If people want to say that they are happy or unhappy in this life, they must mean that when they reach their old age, they are almost the same when they are young, they can jump and jump, they can walk and move, and they are not happy or unhappy, they are all working hard for this family, earning money and saving money, and working hard.
Happiness is called happiness when you are old.
I think that when people reach old age, happiness is to be able to meet the following conditions, I didn't meet the standard, compare it, see how you are?
There was nothing wrong with it
People eat cereals, it is impossible to have no problems at all, especially when people reach old age, with the gradual decline of physical functions, with the failure of organs, there is a small illness and small pain are normal physiological phenomena, as long as the disease is not called a disease, as long as it is not a serious illness, that is happy.
Of course, I think as long as you don't have someone to take care of you in bed, that's happiness.
Therefore, when people are old, they are happy without major problems.
There is no shortage of money to see a doctor
When people reach old age, in fact, what they are most afraid of is that they have no money to treat their illness, which is the most terrible.
Because people can't eat much or drink much when they're old, they can't spend much on real living expenses.
I'm afraid that when I get sick, the disease can be cured with money, but we don't have any money in our hands, and I think this is the saddest thing.
So, what is happiness? Happiness is having money in hand for medical treatment in the future, and that's enough.
Have a healthy old partner
Whether it is the original partner or remarriage, when people are old, as long as they have a healthy and healthy wife by their side, they are happy.
Old wife, old wife, old wife, you have to have a companion when you are old, when you are young, you are a husband and wife, and when you are young, you have a stronger relationship than when you are young.
If some remarried wives have no purpose and live together, the old couple will get along quite well.
My cousin is an example, and now he has been living with this remarried wife for more than 10 years, and he is very harmonious and happy.
I think that two people who remarry, as long as they don't care about money, put money together and use it together, and then treat both parents and children equally, there will not be too much conflict, and they will live happily.
There are independent houses
When people are old, they must have their own independent housing, the gold nest and silver nest are not as good as their own kennels, remember not to sell the house, go to the city to pay the down payment for the children, how much money to do, as long as you have your own independent housing, in your own nest to live your own free life, that is happy.
On the contrary, if it is said that it is living in the children's house and living a life under the fence, it must be tragic.
Therefore, the old man is happy to have his own nest to shelter from the wind and rain.
Children are filial and do not gnaw at the old
When people are old, happiness is that their children should marry people, and they should get married, and after marriage, the young couple live happily without worrying about the elderly, and the economy is rich and does not gnaw at the old, and at the same time, they can also honor their parents from time to time, so the old man is happy.
For example, some old people and children are already in their thirties and forties, and they don't get married or married, even if they are married and two people are arguing today, how can the elderly talk about happiness?
All parents in the world hope that after a hundred years, their children will have a support, so that they will have a heart. Otherwise, it always feels like it's a little bit worse.
Therefore, if the children are filial and do not gnaw at the old, the elderly feel happy.
Parents who are self-reliant
When people are old, if they have parents who can take care of themselves and can give themselves some financial help, then they are happy.
I envy my colleague, she is in her 50s, her parents are 89 years old this year, and these parents are high-achieving students, and their pensions are very high, not only can they take care of themselves, but also can help their children.
A colleague said a few days ago that he wanted to change his car, but his mother immediately went to the bank to withdraw 100,000 yuan in cash and gave it to his colleague.
On the contrary, if the parents cannot take care of themselves and need someone to take care of them, then there is indeed no happiness for the fifty or sixty-year-old.
You don't have to continue working
When people retire in old age, if they have a pension of five or six thousand yuan, which is enough for their own expenses, and they don't have to work anymore, I think this is happiness.
The reason why I said that I did not meet the standard is because my pension is too small, only about 2,000 yuan, and I am still working.
Therefore, I think that the elderly with high pensions are happy.
Financially independent
When people are old, the elderly are financially independent, they don't have to count on anyone, and they don't have to live the days of reaching out, and they can still live well without their own lives, and such old people are happy.
Have your own hobbies
When people are old, they don't stare at their children's lives all day long, but have their own interests and hobbies, then they must be happy.
Whether it's about going to the river to fish, touch the shrimp, or go to the park together, singing, dancing, playing chess, playing cards, the world is so big, you will go out to see anytime and anywhere, go out to browse the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, taste the food around the country, and feel the different customs and customs of various places, such old people are happy.
In short, the elderly who have their own interests and hobbies must be happy in their old age.
Have a good mentality and live a transparent life
The old man who lives well is happy. You don't have to look at anyone's face, and you don't have to care what others say, just go your own way and let others say it.
It is happiness to be able to face up to aging, to face up to illness, and to enjoy life happily.
In short, when people are old, happiness is that there is no major problem; There is no shortage of money for medical treatment; Have a healthy wife; have a detached house; Children are filial and do not gnaw at the old; Parents who are self-reliant; You don't have to continue to work; financial independence; Have their own interests and hobbies; Have a good attitude and live a transparent life.
Because I want to continue to work, I didn't meet the standard, check it and see how you are?