There is pressure to be motivated!
There is still some truth in this sentence, just like the young people who are now burdened with housing and car loans, they dare not rest at all, for fear that their careers will not be able to afford the house.
Only when there is a house can there be a home, this is the concept of many of us, which is why everyone works hard and rolls hard, just hoping that their small family can be safe and stable and live a plain and happy life.
The same is true in rural areas.
In Hebei, a woman and her husband's first child is a daughter, and they fight for a second child. As a result, the second child was unexpected, it was triplets, and they were all boys.
The 50-year-old father-in-law was ready to take care of the baby at home, so he had no choice but to return to work to help his son share the pressure.
"He can't afford to raise 4 children and 3 adults by himself. ”
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The incident happened in a resident's house in Hebei, the grandfather had just returned home from work, and after a while, the father also came back, and the two played with the child and were ready to eat.
Now, there are 9 people in the woman's family, 4 adults and 4 children.
The adults are grandparents, the woman and her husband, and 4 children. The most interesting thing is the second child, the triplets, and all of them are sons.
After knowing the news, my father was stunned, and it was okay to have a daughter, how to have 3 sons, and the pressure was great.
After seeing the three grandchildren, the parents-in-law were both happy and bitterly smiling, the family was lively, but it had to work hard. Raising 4 children is not a joke.
Milk powder and diapers alone cost a lot of money.
When the three grandchildren grew up a little, the father-in-law, who was no longer working, returned to his old business and went to find a job driving an excavator, continued to work, and earned money to support his grandchildren.
The father-in-law is not very old, 50 years old, or many people are willing to invite him, he has been driving an excavator for more than ten years, very experienced, it is estimated that he will have to work until the age of 65 to retire, and the woman is also grateful to the father-in-law to help them share the pressure.
And the mother-in-law is not under much pressure, helping to take care of the children at home, cooking and housework, and has no time to chat and play with the sisters in the village, and the time is basically spent on her grandchildren.
It is also very tiring to cook a meal for 8 people by yourself.
Fortunately, now that the children are studying, the pressure on the parents-in-law is much less, and the woman is ready to go out to work, and the three of them earn money to support the family, which is relatively easy.
The so-called intergenerational relatives, sure enough, there are many grandchildren, and the parents-in-law are motivated, and their bodies have improved.
My husband's grandmother is too, and she usually lies in bed and says she is dizzy. I gave birth to a son, and people are no longer dizzy, so I can get up to help watch the child, and give me 6,000 yuan, everything is fine.
I haven't had a baby out of my belly yet. My in-laws are working now, not to mention how energetic they are, my mother-in-law said that she is working hard now
Netizens said that such a family cannot be replicated, and not everyone is so responsible.
This has to be a grandparent who cares about the next generation responsibly, otherwise, no matter how many you have, he should eat and drink, and even reach out and ask you for pension money.
My family is the opposite, I gave birth to children, they play everywhere every day, they don't talk about any money, they don't help, and there are a lot of things.
People are in good spirits when they are happy, especially in families with many boys, and everyone in the family is motivated. When my grandmother was alive, she saw my two sons with smiles on her face.
Why so many people want to have a boy may be this reason, marrying a daughter-in-law and having more sons, the popularity of the family will be strong, if the daughter marries out, there is one less person in the family, and the atmosphere is cold.
It can only be said that it is better to have more children, and fewer children also have the advantage of having fewer children, depending on the personal situation.