Preface
As the saying goes: a husband and wife for a hundred days, raising their eyebrows and growing old together is the dream scene of all those who are happy with each other, but the world is trivial, each has its own thoughts, and it will inevitably make "love" become chicken and doggy, and chicken feathers.
Recently, a video circulated on the Internet, in which the husband and wife had a quarrel, and the man impulsively abused the woman.
Half an hour later, the atmosphere seemed to have eased, but the wife took advantage of her husband's inattention and poured the freshly boiled water directly on his head, which was quite vindictive.
As soon as this incident came out, almost everyone thought that this was the end that the "domestic violence man" deserved, but it didn't take long for the story to be reversed, and the criticism of the man gradually turned to the woman, what happened?
When is the time for retribution?
The initial video only shows the woman throwing water at the man, and there is nothing unusual at the beginning, the husband is playing with his mobile phone on the seat with his legs crossed, and the wife is next to him, waiting for the water in the teapot to boil.
But just after the water was boiling, the wife picked up the handle of the pot and buckled it upside down on her husband's head, and in an instant the water vapor was full of smoke and smoke, and the husband couldn't dodge, and he was shivering all over the body, tossing and turning, and letting out a strange cry of pain from his mouth.
After splashing the water, the wife also seemed to have palpitations, and behaved very frightened, turned her head and ran away quickly, without taking any measures or the slightest nostalgia.
It is said that the husband is the victim no matter how he looks at it, but there are few sympathies and concerns about him in the comment area, and more people are questioning: Will the wife be so ruthless for no reason? Could it be that she has been bullied for too long and can't stand it?
As this view intensified, a more complete video was also released, which did confirm the conjecture of netizens to a certain extent.
It was half an hour before the splashing incident, and the couple seemed to have had a heated argument.
The two sat opposite each other, and the wife didn't know whether she was scared or numb, and she couldn't see any mood fluctuations, but the man pointed fingers, and the more she talked, the more excited she became.
The anger gushing out of his chest made him involuntarily get up and stand, and an inexplicable force gradually approached his wife with his hand, and then his five fingers clenched into fists, and then fell on the other party's body like a storm.
The wife tried her best to defend but was unable to parry, and she couldn't successfully counterattack even once with her hands and feet, and after a "halftime", the husband started the second round of "attack".
He was even so confident that he used one hand, and his wife was silently enduring in the corner of the sofa, looking at her "aggressive" husband, and perhaps from this moment on, she was already thinking about a plan for revenge.
The man leaned forward, his fingers were like sharp swords, and he could feel the domineering sense of oppression through the screen, perhaps when facing the crazy other half, maintaining restraint and reason is indeed the best solution.
With such a complete video, the "detectives" in the comment area also began to dispatch, and everyone deduced from his wife's behavior that it was by no means the first time she had been subjected to domestic violence, and it was precisely because she had been tortured too much that she would choose revenge.
But no matter what, there are still rational friends who say: "No matter how much you hold a grudge, you should seek a legitimate way to solve it, such an impulse will instead cause yourself unnecessary harm."
However, just as there was a tsunami of condemnation of "domestic violence", the reversal reappeared, and the spearhead of people's verbal attacks also reversed direction again.
"Domestic Violence Man" Meets "Brother Demon"
It is said that poor couples mourn everything, and the more ordinary the family, the more likely it is to have all kinds of complaints and grievances, which becomes the "fuse" of fierce conflicts.
But the family in this video screen looks very wealthy - spacious rooms, shiny marble floor tiles, and a full set of mahogany furniture, which can be felt at a good price.
With such high-quality conditions, how good it is to live a down-to-earth life, as the saying goes, between husband and wife, bedside fights, bedside fights, and bedside harmony, how can it be so noisy?
An insider who claimed to be a good buddy of men chose to stand up and expose the reasons for the various contradictions between the two people, which immediately caused more extensive discussion and controversy.
According to him, his buddy is a good money-maker, and he has a certain amount of financial freedom, but the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility, and in the humane society, it is not so easy to be stable and alone.
The splashing wife also has a younger brother, the specific age is not clear, but it should be the time to find a partner to marry a daughter-in-law, and the cause of this conflict also began here.
After all, he is a brother-in-law, and he is a brother-in-law, and he still has a certain strength, whether he wants to or not, even if he is pretending, he has to take care of it from time to time.
According to the whistleblower, in recent years, the man has taken out at least one million yuan from his pocket for various things for his brother-in-law, not including all kinds of things that cannot be measured by money.
But there is a limit to helping, really treating yourself as an "ATM", taking advantage of nothing, even normal sisters and brothers are estimated to be dissatisfied.
This time, the woman opened her mouth again, and she wanted her husband to pay for a house for her younger brother!
Thinking back to the past, after spending so much money and still unable to satisfy the other party, the man couldn't hold back, so he made it clear that he refused, whose money was blown by the wind? Why should he be so selfless?
Maybe it was a bad attitude, or maybe it was unwilling to tolerate it, a quarrel broke out between the two parties, the man moved in anger, and the woman held a grudge, and a pot of boiling water sent this so-called "love" to the end.
The whistleblower also responded to the question of why the video was released by the way, after all, there are too many people posing for fake photos to gain traffic, and a few winter vacation homework books can make a "storm in the city".
It is reported that the man had serious burns and had undergone skin grafting surgery, and he also made up his mind to propose a divorce to his wife, but he didn't expect the other party to say anything and disagree, so in desperation, he chose to expose the video and force the other party to comply.
Netizens watched such a big drama with relish, and also made an incisive summary: "When a domestic violence man encounters a 'brother demon', there is no winner." ”
End
But this is just the man's response, and netizens who claim to be neighbors of the couple also stood up, saying that "freezing three feet is not a day's cold", that is, there is too much domestic violence......
The truth of the matter is still uncertain, but there are so many lessons that can be learned from the current situation.
Don't take the good of others for granted, even if he is a beloved relative or friend, and no matter when and where, you must control your emotions as much as possible, otherwise you will harm others and yourself, some lawyers have made an analysis, believing that the woman's behavior has constituted intentional injury, and if she is prosecuted, she is likely to be sentenced to less than three years in prison.
Resources:
[1] Zibo Daily video number
[2] NetEase News related reports
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