A friend talked to me about an embarrassing matter.
She said that Bao's father sent her the wrong message to the child's class group. When I saw it, I found that it had overtime and could not be withdrawn.
Bao's mother said that it was so embarrassing that she wanted to quit school after reading it, and she had no face to pick up the child.
It turned out that Bao's father was on a business trip for half a month and was finally able to come back. happened to coincide with Bao's mother's birthday again, and Bao's father was so excited, he sent a message and said: "Wife, I'll be back soon, I miss you so much." ”
At this time, the parents in the group saw that they showed affection and ridiculed one after another. Bao Ma is thin-skinned again, and she just feels very embarrassed.
The class group is generally for everyone to talk about the situation of the child and the school, but occasionally there are some careless parents who mistake the class group for a private chat, so there is a lot of embarrassment.
In addition to the mother's husband, there are many big fathers, one is excited, and with a shake of his hand, he sent a message to the class group by mistake.
For example, this father learned that his daughter got a perfect score in the exam. Now when I am happy, I let go of my voice and sing a song, showing my pride in life.
If he sings well, it doesn't matter, but this father is sometimes "unreliable", sometimes "out of tune", and the tune has run out of the clouds.
However, this father still sang loudly in the class group, and the parents in the group laughed.
Bao's mother was so embarrassed that she wanted to pick her toes, saying that now all the teachers and students knew about it, and she was embarrassed and threw it at her grandmother's house.
As the saying goes, if there is one, there are two, and if there is a big father, there must be a second.
This father, however, didn't see it at all, and asked his wife directly in the class group: "Wife, is the fish ready?"
It seems that he is really hungry, and he can't even tell which is the group and which is the private information.
If there are eclectic parents, there must be confused parents.
The teacher posted a message in the group, and everyone else replied: "Okay, thank you, teacher." ”
Only this parent doesn't know if the handwriting is typical, or the pinyin is wrong. In short, he succeeded in leading all the parents behind him.
The teacher's heart is estimated to be broken, what about good civility and good politeness?
There is a new teacher in the class, and his surname is Jin, why do you call him Teacher Pan one by one?
It's not just that frustrating.
This teacher Xu, surnamed Wu Zixu's "Xu", is so tall and educated! How did he find a job, and even his surname was changed?
When we go to work, once the leader speaks, someone will reply: "Received." So in order not to be named, we also replied "received" later.
As for whether the leader's message is read or not, it doesn't matter, the important thing is that the attitude must be there.
It's the same with the class group, many times, what message or notification is sent by the teacher, and when we see the template with a reply in front of us, we copy and paste it without saying a word.
No, it's a joke if you copy it, isn't it?
It is estimated that the math teacher is scared, just familiarize yourself with the multiplication formula, don't be impulsive!
And this class, the teacher sincerely thanks everyone, but this reply, back and forth, the style of painting is not quite right......
However, it doesn't matter if parents send the wrong message, after all, everyone is negligent sometimes.
When we communicate in the group, we should consciously maintain group discipline and not disturb others with personal matters. Or, pay more attention to the following.
(1) Respect for teachers is fundamental.
We all know that "respecting teachers" is our traditional virtue, whether it is replying or calling in a WeChat group, we are still polite to teachers.
Just like a friend of mine, every time she communicates with a teacher, even if there is a disagreement, she always expresses her gratitude first, and then puts forward her own opinions, which makes people feel very comfortable.
(2) It's really important to check before sending a message
I've encountered it myself, and I accidentally sent a joke message to a friend to a parent group, and I was so embarrassed that I wanted to find a hole to get into.
So now I send any message, I will check it twice to see if there is any typo or the wrong group.
(3) Maintain group order
Regarding maintaining the order of the parent group, I think it is the responsibility of parents. The parent group should be a place to deliver information about children's learning, not a platform to promote products or canvass for votes.
There was a time when a parent in the group posted an advertisement, and after being warned by the administrator, the atmosphere in the group was much better.
(4) Emotional peace
Sometimes emotional excitement is unavoidable, but we have to think about it, it is not easy for teachers, it is tiring enough to educate a child, and if we communicate with people with emotions, it will be even more difficult to solve the problem.
For example, my neighbor's child's grades dropped, and the neighbor was angry at first, but then calmly discussed the solution with the teacher, and found that the teacher's advice was very helpful.
Therefore, as parents, our words and deeds in the parent group are really important, not only about the education of children, but also reflect our family upbringing and personal qualities. When these little things are done well, it is also a subtle positive impact on the growth of children.
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