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01
In this world, there are very few people who really like to suffer losses and take advantage of a little advantage, but there are many possibilities.
Sima Qian said, "The world is bustling, all for profit, and the world is bustling, all for profit."
Once you feel that it is profitable, it is easiest to stimulate a person's instinct to pursue profits, like a moth to a fire, especially persistent.
And the status quo of life is often like this, risks and accidents are always one after another, as people say, we never know which comes first, the sky or the accident.
Therefore, based on that little instinct in the heart, few people will like risks in their hearts.
Even if we have seen the allusion of boiling a frog in warm water, if we can not see the risks with our own eyes, a person has more or less preferred to live like a blind man touching an elephant.
As we all know, no one will actively choose to go to the whirlpool of suffering, and of course they will not take the initiative to face the risks.
In the "Zengguang Xianwen", it says:
"No one asks about the poor in the downtown area, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. ”
When you're dealing with people, no one likes you to cause suffering or risk to others.
So in life, don't be a person who always brings risks to people.
02
There is wine and meat, they are all brothers, and they have never seen a person in an emergency.
Read the classics a few more times, how can you find a little bit of allusion to witness in such a story.
Just like the story of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", many people are also familiar with it.
Whenever we see Lu Bu being killed, we always have a little bit of pity, and it is not until we see his personality that you can feel that he himself dug his own grave.
Every time Zhang Fei scolds him, he will give him such a title, "Three Surname Slaves", for many people, if you want to be Lu Bu's father, you may face betrayal and death.
Once others feel that you have such a risk, in such a troubled era, the instinct of survival will tell you that not everyone around you is such a person, and there is a risk of betrayal at any time.
So, Cao Cao listened to Liu Bei's words, and made a decision without hesitation, ending Lu Bu's life.
Yes, whether it is business or real estate, life or colleagues, family or friends, few people want to like someone who always puts themselves at risk.
03
Over the years, in so many private lending cases, you have come into contact with all kinds of defendants and seen so many people subject to execution, and you sincerely feel that when a person no longer trusts, waiting for him is also a baptism of tragedy after all.
A distant relative next to him, perhaps in the eyes of many people, is such an unreliable and unobtrusive person.
There has never been a plan for living a life, and the habit of eating and drinking has been formed, which is naturally out of control, not to mention smoking, drinking, and gambling.
Over the years, if you can know people around you, you have borrowed money in particular.
His mother once said:
"The people around him have been borrowed by him, and he can no longer borrow money. ”
Once the people around you give you a fixed imprint, and the sign of risk is deeply fixed on you, it is the pain of being caught off guard.
No one likes risk, especially the risk you bring to others.
04
There is a local saying among the people, greedy for small and cheap suffer big losses.
In fact, when surviving in the unit, you can often see some people who are greedy for small and cheap people, as long as there is a place to take advantage of, they will stretch out such a foot, and they will want to fall into their pockets at every penny.
But after a long time, you may find that the only one who really suffers is yourself.
Why?
In fact, this time also follows the law of conservation of energy, no matter what kind of relationship, once you get along with each other for a long time, the energy and interests between each other can only reach a certain balance, perhaps it is the most ideal state.
However, once the days are stretched for a long time, I think there will be very few people who have been in a state of loss, let alone a lifetime of loss and unluck.
After a long time, you always eat meat and drink soup, and you may not even have the opportunity to drink soup, who else do you say would be willing to do such a business without making ends meet?
People's hearts are flesh and blood, in a material society, survival is the most basic instinct, sometimes it is said that helping you is love, not helping is duty.
Being able to bring a little benefit and value to others, maybe others often like it, if it is the opposite and the opposite, it may not be the case.
05
So in a very real society, we seem to be able to understand why people are not willing to lend you money.
And in such a materialistic society, it is finally clear and true for us to know what kind of state life is for us.
Value is the greatest law of the operation of this society, and it is transferred by human will.
This society needs us to continue to create value, the platform needs you to create value, the family needs you to create value, the unit needs you to create value, and you need to create value.
Don't do porcelain work without diamonds, and iron needs to be hard.
Without 72 changes and the ability to control the clouds, don't sit and dream of making trouble in the heavenly palace.
No one in life likes trouble, someone likes risk.
Some people like to borrow a car from others, but such a move often brings a risk to others, and when you encounter someone who does not lend you, even if you have unhappy emotions, you should also understand and respect others.
Life often requires us to have empathy considerations, others are always giving you risks, and it is also the kind of continuous kind, what kind of trade-offs and arrangements will you make?
No one likes negativity and resistance, like a rainy day at work.
Perhaps it is precisely because suffering and risk have already become the potential foundation in people's minds, so seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages is a background color and choice in fate.
Life may be a bit chaotic, but it requires a person to stay awake enough.
Zeng Guofan said:
"Calm it first. Think about it again, and do it with five or six points. ”
The road is one foot high, and the magic is one foot high.
Life requires us to have such a kind of wisdom, and that is this:
In life, don't be a person who always brings risks to others.
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