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Back in 1988, on the festive night of the New Year, Song Zuying was in the backstage of the Spring Festival Gala, nervous as if she was in a stormy sea, and almost wanted to cry.
As an ordinary girl who walked out of a small town, she was fortunate to be on this stage of global attention, and she had an endless sense of honor in her heart.
However, when she saw the audience full of seats, Song Zuying's heart couldn't help beating wildly, and her whole body trembled. Those lyrics that I once knew by heart seemed to have disappeared without a trace at this time, and no matter how hard I tried to recall, I couldn't find a word.
Song Zuying's anxious expression attracted the attention of the on-site staff, who began to impatiently urge her to adjust her state as soon as possible. As we all know, the live broadcast of the Spring Festival Gala does not allow the slightest mistake, and any small mistake may cause the entire process of the party to be affected.
In the face of such tremendous pressure, how could Song Zuying be just a young girl who had not been deeply involved in the world? Tears instantly burst out of her eyes, infiltrating her beautiful face.
At this critical moment, another teacher Zhao Benshan, who is also a newcomer to the Spring Festival Gala, happened to pass by here. Witnessing Song Zuying's crying bitterly, he stepped forward without hesitation, took the initiative to hand out his boxed lunch, and patiently comforted her.
Although Zhao Benshan is also on the stage of a large-scale party for the first time, his years of stage experience have given him excellent psychological adjustment ability. He praised Song Zuying, believing that her unique and moving voice did not need to be afraid of such a big scene, just relax and sing to her heart's content.
With the encouragement of Mr. Zhao, Song Zuying gradually calmed down her nervousness, and finally successfully completed the performance task on stage. There is no doubt that her singing "Little Basket" instantly won the warm pursuit of the national audience with its warm and touching melody and became the hottest single of the night.
Since then, this originally ordinary little girl has soared into the sky, won the reputation of "Folk Song Queen", and officially entered the public eye. Behind her brilliant achievements is the timely assistance and encouragement of Teacher Zhao Benshan.
Although the accomplished master of comedy did not attract much attention at the time, his unique insights and keen eye for Song Zuying were finally verified 23 years later.
Since Song Zuying's successful debut on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, she has immediately become an indispensable guest performer eagerly awaited by the audience. During the Spring Festival, no matter how novel and unique the songs she sings, they can always instantly arouse the warm attention of the whole country.
Obviously, Song Zuying's image has long been deeply imprinted in the hearts of the public, and her presence symbolizes the joyful atmosphere of the coming New Year For a long time, the audience has been accustomed to the Spring Festival Gala every year, savoring Song Zuying's unforgettable and moving singing However, just when everyone expected her to be able to appear on this bright stage every year, Song Zuying suddenly announced her retirement from the music scene and returned to the warm harbor of family life.
Once this news was announced, it undoubtedly shocked the audience, but Song Zuying had his own well-thought-out decision. Back in the early 90s of the last century, Song Zuying was still just an up-and-coming young singer, who suffered repeated setbacks in various competitions and did not achieve satisfactory results.
However, it was at that critical moment that a TV program coordinator named Luo Hao had a unique eye for discovering her extraordinary musical talent.
At that time, Luo Hao, with his profound musical literacy and full love for music, took the initiative to find Song Zuying, who was depressed, and kindly gave her encouragement and support, so that she could strengthen her beliefs and move forward bravely.
His care and support illuminated Song Zuying's confused road ahead like a beacon, and Song Zuying, who was encouraged, regained his confidence and resolutely decided to go to the capital Beijing to receive more systematic professional training.
During those challenging years of study, Song Zuying and Luo Hao maintained a close bond, and the emotional bond between the two became stronger. When Song Zuying finally emerged on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and became the "Queen of Folk Songs" in one fell swoop, Luo Hao did not hesitate to express his sincere love to her and proposed to her.
Although the opportunities for the two to spend time together have been greatly reduced since then due to Song Zuying's busy acting career, Luo Hao has never complained about it.
He knows very well that behind his wife's brilliant achievements today is countless hard work and sweat. It would be extremely irresponsible to affect her career development because of her personal desires.
Therefore, Luo Hao chose to silently support Song Zuying, willing to make all kinds of sacrifices for this, and Song Zuying always remembered this deep friendship in his heart and was grateful.
Just when Song Zuying was in the midst of a new rise in her career and fame, her long-time friend Zhao Benshan had already known the truth hidden in her heart. Most people in the world only see the shining side of Song Zuying on the stage, and few people can deeply understand her deep troubles and struggles.
Time rewinds to that Spring Festival night 23 years ago, and Master Zhao witnessed the fragility and helplessness of Song Zuying, who was still immature at the time, behind the stage. She was about to step onto the stage to give a great performance to the audience, but the pressure brought tears to her eyes.
It was Zhao Benshan's timely comfort and encouragement that helped her regain her self-confidence and finally successfully completed the performance. Since then, Master Zhao has had a deep understanding of the inner weakness of this "queen of folk songs".
With one popular classic song after another, Song Zuying's career is in full swing and has become an indispensable and important element of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala. However, with the booming career, her family life has fallen into many difficulties.
In order to prosper her career, she had to travel between touring stages in various cities all year round, and it was difficult for her to have enough time to spend with her family. Even when there is occasional leisure, it is often disrupted by sudden work tasks.
Just as Song Zuying's career was at its peak, she finally ushered in a major event in her life - giving birth to her own child. I was expecting to take a break from my busy work and devote myself to taking care of my baby's growth at home.
However, unexpectedly, not long after the birth of the child, the pressure and tasks of work came one after another, which once again pulled Song Zuying into a state of anxiety.
Late one night, Song Zuying dragged her tired body back home, eager to give her child an affectionate hug to express her thoughts. But when she saw the strange look in the child's eyes, her heart hurt like a knife.
At that moment, she finally realized that she really couldn't balance her career and family at the same time. On the one hand, at this critical moment at the peak of her career, if she gives up easily, she will face a difficult challenge if she wants to create more brilliance in the future;
After countless painful self-reflections and deep reflections, Song Zuying made up her mind and chose to temporarily bid farewell to the bright and shining music stage and devote all her body and mind to a warm and beautiful family life.
She knows that family is the most precious and indispensable existence for her, and she does not want to miss any key moment in the growth of her children.
Although this choice was full of endless challenges and difficulties, every time she recalled the expectant eyes of the children, Song Zuying's heart felt like a pinprick in the depths of the pain was unbearable.
At the same time, Song Zuying's husband Luo Hao also stepped forward without hesitation and bravely shouldered the heavy responsibility of family life. He knew that his wife had the right to choose the lifestyle she wanted, so he never expressed any resentment about it.
On the contrary, he went all out to support and cooperate with Song Zuying's decision, and the husband and wife worked together to shoulder the great responsibilities of the family.
Song Zuying gave up her glorious singing career and chose to return to her family, which not only profoundly changed the trajectory of her own life, but also had a positive and far-reaching impact on the whole society.
In the context of the increasingly abundant material life and the increasingly prominent career pursuit, it is generally believed that professional success is an important yardstick to measure a person's value.
However, it is Song Zuying's choice that vividly shows us the importance of family and the warm power it contains. She told us with practical actions that although career is important, family is the most solid backing and final destination in life.
Song Zuying has won many honors and achievements, but she has always believed that these honors are really insignificant compared to the love and harmony of her family. At home, she takes care of each of her loved ones wholeheartedly, always paying attention to their daily needs and true emotions.
She and her husband Luo Hao work hand in hand to shoulder the heavy responsibilities of the family, creating a happy little world full of love and laughter.
It is the strong positive energy exuded by Song Zuying's spirit that inspires countless people to bravely pursue family happiness and tranquility. She told us that no matter how brilliant a career is, it can't be an excuse for us to neglect our family.
However, we have to emphasize that the family is undoubtedly the most fundamental and vital existence in life, and it is a solid cornerstone for us to sustenance and survival! It is precisely because of this incomparably deep family affection and care that we have enough courage and faith to bear the many difficulties and obstacles and invisible pressures brought about by work.
When we look back on the past years, we will be surprised to find that Song Zuying's choice has already been shown to his good friend Zhao Benshan. Thinking back to the backstage of the Spring Festival Gala 23 years ago, Song Zuying was just a young girl at that time, and in the face of the heavy pressure that followed, she couldn't help but cry like rain.
However, it was Master Zhao's meticulous care and encouragement that enabled her to successfully complete that remarkable performance.
This world-renowned comedy giant has long been well aware of Song Zuying's deep tenderness and vulnerability. He understands that it is not easy for a young woman who has just stepped into the entertainment industry to cope with such tremendous pressure on such a huge stage.
It is based on such profound insight that Zhao Benshan did not hesitate to extend a helping hand to Song Zuying, giving her timely comfort and firm support.