
My brain was in a mess and I couldn't make up my mind whether or not I wanted this child. There were a few times when I even had the idea of defeating it, but in the end, I couldn't make that choice.
In those days, I was sometimes in a thoughtful daze, sometimes anxiously pacing around. Sometimes I unconsciously caress my lower abdomen, as if I can feel the presence of the child in my belly; Sometimes I would cover my face and sit in my chair in pain.
Seeing my capricious appearance, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong didn't say anything more, just quietly accompanied me. Sometimes Xiaohong would cook me some nutritious meals, and sometimes Xiao Ming would buy some maternity nutrition products back, and both of them expressed their love and support in their own ways.
After more than a week like this, one day Xiao Ming finally couldn't hold back and had a fierce quarrel with me.
"Mom, can't you think twice?" Xiao Ming said angrily, "Look at your current appearance, the whole person is about to collapse! If you continue like this, your body will not be able to bear it!"
"You know what?" I retorted, "You can't relate to what it's like to be a mother! This child is priceless to me, how can I miss out on God's gift?"
I struggled a lot. Reason tells me that it is too risky to get pregnant at my age, and the consequences will be unimaginable if my body can't bear it. But whenever I think of the child in my belly, I am extremely eager for its birth, hoping that it can come into this world in good health.
However, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong's words also tormented me on the other hand. How could I ignore my family and rest on my laurels and only think about my own needs? If something really goes wrong, it will be endless pain and self-blame among my relatives.
I was teary-eyed and helpless. Seeing this, Xiao Ming angrily threw the door out; Xiaohong cried bitterly, covered her face and sat on the sofa.
It was a stalemate for several days, and the atmosphere was tense all the time. Until one day, Xiao Ming suddenly took the initiative to find me and said solemnly: "Mom, let's have a good talk." "
Xiaohong also nodded on the side. I took a deep breath, tried to calm myself, and said, "Okay, you guys." "
At this point, my eyes couldn't help but moisten again. Seeing this, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong both showed guilty looks.
I nodded, took a deep breath, and said slowly, "I know, I understand your concerns. But in the past few days, I have been thinking repeatedly that as long as the three of us work together, we will be able to get through this difficult time. "
"In this way, you can rest assured, my mother will be extra careful and will definitely take care of her body. After the birth of the child, we will arrange your marriage, and now the marriage date will be postponed for one year. When the time comes, you will become a wife, and your mother will also be a grandmother, and our family will be happy, wouldn't it be better?"
When I said this, my heart was finally relieved. After a few days of repeated struggles, I finally made up my mind to keep this child. I am well aware that this decision may cause a lot of inconvenience to my family, but as long as we work together, understand and tolerate each other, we will be able to get through this difficult time.
I secretly made up my mind to take care of my health and make sure that this child could be born smoothly. As long as the three of us are in the same boat, we will definitely be able to get through this difficult time. At that time, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong will be able to get married in the name of justice, and I will be fortunate to be my grandmother, and our family will be so happy and happy.
When I think about this, my heart is filled with anticipation and joy. I felt as if I had rediscovered the courage and motivation to live. With the addition of this new life, our family's life will be more colorful.
Looking at my determined eyes, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong also seemed to realize the determination in my heart. The two glanced at each other, and finally nodded slowly as if they had made up their minds.
"Okay Mom, now that you've figured it out, let's go all out and get through this together. Xiao Ming said, a smile blooming on his face again.
Xiaohong also nodded vigorously, although there were still tears in the corners of her eyes, but her face also showed a look of relief.
With a happy smile on my face, I opened my arms and embraced both of them together. Although there is still a long way to go, as long as we work together, understand and tolerate each other, we will be able to overcome this difficult time and welcome the arrival of new life.
I gently stroked my lower abdomen, as if I could feel the child breathing and beating. I believe that as long as we are in the same boat as a family, we will be able to usher in a better future.
After this ordeal, the relationship between the three of us has also become more intimate. One day, I invited a few good friends over to my house, and while we were chatting, the topic inevitably talked about my pregnancy.
"Ouch, Auntie, you're such an amazing woman!" A friend sincerely admired, "It's a gift from God to be able to conceive a child at an age!"
"Yes, yes, Auntie, you're so lucky. Another friend also said enviously, "But if it were me, I might not be able to bear this kind of physical and mental pressure." "
I smiled and said, "Indeed, I was also confused and hesitant at first. But then I figured out that life is so precious, how could I miss this opportunity? As long as we are a family with one heart and one mind, we will definitely be able to tide over the difficulties. "
"Mom has a point. Xiao Ming said approvingly, "Although we were worried at first, now that we think about it, it is a happy and beautiful thing to have a new life to join our family." "
"yes. Xiaohong also nodded, with a happy smile on her face, "I'm also looking forward to the arrival of this new life now." When the time comes, we will become a family of three, and my mother will also be a kind grandmother, so the scene must be very warm and beautiful. "
Listening to the blessings and praise of my friends, my heart was even more determined to keep this child. I realized that life is so precious and amazing, and we should cherish and embrace it instead of seeing it as a burden and a trouble.
I began to reflect on my life journey. From young to middle-aged, and now to old age, I have experienced too many ups and downs in my life. There were difficult times, but in the end, our family always got through it; I have also experienced a happy time and enjoyed the joy of family. And now, life has given me a new opportunity to relive the joy and joy of motherhood.
Since then, our family has been fully engaged in preparing for the arrival of a new life.
Ming and Hong postponed their scheduled wedding for a year and focused on helping me. Xiaohong often researches some nutritious recipes and takes care of my diet carefully; Xiao Ming would accompany me to the hospital regularly for check-ups and carefully discuss the precautions during pregnancy with the doctors. Sometimes they divide the work between them, one of them stays home with me, and the other goes out to buy what I need.
It was in this warm family atmosphere that my pregnancy gradually stabilized. Although there are still some reactions occasionally, as long as Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong are by my side, I can recover quickly.
One day, Xiaohong said to me with great interest: "Sister, let's prepare some small objects for the baby now, and when it is born, it can be used immediately." "
I nodded my head again and again, my eyes shining with happiness. Seeing this, Xiao Ming also said: "Yes, yes, let's go to the mall together and buy some supplies for the baby." "
I felt as if I was re-energized and my life was rejuvenated. Although I am not young anymore, with this new life added, my life will become more colorful. I began to look forward to how happy and happy my family would be when the baby was born.
I made up my mind that I must take extra care of my body to ensure that this baby can be born smoothly. As long as our family works together and helps each other, we will definitely be able to overcome this difficult time and welcome the arrival of a new life.
The three of us walked around the baby products area with laughter and laughter, Xiao Ming picked up a small dress, Xiao Hong picked up a baby bottle, and I played with a small doll.
"Mom, what do you think of this dress? I think it's cute. Xiao Ming said to me with a smile.
"Well, that's good. I smiled and nodded, my eyes shining with happiness, "But this color may not be suitable, let's look at something else." "
Seeing this, Xiaohong clapped her hands happily: "Okay, okay, then let's pick slowly, anyway, there is still more time." "
We were chatting and laughing as we picked out all kinds of supplies, and we were excited to discuss each item. Looking at their elated appearances, my heart was even more determined to welcome a new life.
After a few hours of careful selection, we finally bought a whole bunch of baby products. Xiao Hong was holding a large pile of clothes, Xiao Ming was holding a bottle and cloth in his hand, and I was holding a beautiful crib with a happy smile on my face.
We smiled all the way home and began to make the final preparations for the arrival of the baby. Looking at this heartwarming scene, I sincerely thank God for giving us this new life and rejuvenating our family.
In this way, under the careful care of my family, my pregnancy gradually came to an end. One morning, I suddenly felt a sharp pain in my abdomen, and quickly woke up Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong.
"What's the matter, Mom, are you alright?" Xiao Ming supported me nervously.
Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong hurriedly carried me into the car and rushed to the hospital. Along the way, I was in a cold sweat, and Xiaohong kept holding my hand and comforting me.
When I arrived at the hospital, the doctor quickly arranged surgery for me. I was lying on the operating table, and Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong were nervously guarding the side.
"Don't be afraid Mom, come on! everything will be fine!" Xiao Ming encouraged.
"Sister, you must be strong, we are all here with you!" Xiaohong also nodded repeatedly.
Lying on the operating table, my brain was a little messy. The intense pain left me a little delirious, but more of it was the infinite anticipation of a new life.
I began to think back to the scene when I was born Xiao Ming. I wasn't very old at the time, but the pain of childbirth was quite intense. However, the moment I saw Xiao Ming born, all the pain seemed to disappear. I remember that when little him lay in my arms, my heart was filled with happiness and joy that I had never experienced before.
Thinking of this, my heart is also filled with infinite anticipation for this new life. I secretly swore that no matter how painful it was, I would persevere, and I would definitely see the moment this baby was born. With the company of Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong, I will definitely do it.