"Father" is a unique existence in everyone's heart, playing different roles at different stages, perhaps a guiding light in the confused days, or a majestic tree behind him when there is nowhere to go, or an irreplaceable idol for anyone in his life.
In Jia Pingwa's ups and downs, his father has been silently guarding him. In '82, Jia Pingwa was criticized by the press for a number of novels, and the outside world was very controversial, but he did not tell his father. After Jia Yanchun learned about this from his father and fellow villagers, he immediately took a ride to the city to see Jia Pingwa, endured stomach pain and drank with him, enlightened him, and thus had Jia Pingwa's article "Father's Half a Bottle of Wine".
For Mr. Jia Pingwa, because of his father, because of his father's half bottle of wine, he did not give up, and he has been on the road of writing until now.
Jia Pingwa: Every word comes from life
Mr. Jia Pingwa, born on February 21, 1952 in Dihua Town, Danfeng County, Shaanxi Province, began to publish works in 1973, and has published many works, such as "Waste Capital" and "Qin Cavity", etc.
What kind of person is Mr. Jia Pingwa? He once said that he is a very quiet person, who lives alone in the countryside, is more suitable for writing, and can be quiet and can write and think; his friends commented on him as "Jia Pingwa, who is wilted and simple, and has few words, and is like Pan Changjiang." After chatting with him, he rarely made a few remarks.
He was born as a small farmer, because of the social reality, in the process of job hunting, he repeatedly hit a wall and experienced a lot of ups and downs, and then used his own personal experience to compose each work, describing the facts with approachable words. During the low period of writing, his father gave him great comfort, and half a bottle of wine did not sink down, so that he has today's achievements.
Among his many works, many are related to his father. Whether it is "My Father", "Father's Past", or "Father's Half Bottle of Wine", you can see his gratitude and love for his father between the lines, and the article "Sacrifice to the Father" deeply expresses his longing for his father. In the process of reading, I choked up several times, and the deepest memory is the sentence "A father will never be intimate with his son".
As parents get older, they want their children to be around and talk to others, and the desire is as simple as that. Jia Pingwa also often chats with his mother, and many details and character relationships in "Qin Cavity" and "Ancient Furnace" are only learned from chatting with his mother.
Writing comes from life, although Jia's mother is uneducated, but she can also be called a humorous person in life, and she also has a great influence on Mr. Jia Pingwa's creation.
Jia Yanchun: Humble but sublime, ordinary and great
Jia Pingwa's father is named Jia Yanchun, Jia Yanchun was born poor, but fortunately, the family is happy, and his parents love him very much. When Jia Yanchun was seven years old, he was kidnapped by bad guys. At that time, the social environment was not very good, and most of the children's children were kidnapped by bad people. In order to save Jia Yanchun, who was only seven years old, the Jia family was almost bankrupt.
Jia Yanchun has always hated pain, is not afraid of power, and is as good as a stream, so he was accused by people with a heart and imprisoned for four or five years. As the head of the family, Jia Yanchun is not very good-tempered, and he will be angry if he is not careful, and he does not allow his children to disobey him. In the early days, Jia Pingwa was alienated and afraid of his father.
When Jia Yanchun was released, Mr. Jia Pingwa hugged him deeply, and he burst into tears instantly, the relationship between father and son is sometimes only so delicate, time can dissolve everything, no need for words.
Jia Yanchun is an ordinary teacher, who has experienced ups and downs in his life, has been smoothed out by life, and has no lofty ambitions, but he has never complained about life, and he often presides over justice in the countryside. Jia Yanchun has never put any pressure on his son, not seeking to be rich and rich, but seeking stability. But after Jia Pingwa sent him his salary for the first time, he was still extremely happy and drunk.
After Mr. Jia Pingwa worked in the city, Jia Yanchun also retired at home with his granddaughter, after his son published a book, he also hurried to the bookstore post office to buy, and he was very sad when he didn't buy it.
When his son's writing was controversial, Jia Yanchun secretly wiped his tears, and then immediately brought his granddaughter to the city to find him, and reopened his vows, and the father and son drank together.
An ordinary, unspoken father comforts his son in his own unique way. The remaining half bottle of wine is incomparable in Mr. Jia Pingwa's heart, and when he writes later, Mr. Jia Pingwa will put it in front of him to alert himself.
Jia Yanchun, like many ordinary fathers, is ordinary and simple, not good at words, does not have much achievement, and does not have a lot of family wealth, but he cares about his son all the time, and when his son encounters problems, he will do everything he can to protect him and love him.
Jia Qianqian: A valley in the Qinling Mountains
As a son, Mr. Jia Pingwa's writing path is very influenced by his father, but as a father, Jia Pingwa is also a role model for his daughter Jia Qianqian. Jia Qianqian also said a passage, one of which was "He is Qinling, and I am a valley in Qinling". It can also be seen what kind of existence Mr. Jia Pingwa is in his daughter's heart.
Jia Qianqian also likes to write poetry since she was a child, and held the launch ceremony of her first poetry collection "The Hundredth Night" a few years ago, but her father did not appreciate her for becoming a poet and taking the road of literary writing.
Once something sprouts in the heart, it is difficult to disappear again. Because of his father's role, Jia Qianqian still likes to write poems very much, and he will write a few articles from time to time in his spare time and send them to his father for reading, but Mr. Jia Pingwa still thinks that it is good to live a peaceful life, and poetry can support people, not families.
The words of family members and fathers cannot be very binding as children grow up, and each child has his own ideas, or wants to become a hero of his family and country, or wants to become an ordinary teacher, or a free and easy traveler, these parents can only respect more.
Mr. Jia Pingwa will do the same to his daughter in the future, since he has done it, he must do it well, since a seedling grows, he will grow in the wind, and he can grow as tall as he can, but the important thing is to "be your person, live your life well, and then you are a poet".
When Jia Qianqian talked about his father, he used three kinds of relationships. The world of the man himself, the relationship between father and daughter, the creator and the continuator, the profession itself, the writer and the author, the reader and the commentator, and the fortunate and the unfortunate, the world of the father and the daughter, is both a community and a contradiction. But no matter what kind of relationship, the father will always be the direction of the daughter's life.
Fathers are different, fathers are the same
Speaking of the word father, I think of Zhu Ziqing's "Back", a text I learned in high school, and Bingxin's "Remembering My Father".
When Zhu Ziqing wrote "Back", life at home was already very difficult, his grandmother died, his father became a seller to go out to find an errand, and before his father in Nanjing sent him to Beijing to study, he insisted on buying oranges.
The father on the platform, fat and slow, but the son in his heart is tall and majestic. The stumbling distance has deep traces of time, and although the orange is not sinking, it weighs on Zhu Ziqing's heart like a boulder
There are too many luggage, and I insist on talking to the porter about the price for half a day, and finally send it to the car, I said to let a tea room send, and finally feel that it is inappropriate to send it myself, and after sending it to the car, it is a thousand instructions, these behaviors seem to be cumbersome and impatient in the local area at the time, but it seems that this is the care of every father for his son.
In the eyes of your parents, you will always be their little child. In the days of school, it may be the happiest time in everyone's life, no matter what food and clothing is, no matter how much survival, because there are parents behind it, please cherish it.
Bingxin, whose mother died of illness, raised his three children by himself, wrote in "Remembering Father" that he never let his children do a little housework, "I want to make these three children happier than when they had a mother", no promise, no vow, just in this little day, his father did it wholeheartedly.
A few simple words, a sentence, carry the father's full love for his children, which will not fade with time, but will only be engraved in his heart more and more deeply day by day.
Parents still have a place to come in life, and parents have only a way back in life
After a long time of wandering, you must remember that there is a harbor not far away to dock, and after a long time of travel, you must remember that home is not far away.
When you go to college and are thousands of miles away from home, you may feel free. You always think, I'm busy, I'm busy with exams, I'm busy writing papers, I'm busy making friends, I'm busy studying for certifications, have you ever thought about how long it's been since you've spoken to her at home and called. The one who thinks about you all the time - waiting for you to come home.
You may also think that you can earn more money by going out to work and working overtime during the Chinese New Year, and you don't want to go home, so you go back with a bunch of questions and a bunch of nagging, but have you ever thought that she always cooks your favorite meal, so she goes out and waits, half an hour, an hour, looking forward to it, but in the end it is empty.
They didn't want much, just a few words, a reunion dinner. said that if you are busy, don't come back, but which parent doesn't want their children and grandchildren to be by their side in the New Year, and the reunion of the family - where the heart wants.
Li Bai wrote in "Bodhisattva Man": "Where is the return journey? "Two words return to the word pavilion, will be a strong feeling of homecoming on the paper, I don't know if you have embarked on the return journey at this time?
The well-known song "Father" by the chopsticks brothers sings what many people think, "Don't let you get old anymore, time slows down, I am willing to use me to switch your years,".
Our father may not be as attentive as his mother, but his rugged back has also carried a piece of the sky for you, and although our father is not good at words, his love for you is revealed in those simple words. Although he is thousands of miles away, he still cares about you all the time.
What is a father? Father is not our leader, but the driving force to hold our little hands when we are lonely and confused. My father had no background, but he did his best to give us the best. My father is about to turn half a hundred years old, and this half hundred has been working hard for this family, and I hope to grow up quickly and bear some for my father.
Say thank you to your parents more, hug your parents more, discuss more, and argue less. Young and frivolous, but can not be squandered, although the time is still long, but how can it be wasted, in the time that can be traced in the present, please love with action, because I don't know when, those nagging will disappear.
Gratitude and gratitude should be bravely spoken, and love should also be bravely expressed. "I love you" please say it often.