Happiness is like a transparent gauze, light and beautiful, but it can also be shattered in an instant. The long river of life sometimes suddenly ushers in a turbulent wave, shattering and reorganizing the originally peaceful life, leaving a wreckage. Recently, actor Jiubeile's family encountered such a turbulent wave.
On April 17th, Jiubeiler posted a heart-wrenching dynamic on social platforms: "Your beauty and gentleness will always be fixed on April 15th, leaving me an unforgettable memory, you will always be the most beautiful star in my sky, illuminating my way home in the dark night, rest in peace my favorite girl!" Accompanying these words is a photograph of his wife's young and beautiful appearance.
Attentive netizens soon discovered that Jiubeiler's wife's birthday was only 1991, and she was only 33 years old this year. This brutal truth plunged everyone into endless grief.
What's even more worrying is that Jiubeiler's son was only 4 months old, and the family of three had just ushered in the joy of a new life, who would have thought that they would be hit hard by the fate of life and death in the blink of an eye.
Nine Baylor revealed in a video the day before that his wife had left a last word before she died. Although it was only a few words, it set off a huge wave of grief. "Wang Baobao is me, I hope you don't hear this recording, but let's record one for you.
Thank you for being with me during this time, I am very happy, I may have hit you hard to leave like this, but I'm really sorry, I'm so tired if I can't hold on, I don't know what to tell you, and I'll walk well in the future. "
In her last words, Jiubeiler's wife seemed to have foreseen the end, but she still chose this doomed path. Her accumulated exhaustion of life and love finally broke through the critical point at some point and resolutely gave up everything. Although the last words were calm, they were resolute, and they threw Nine Belle into boundless pain.
In fact, Jiubeile's wife suffers from severe depression, and under her seemingly sunny appearance, there is a pain that ordinary people can hardly imagine. "Depression is terrible", "It's a pity that the pretty girl left like this", "I cried"...... Countless netizens left messages under the news of Jiubeiler, extremely shocked and saddened by this unexpected ending.
The confinement of life often comes from places we can't see. Jiubeile's wife may live the life of an ordinary family, but deep down she has been tormented, and finally chose this path of no return.
Her death was undoubtedly an unbearable blow to Nine Belle, who wrote in his comments: "You are the only woman I have ever loved with my heart in this life, and your farewell has left me with the shackles of a lifetime... No one in this life can enter my heart, because I only have you in my heart, dear I miss you so much. "
A family of three went from family happiness to separation, and in just a few days, it seemed to have swept through the entire life of Jiubeile. He thought that he would go to this happy spring with his wife and newborn son this spring, who would have thought that the spring was cold and precipitous, and happiness was so short and fragile. Last month, Nine Baylor was still inviting relatives and friends to celebrate his son's full moon, but this month there was only endless mourning left.
Happiness is short-lived and beautiful, just as bright and moving as Nine Baylor's wife was alive. However, fate often went wrong and dealt him a heavy blow. However, although the wife of Nine Belle has passed away, the beautiful spirit will always exist in this world. It is hoped that Nine Belle will be able to survive this difficult period, raise their son well, and let the virtues of his wife continue in the children.
Depression is often not well understood and taken seriously in the world. People who are sunny on the surface may be tormented on the inside. Depression is not a "minor problem", but a disease that seriously affects the quality of life, it may have physical or psychological causes, but it will eventually cause great suffering to the patient.
The death of his wife is sad, but it should also be an opportunity for us to reflect on the situation of people with depression, to understand and pay attention to the situation of people with depression, and to give empathy and love.
There are always some sudden collapses in life, tearing at our expectations for life. The original good life of the three members of the Jiubeile family was completely disrupted by this incident, and they had to re-examine the meaning of life.
But we should also believe that fate will always open a new path for us in the dark. Nine Baylor may go through a long period of pain, but one day the sun will shine again, and a new life will slowly find its way.
At the moment, perhaps Nine Baylor is in the deepest part of his sorrow. But we wish him to get through these dark years, raise their children well, and let this love shine in a new life.
At the same time, we should also light an everlasting lamp for the wife of Nine Belles, and pray that she will go all the way and never be bound by the spirit of heaven. After all, death is not the end, but the initiation of life to another dimension.