Sometimes, when I write something on the Internet, it is easy to attract criticism and disgust from others, but this is actually normal. The story of short-term marriage and love in the parents is not a big deal, let's just sit on the kang and chatter, people interrupt your words, and come to a small essay by yourself, this is a normal thing, there are comings and goings!
For example, I wrote an article a while ago, saying that Phoenix men are struggling in the marriage market now, and many girls are reluctant to marry, or they are hesitant to marry.
Why do you have this experience?
Because my aunt and I have a habit of loving the media, I often introduce objects to others, and slowly I have a little name, this day is also warm, spring is also open, and many girls' parents come to me again, let me help find a wishful husband for their daughter!
After introducing the object for so many years, we have learned a lot of things, and we are not stupid and stunned. I say to those parents:
What about me, just provide a database, you rummage through me, I am equivalent to providing real estate information, alas, how about this house, you see yourself and you talk to the owner, anyway, I don't take a penny from you, we are purely obligatory.
In this regard, the parents of the girls are also more recognized, to be honest, our popularity is not bad, because many parents of girls are now 'unable to see'. They looked at their 'old' daughter, and they were anxious.
And many girls are not like what is said on the Internet, they get angry when they see men, and they run away when they hear that they are married, if they are like that, we will not provoke them, so why bother?
But I have to say that studying and working, getting married and having children, this is still the life appeal of the vast majority of people, and many girls also want to embark on the mainstream life road, so for them, sometimes they are more anxious than their parents!
So, let's take care of everything and pour treasure out!
First of all, I have introduced Phoenix men to several girls, and many girls are also happy to go, and they see each other, how to say, my heart is also beating, my mind is also hesitating, in the face of various choices, it is really a little vague.
Actually, aunt, I said something poisonous.
There are not so many fairy tales in the adult world. Since they are all in the marriage and love market, in most cases, everyone looks at the conditions first, and then the people.
Find a partner with strength!
You are the flower and the moon, like I didn't have children back then, and it was in vain. I don't want a big brother in the countryside, of course, I'm not saying that I am born with flowers and moon appearance, I look weird!
In the marriage market, in fact, the process is similar to that in the recruitment market, everyone quantifies their own conditions, 90 points to find 90 points, 80 points to find 80 points, there is no miracle here, there is really no miracle. I've been looking at the marriage market for 20 years, and I haven't seen a single romantic thing.
Hey, if you're looking for a love at first sight here, it's the equivalent of going to the vegetable market to buy a pistol!
Don't look at more than 1,000 stalls, you don't have anyone to ask for!
The reason why many girls consider marrying a phoenix man is that she is actually not running, she wants to find rural people, and she wants to go to the vast world to cut the queue and settle down. She wanted to find the phoenix man, and the picture was the cutting-edge product in the phoenix man's hand.
You think, since you can go on a blind date with a middle-class girl in the city, and you still have a big piece of shortcomings from the countryside, then this is equivalent to English, you only scored 60 points, and the English test only scored 60 points, if you can get on it. Why is it for? I must have high scores in other classes!
To put it bluntly, people have specialities!
For example, there is a girl who is now faced with two sets of choices. The girl is undecided, and you can help you come up with an idea!
The girl's own conditions are average,
The small appearance is good, quite smart, two or six years old, not tall, one meter five five. There are three suites in the family, but she has never gone to a serious university, and she has a college book, which she admits or not. Well, we can't make a fuss, even if we admit it, the gold content is not big!
The girl's house was demolished in the countryside, yes. Three suites were demolished in the suburbs, and my parents stopped farming.
It's all citizens, it seems that the brigade has some other policy, and they have made up for social security, which is said to be quite affordable!
Anyway, the economy is relatively well-off, and in a few years, my parents will be able to receive a pension again, and one person will be four or five thousand!
His dad drove an online car-hailing car, not trying to work, just trying to exercise,, doing some housework, playing small cards, and living a very comfortable life.
This family is also a proper urban middle class!
I know this girl's second aunt very well, the girl's second aunt is a cadre of a design institute, but it doesn't delay her mother is a farmer, no way, who let her mother not be admitted to college in the first place?
What are the choices faced by girls today?
A male. City. Secondary school students. Workers on an assembly line.
B male. City. Three copies. Cleaners driving sweepers on the road,
There is also a shopkeeper who runs his own small breakfast shop. City.
And, of course, there's a city guy. It's three. It's actually unemployed, but the unemployed young man said:
We can feed this child, there are four suites at home, and now they are all demolished, and if there is no job, there will be no job, what are you afraid of!
But the problem is that the girl shook her head when she saw these people, and she was not happy!
The girl is looking for someone who is knowledgeable and educated, and I understand that.
I don't think I had a good impression of my ex-husband Comrade Chen at first, except for being tall and spiritual, I didn't see anything good about this guy.
But once he tutored me in high math, Emma, his math textbook, and later I learned that it was three levels more difficult than me, and the military school I went to was pure science!
The big one spoke clearly about the high math questions, and of course I was confused.
But I know, it's not that the big one is bad, it's that I'm born stupid, there's no way, I think the big guy's IQ must be at least 140, he was on the Olympiad training team, and I'm from the high math make-up examination group, you think about how big the gap is!
My love for the big one is the worship of one bunch of genes and another bunch of genes. A good impression of one brain for another!
According to Lao Ma of the Laws and Regulations Department of our unit:
Mao Ning, your kind of thinking is in line with the mammalian mate selection policy. Actually, it's not just you who think so, I guess even the bull and the deer think so! Or how can the bull and the stag grow horns and fight back and forth? Isn't this for you lesbians?
Listening to him stamp like this, I have a score in my heart!
Although I don't study well, but I don't delay my worship of those Qingbei students with good academic performance, as soon as we see the kind of great immortals of others, our eyes are full of hearts, just like my eldest nephew, I went to listen to the class of the math master Wei Shen, and he came back and said: My knees are prepared for Wei Shen!
So when this girl said her marriage and love request, I understood it very well.
The girl said to me shyly:
Auntie, I want to find a 985 graduate student. I'm looking for a student who looks like a spirit. Auntie, did you say that?
So I introduced her to a Phoenix male master's degree, oops, a proper high-achieving student from a veteran university in politics and law. And the young man is so good-looking. Thirty years old. The figure is straight, elegant and generous! Poke there, like a big poplar, smile with a bright face, don't say it's a girl, I like it all!
At that time, I knew several comrades in their courts. According to them, there are also those in their own units who have master's and doctorate degrees from the middle class of the city, and even the children of high-ranking families whose parents are cadres, but why don't they introduce such a boy to the girl who is a college girl who has been demolished? I don't say it, you understand!
According to him, the unit is very busy on weekdays, and he is a young man, so he has a lot of case files at hand, and he gets up early and is greedy for darkness. But he also said that he is willing to do more and strive for performance, after all, there is still a long way to go!
Alas, this young man spoke quite to my thoughts, and I was so motivated when I first came to the unit!
Many people themselves have a negative attitude towards work, and they describe society as a dark mess, saying that in the organs, they all rely on smuggling and slapping horses, and those who can be promoted are traitors and villains, which is pure nonsense. No matter how you shoot the leader, you can't stand up to it at a critical time, do you think that the leader has no business pressure in his hands?
So I like this kind of aggressive guy from the bottom of my heart, and it's better than the kind of guy who lies flat as soon as he arrives at the unit.
To tell you the truth, if I were 30 years younger, I would be willing to marry a young man, and of course I don't think people want me!
As soon as many people mention the phoenix man, they will pour dirty water on others. What rural people have poor quality, they will definitely be Voldemort in the future, and coupled with the foolish filial son, oops, they will do everything they can to discredit them. But in fact, the outstanding advantages of the phoenix man, they didn't say. Just like this girl, she is still hesitating!
She really likes that dignified master's student, she really doesn't like the secondary school with four houses!
By the way, the slipper owes gambling debts outside, hey, but some people say that they would rather marry the slipper in the city than marry the rural phoenix man, and we don't know what the theory is.
If the girl wants to find someone in the city, and asks the other party to also have a house and a car, the door is the same. Then you have to accept the boys who graduated from the vocational high school. Why, the girl's own education is not high, but she is not happy!
She wants to find a boy who works well in the system, she doesn't want to be the proprietress of the early shop, and she doesn't want to stay at home with her husband as soon as she passes the door, in fact, this is also normal, there is nothing wrong!
It is clear that the master's students of famous universities, whether they talk or have temperament, whether they are receiving people and things, or even smiling and smiling, they all have that kind of elite aura. The kind of jacket man in the system, with a modest smile, is able to capture the heart of a girl!
This has the advantage of being recognized by mainstream values. And what about the soft and cute little sister of the white girl, as soon as she saw this big brother in politics and law, her face was full of admiration, her face was full of peach blossoms, she was hot flashes and sweated, and she had insomnia and dreams......
Get. Once on a blind date, Leng let the girl enter menopause in advance!
The girl still has a little to think about. That day, she deliberately passed me a few recent photos of her Hanfu, and I took a look, oh, a little princess of Taiping, combing two shuangya, holding a palace fan. Pink gauze skirt with fluttering streamers!
The girl meant that I asked me to show this set of photos to the little brother of politics and law, I handed it over, and the brother of politics and law praised it vigorously and said:
This is the real little fairy!
Hey, I like to draw the red thread for men and women like this, and they all have that sincere smile on their faces'
I don't like to draw the red line to the kind of men and women who divide the pounds and two, the woman says that she is slow to heat, and the man says to look back and think about it, hey, it's awkward to look at. Forget it!
I know that this society is full of hierarchies these days.
Especially the background, the link that this young man can't choose by himself is divided into different layers. But I always want to say one thing:
Don't bully young people into poverty. He can become a dragon one day!
There was an old saying in the past, a good woman marries a son, and a woman marries a woman to draw clothes!
In terms of marriage, I think it should be: everything should be long-term!
Even if he has ten houses, if this person is not of good character and idle, then he will lose his house sooner or later. Even if he doesn't have a house now, but he works diligently and diligently, such a man is worthy of respect!
What's more, many ordinary properties in first-tier cities like Tianjin cannot guarantee a house for a lifetime in the future. Can't we see the current economic development situation? I have doubts about how much money a young man in his 20s who wants to lie flat will have to support them to eat old age, and we can't figure it out anyway.
And it is very happy for women to marry a husband who is knowledgeable and to marry a husband who they adore and like from the bottom of their hearts.
The reason why many women's marriages are not good is because they look down on their men from the bottom of their hearts, and they can't hide it.
The kind of look that dislikes others can turn into knives and stab at both sides.
And this kind of sting will stir up the evil side of human nature, and many tragic marriages start with women looking down on men, and end with men feeling sorry for women!
So in marriage, at least find someone you like physiologically, someone you want to see in your heart!
You even have to find a gene that is relatively more perfect, after all, you still have to fight for the next generation!
Nowadays, the big hat of the phoenix man is too big and too heavy, and it is really breathless to buckle on some rural boys.
And what about this girl, if she is crying at home every day, her parents are a little loose, I heard that they also secretly met, the young man who works in the court, hey, speaking in Tianjin: Jie spirit guy, too energetic!
But there is a third aunt in his family, who recites the funeral scriptures every day there, marries a phoenix man, and suffers a big disaster sooner or later, either drilling the refrigerator or committing a big case!
Now the situation was such that the girl wept vigorously, and she said angrily:
My third aunt wanted me to marry that Laizi, hmph, I don't know yet, because that Laizi's mother and my third aunt are card friends, and their relationship is very good, but somehow, since I met that court brother, I can't pretend to be someone else.
''Woo woo, aunt, you say, do I like it physiologically?''
I wondered, this girl really likes it physiologically. Because when I was standing on the street and chatting with her, a police car passed by, and she looked at Dole!
Whose girl, grooming in front of the window, seeing the young man, her heart is rippling, and the deer is knocking...
