How to judge whether a man still loves himself or not? Especially when the relationship has entered a dull period and the passion between each other is becoming less and less, it is always easy to be confused at this time, whether he no longer loves himself?
Men don't love a woman anymore, and women don't love a woman, the performance is very different.
Even if a man no longer loves a woman, he will often pretend to love her, especially if he has not found a way back, or has not found the next partner, he will occupy the woman until he finds a new partner, and then will give up the old love.
This is their usual operation, because men are more unbearable than women, and they can't accept the emotional window period, so they will choose this way to treat old love.
However, the pretended love, it is always pretended, no matter how well it is pretended, as long as a man does not love a woman, his behavior will change, and these changes cannot deceive people.
1. He will care less
The most obvious manifestation of a man not loving a woman is that he will care less about women, which is a fact that cannot be changed.
He no longer cares what time you get up, what time you go to work, whether you have breakfast, what time you leave work, what you are doing when you go to work, whether you are hungry, or what you have achieved at work, and what troubles you have at work.
He may occasionally greet you and ask if you have eaten, but instead of caring about you, it is more like a routine, and if you say that you haven't eaten, he will only say that you should hurry up and eat.
If you are unhappy, he will not care about you carefully, what is the reason for being unhappy, and after knowing the reason, he will only comfort you very perfunctorily, and then make yourself sad.
When you are sick, you are not feeling well, you have something in your life, and he is no longer actively caring about you.
This is the manifestation of a man not loving someone, because he is not loving, so the care will naturally decrease, which is inevitable, because he will no longer focus on you.
Second, his whereabouts will become very mysterious
If a man loves a woman, he wants to tell her his whereabouts twenty-four hours a day, fearing that his omission will make her unhappy, or that she suspects that he has done something bad.
Love is to share her whereabouts with the other person naturally, let her know what she is doing, and the purpose is to make her feel at ease.
But when a man doesn't love a woman, he hides his whereabouts.
You often don't know where he is, what he's doing, who he's with, and sometimes if you want to ask him what he's doing, he will be very impatient, and even annoy you, blaming you for not trusting him, and checking his post.
When you ask him where he is, his answers are always plausible, and when he does, it is as if he didn't answer, "outside", "with his brothers", "at dinner", these answers always make you scratch your head.
You want to know where he is, but he doesn't say it. I just don't want you to know his whereabouts.
Either you're doing something you're going to be unhappy about, or you're being with someone else of the opposite sex. In short, I can't let you know too much, because I'm afraid that you will check him, and the more he says, the easier it will be to expose the stuff, so I simply don't say it.
3. I will be very impatient with your attitude
When a man starts to be impatient with a woman, then be careful, his love has faded away. Of course, this is talking about a very good attitude, very gentle, and very considerate kind when you are in love.
If a man does not love a woman, his attitude will also change a lot.
Maybe the changes are subtle at the beginning, and it is difficult for you to notice, such as being impatient when talking to you, interrupting your speech, or he doesn't listen to you when you are talking, etc.
Later, the temper slowly became worse and worse, and he became more and more impatient with you.
You're going out to the movies, and he's been urging you for a few more minutes, and he's impatient.
If you walk outside and you go a little slower, he will murder you and tell you to go faster.
His patience with you has disappeared with the disappearance of his love for you, or perhaps, like love, not gone, but transferred.
If you want to know whether a man still loves you, you don't have to test hard, you just need to judge from these three behaviors.
If there are two or more behaviors at the same time, then it can basically be judged that his love for you has almost disappeared. You need to be mentally prepared because he may leave you at any time.
You need to figure out what you really want, whether to continue the relationship or start a new life of your own, and then see what to do.
For a man who no longer loves himself, my advice is to stop the loss early, because a person who no longer loves you, even if you keep him for a while, then you stay with a man who does not love you, and every day with him will be extremely painful.
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Illustration of the article|Stills from "La La Land".