On the campus lake in the early morning, the breeze is light and sparkling. Xiao Xunlong, a young man who is about to enter the palace of marriage, sits alone on a bench by the lake, lost in thought. He is about to spend his life hand in hand with his beloved, but he is still a little confused about the true meaning of married life.
At this moment, a kind old man came slowly and sat down beside him. The old man's name is Mr. Zhao, and he is a senior teacher in the school and a marriage counselor in the hearts of many people. Xiao Xunlong had heard many of his stories and had a lot of respect for him.
"Young man, what are you thinking?" Mr. Zhao asked gently.
Xiao Xunlong replied a little shyly: "Mr. Zhao, I am about to get married, but I feel confused about the true meaning of married life. I want to know, what is a husband and wife?"
Mr. Zhao smiled and nodded, and said slowly: "Husband and wife are the mutual integration of two hearts, and they are partners who support each other and spend the wind and rain together. And for a couple to have a long-lasting relationship, there are some important characteristics that need to be present. ”
Xiao Xunlong listened with relish, and he asked eagerly, "Teacher Zhao, can you tell me these characteristics?"
Mr. Zhao smiled and nodded, and began to speak.
"First of all, there should be trust between husband and wife. Trust is the cornerstone of the relationship between husband and wife, and only mutual trust can build a solid emotional foundation. ”
Xiao Xunlong nodded thoughtfully, secretly noting this in his heart.
"Secondly, there should be communication between husband and wife. Communication is the key to solving problems, and only by being honest and speaking freely can we eliminate misunderstandings and enhance understanding. ”
Xiao Xunlong believes that he understands the importance of communication in interpersonal relationships.
"Third, there should be tolerance between husband and wife. Everyone has their own shortcomings and shortcomings, and only by tolerating and understanding each other can we make the relationship more harmonious. ”
Xiao Xunlong silently repeated the word "tolerance" in his heart, determined to integrate it into his married life.
Mr. Zhao went on to talk about other characteristics: respect, support, loyalty, caring, growing together, division of labor, mutual motivation, optimism, and conflict resolution. Each feature was explained by Mr. Zhao with vivid examples and real data, which made Xiao Xunlong listen to it fascinated.
When Mr. Zhao finished talking about the last characteristic, Xiao Xunlong felt as if he had experienced a baptism of the soul. He took a deep breath and said with emotion, "Teacher Zhao, I have benefited a lot from your teachings. I understand that the long-term relationship between husband and wife is not easy, but as long as we manage and cherish it with our hearts, we will definitely be able to create a happy married life. ”
Mr. Zhao smiled and patted Xiao Xunlong's shoulder and encouraged: "Young man, marriage is a beautiful journey, but it is also full of challenges and difficulties. As long as you can support each other and grow together, you will be able to overcome every difficulty and create your own happiness. ”
Xiao Xunlong looked at Mr. Zhao gratefully, his heart full of hope and confidence. He believes that in the days to come, he and his beloved will be able to work together to survive the storm and create a happy married life.
In the early morning, the breeze is still sparkling on the shore of the campus lake. Xiao Xunlong sat alone on the bench, but his heart was full of strength and courage. He stood up and took a firm step in the direction of the future.
This story tells us that the long-term relationship between husband and wife is not easy, but as long as we manage and cherish it with our hearts, we will be able to create a happy married life. The key to this is whether we can understand and practice the characteristics that make a relationship last. When we truly trust, communicate, tolerate, respect, support, loyal, caring, grow together, work together, motivate each other, maintain optimism and resolve conflicts, we can have a happy married life.