01
Other people's husbands take the initiative to hand over their salary cards to their wives as soon as they get married.
And my husband took the initiative to hand over his salary card to his mother as soon as he got married.
You read that right, my genuine wife couldn't get her husband's salary card, but my mother-in-law took her son's salary card and flaunted her power in front of me, saying that her son was filial and felt sorry for her mother.
I looked at my husband, and he looked disapproving, as if it was a matter of course not to give his wife a salary card to his parents after marriage.
02
My name is Song Yingying, and I have been married to my husband for 3 years, but I have never seen a penny of my husband's salary, not even his salary card, let alone know how much his monthly salary is.
My husband and I are in free love, and he stalked me a lot, and I reluctantly agreed to be his girlfriend. When I was in love, my husband was obedient to me.
However, the husband before marriage was well disguised, but the husband after marriage didn't want to pretend anymore, and directly revealed his mother's nature as a man.
To buy a wedding house, my husband wants to buy it in a place close to his parents' community, saying that I don't like my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living together, but he wants to fulfill his filial piety to his parents, so he can only choose to settle down close to his parents.
To give the bride price, my parents mentioned 100,000 yuan, and at the same time they will marry 100,000 yuan. My husband felt sorry for his parents, and he was stunned to treat me softly and hard, and asked for a bride price of 50,000 yuan, and his parents would think that my family was selling their daughter.
03
After stumbling through the wedding and marriage, I thought that my husband and I would be able to live a stable married life. However, it turned out that I was too naïve and innocent.
Because of the proximity, my in-laws come to my house almost every day to report for duty. Even if there is nothing going on, they will habitually come to my house with a spare key, often embarrassing me and feeling like I can't let go of my own home.
It's just that my in-laws come to the house to hang out, and they like to point out my living habits and behaviors, pick and choose, and always say how I did at that time, and you have to do what I do.
My mother-in-law likes to guide the country at my house, and I put up with it for the sake of my husband. But she prefers to encourage her husband to make all kinds of unreasonable demands with me. As soon as I refused, she cried and rolled around.
04
Under the mother-in-law's various pretentiousness, her husband took the initiative to hand over her salary card to her mother-in-law as soon as she got married. When I came to my senses, my husband's salary card would no longer be available.
In a fit of rage, I asked my husband to get his salary card back, but he only agreed to share half of the expenses every month, and the rest was not a penny. I was so angry, but I couldn't mention divorce because I was pregnant.
It's just that I'm pregnant, and my husband didn't compromise, but under the prodding of my mother-in-law, he was even more scheming with me.
The cost of prenatal check-ups, the cost of giving birth to a child, and the cost of raising a child during pregnancy, he and I have calculated everything clearly.
If I hadn't seen that the child was still young, I would have quit a long time ago. A man who is always in the AA system with you, what qualifications does he have to be the father of your children?
05
From pregnancy to childbirth, to taking care of the child, my mother-in-law stood by and said, saying that my mother-in-law had no obligation to take care of her daughter-in-law's confinement and asked my mother-in-law to help.
So, my parents felt sorry for me, so they had to take care of it all. Seeing that my parents work hard every day to take care of the children, while my mother-in-law travels all day long, chic and free, I proposed to change the child's surname to mine.
My husband jumped up when he heard this, and then told me a lot of theories about women marrying chickens and dogs. Looking at my mother-in-law's husband, I was disappointed for the first time.
I didn't quarrel with him, I decided directly, in the future, I will earn a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan to honor my parents 8,000, anyway, the child is raised by my parents, and the living expenses are paid by my parents, and I should give them all my salary.
06
At that time, my husband was still complacent, saying that when his parents-in-law came, he could lie down directly. I don't think so, the child's surname can't be changed, so don't change it, but all the personal contacts of my in-laws' family in the future have nothing to do with me.
It's just that my husband's face was inevitably beaten too quickly. Just over a year later, my mother-in-law found cancer during a physical examination, and the first examination was early to mid-term.
Although the doctor said that surgery can be done, the cost of surgery is not cheap, and there is a series of follow-up rehabilitation training, and the disease is easy to recur, so you can't be tired or worried.
My mother-in-law's illness has undergone several surgeries back and forth, and long-term rehabilitation training has cost a lot. My husband, who is poor and short-sighted, has no way out, so he has his eyes on my salary.
07
My husband persuaded me to take out 200,000 yuan to treat his mother's illness, but I advised him to think twice. After all, some diseases are easy to run out of people and money. He immediately became anxious and said that I didn't expect his mother to be better.
My husband grinds me every day and persuades me to use money to help his mother tide over the difficulties. I bluntly told him that my monthly salary is 10,000, 8,000 per month to honor my parents, and the remaining 2,000 is spent by myself, and there is no extra money, so let him figure it out by himself.
My husband, who was originally humble and asked for money, was so angry that he jumped to his feet when he heard that I was honoring my parents for 8,000 yuan a month, pointing at my nose and scolding: Your parents have a monthly pension of 10,000 yuan, and you still honor them 8,000, you are transferring the joint property of husband and wife, which is too much. My mother's treatment fee of 200,000 yuan, you have all covered.
Looking at my husband, who had been angry, I didn't say a word, packed my luggage and went back to my parents' house with my parents and children. As for my mother-in-law's 200,000 treatment fee, there is nothing I can do. After all, I didn't take a penny of her son's 3-year salary.