The truth about extramarital affairs: For men who are originally in love, these kinds of words and deeds will basically appear!
The person who knows that you have emotions and still throws you aside just doesn't love you.
People who know that doing so will hurt you, but still do it, don't love you.
The person who loves you is reluctant to look at you sadly and ignore you,
In the eyes of those who love you, right or wrong is not important, you are more important.
A lover who can do these things is worthy of forgiveness, and if you can't do it, you need to make a careful choice.
For the man who is originally equipped with feelings, and the man who is worthy of forgiveness, these words and deeds will basically appear after cheating!
The first is that when you are caught cheating, you don't resist your wife's overreaction.
When the wife found out that the man was cheating, she couldn't accept it for a while, and she felt resentment.
So you may lose control of your emotions and scold the cheating man.
At this time, the words, deeds and attitude of the cheating man can directly explain what kind of feelings he has for his wife.
If you don't fight back, you won't scold back, and you will feel guilty in your heart.
Then this cheating man can be regarded as a rescue, and he still has some feelings for his wife.
Wives can take advantage of these feelings of cheating men to make cheating men deal with mistresses in turn,
After solving the extramarital affair, he can use the man's guilt to pinch the cheating man.
The man will not cheat again, the marriage is guaranteed, and the marriage has the meaning of continuing.
Of course, if the wives successfully solve the extramarital affair, they will also take the cheating man.
Wives also need to have a certain degree of getting along with cheating men.
You can't hold on to a man's cheating and torture this man every day,
Because feelings are consumables, if you keep consuming them and don't fill them, they will eventually be consumed.
Since I chose to continue my marriage, I just want to live a good life.
When the cheating man cooperates, the wives can find more ways to maintain the relationship,
Instead of blindly venting his emotions, the relationship deteriorated, and the man cheated again.
The second is to help the original partner when there is a conflict between the original partner and the junior.
After encountering an extramarital affair, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts between the wife and the mistress.
When the cheating man is aware, his attitude is a verification of his wife's feelings,
If a cheating man helps the mistress, he doesn't care about his wife's life or death.
He just doesn't love his wife at all, and he doesn't necessarily have true love for Xiaosan, but he must not love his wife anymore.
In this case, wives are advised to recognize the reality and not expect too much from the cheating man.
But if the cheating man chooses to help his wife, he will deal with the mistress together.
proves that the cheating man still has some feelings for his wife,
Wives should pay attention to the fact that what the cheating man shows is subconscious help.
instead of deliberately helping his wife, proving that he has no feelings for the mistress.
If a cheating man is deliberate, he is a ruthless person, this is true for the mistress, and still for his wife.
It may also be purposeful for a man to help his wife.
In the face of cheating men, wives still need to have two more eyes and reserve a way out for themselves.
You can't forgive him immediately because he helped you, help him clear his name,
It is natural for a cheating man to help his wife, and cheating is a mess he provoked.
If the cheating man does not help his wife, the wives must also be ruthless to the cheating man.
The third type, at the request of his wife, will break off the relationship with Xiao San and implement it into practical action.
A cheating man is not in pain that he can't see his wife.
The women who found out that their husbands were cheating on them all washed their faces with tears and broke down emotionally.
The cheating man saw it, and he still chose to continue to be with Xiao San.
He just doesn't care about his wife's pain, this kind of man just doesn't love and doesn't deserve love.
If a cheating man watches his wife in pain, he also feels very tormented.
In order to make his wife not painful, he broke off the relationship with Xiao San, and it was very neat.
In this case, wives can consider believing that the cheating man still has feelings for you.
But the wife does not have to forgive immediately, because it is necessary to defend others.
There are many men who use the name of their wives to get rid of the entanglement of the mistress,
broke up with Xiao San, not because he couldn't bear his wife's pain, but because he was tired of Xiao San.
When he was discovered, he was able to get rid of the mistress, and he was able to show favor to his wife.
You don't have to pay too much to be forgiven, and you can return to your family without loss.
This is the calculation of many cheating men, and wives must learn to guard against it.
Only if the cheating man really does these three situations, the wives can consider forgiveness.
If the cheating man is found to be cheating, he beats and scolds his wife, and directly starts to fight back.
even did better than his wife, a posture that his wife couldn't do anything to him,
When there was a conflict between his wife and the mistress, he was also on the side of the mistress.
The wife asked to break off the relationship, and the cheating man was only perfunctory, and continued to cheat with the mistress,
This kind of cheating man does not deserve the forgiveness of his wife, who needs to find a way to solve the extramarital affair.
You also need to recognize the nature of cheating men, the nature of your feelings,
Finally, decide where your marriage should go, how to reposition the relationship, and how to live the rest of your life.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.