In a community in Chongqing, a girl posted a post about her feelings. She complained that her mother had never been away for a day, had nothing to do at home all day, and was even addicted to gambling. She described the poverty of the family and the contradictions between her parents, as well as her mother's attitude towards the elderly, expressing her dissatisfaction and confusion about her mother's behavior.
However, in the comment area, some netizens questioned the poster. They believe that the poster should not blame the mother unilaterally, and some even blame the poster for giving up her career due to the difficulty of bringing her as a child. These remarks caused some controversy and made the poster even more confused.
This controversy has led to the question of family and personal responsibility. From the perspective of the poster, she believes that her mother's unmotivation and negativity are the main reasons for the family's difficulties, and she hopes that her mother can change and make a positive contribution to the family. However, some netizens believe that the poster should not blame the mother entirely, and also need to consider the influence of family history and personal upbringing.
To sum up, family issues are complex and responsibilities cannot be simply divided in black and white. When dealing with such issues, it is necessary to think rationally, respect everyone's position and feelings, and seek appropriate solutions to promote family harmony and personal growth.