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"Xiaofang, I heard that you have a deposit of 100,000 yuan, all of which you saved yourself. It's better to keep them all for us, you newlyweds don't have much money. In the future, it will be more expensive to add children, and it will be more convenient to take this money for emergencies when the time comes. "
"Yes, yes, you young people don't have much experience, and you have to worry about big and small expenses in the future. The money is the safest for our old people, and we are naturally more experienced than you at this age. "
When I heard this, I was very upset. This money is very precious to me, and I originally wanted to use it as our family fund in the future. But if I insist on not giving, I'm afraid of breaking my in-laws' hearts.
I looked at my husband Zhang Ming beside me, my eyes full of expectation, hoping that he could help me out. From blind date to marriage, he has always been honest and trustworthy. I trust that he will do justice for me.
"Mom and Dad, Xiaofang's savings is her salary accumulation for many years, and it is her own hard work. She originally wanted to keep it as our family fund in the future, which could be used to cover some big expenses. We will take good care of this money and use it ourselves, so you don't have to worry too much. "
After speaking, he looked at me firmly, his eyes sincere and warm.
"We're not children anymore, and we'll plan our own things. Rest assured, we will take responsibility for our lives. "
When I heard my husband's words, I was overjoyed and moved. I didn't expect him to be so determined to defend me and our marriage. This made me even more convinced that I was married to a good man who was assertive and responsible.
I watched my father-in-law and mother-in-law be a little speechless for a while by Zhang Ming's insistence. After a while, the mother-in-law said, "Okay, since you are so assertive, you can keep the money for yourself." Just live a good life in the future. "
In the evening, when we were alone, I sincerely said to Zhang Ming: "I am very happy and touched by you to defend me today. You have given me great confidence and courage to believe that our marriage is wonderful. "
Zhang Ming smiled and said: "Of course, you are my wife, and I will always fight side by side with you." As long as we respect and trust each other, there is no problem that cannot be solved. "
I nodded, secretly determined that no matter what difficulties I encountered in the future, I would share the joys and sorrows with my husband and support each other. With him by my side, I am full of confidence in the future.
A few months later, at a family gathering, my father-in-law suddenly mentioned my savings again: "Xiaofang, how is the 100,000 yuan you saved now? I see that your expenses have been not small recently, and the money is almost gone." "
I was about to respond, but I saw Zhang Ming stand up with a solemn face. My heart tightened, and I didn't know how he would react.
"Mom and Dad," Zhang Ming said, "Xiaofang's money has been saved well, and it is slowly increasing in value." We have our own financial plan, so you don't have to worry about it. We will plan for our future. "
The mother-in-law obviously didn't expect Zhang Ming to be so resolute, and she was speechless for a while. After a while, she said, "Well, you'll be in charge." Just live a good life in the future. "
Seeing my husband stand up for us again, I couldn't praise him in my heart. I realized that I was married to a good man who was assertive and responsible. With his support and maintenance, I am full of confidence in the future.
That night, I was alone on the balcony savoring this hard-won happiness. I think that the essence of marriage is not mutual respect and mutual trust? With this, no amount of difficulties can be feared. I am glad that I am married to Zhang Ming, and he uses his actions to explain what a good husband is.
I took a deep breath of the fresh night air and secretly made up my mind that no matter what difficulties I encountered in the future, I would share the joys and sorrows with my husband and support each other. I believe that as long as we are together, there is nothing that cannot be solved.
After this incident, I realized the importance of mutual respect in marriage. If there is no respect, they will be like their in-laws, turning a blind eye to their partner's independent personality. Luckily, I married a good man who understood this.
Zhang Ming not only respects me, but is also willing to publicly defend my rights. He has his own opinions and dares to speak out against his elders. This kind of courage and commitment is exactly why I was attracted to him in the first place. I'm glad I was right.
One day, Zhang Ming took the initiative to talk to me about this incident: "I fought for you that day because I felt that you were an independent individual with your own personality and dignity. Your deposit is earned by your own efforts, and I have no right to deprive you of your control over it. "
"We got married because we value each other and are willing to respect each other's independence. Only on the basis of mutual respect can our marriage be happy. When I heard my husband's words, I was impressed by his insight and wisdom, and my heart was filled with admiration.
Zhang Ming's words made me deeply understand. The most important thing in marriage is to respect each other and respect each other's independent personality and rights. Only on the basis of mutual respect can our marriage last a long time.
I remembered that when I first went on a blind date, Zhang Ming left a good impression on me. He is sincere and steady, thoughtful and independent, and never blindly obeys authority. That's what I appreciate the most. Today, he is still the same, still maintaining an independent personality and opinions. It was this independence and courage that made me even more sure that marrying him was the right choice.
I stepped forward and hugged my husband and whispered in his ear, "Thank you, Zhang Ming." I am so lucky to have such a caring husband as you. I will always support you and walk side by side with you. "
Zhang Ming hugged me with a happy smile on his face. I know that as long as we trust and support each other, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome.
Since then, I have cherished the happy life in front of me even more. Every time I think of my husband's courage to stand up to my elders in order to defend my rights and interests, I feel extremely proud and happy.
With Zhang Ming by my side, I am full of confidence in the future. I know very well that no matter how rough and difficult the road ahead is, as long as we work hand in hand and work together, we will be able to clear all obstacles and walk towards the other side of happiness together.
Soon after, we added a lovely son. Watching my children grow up day by day, I have become more aware of the importance of family. A warm and harmonious family is the greatest happiness for us ordinary people. And to maintain a happy family, mutual respect is fundamental.
I often think that if Zhang Ming hadn't bravely defended my rights in the first place, there would have been an unbridgeable gap between us. Fortunately, he has an independent personality and opinions, and is willing to defend our rights and interests publicly, which makes our relationship stronger in the ordeal.
Sometimes when you get along with your in-laws, there will inevitably be some small frictions. But every time this happens, Zhang Ming will not hesitate to fight side by side with me and turn the tide. Watching him go to great lengths to preserve our marriage again and again, my heart was filled with great emotion and happiness.
I know that this happiness is not easy to come by. It is built on respect and trust between us. As long as we always respect and trust each other, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome. Let's join hands, shoulder to shoulder, and work hard for this happiness together.
And just like that, the days went by. As the children grow up, our relationship grows deeper and deeper. Every time I look at my husband, I will thank God for letting me marry such a good man with an independent personality and opinions. It was his courage and commitment that made our marriage stronger in the midst of tribulations; It was his generosity and understanding that gave us a happy family.
The years flew by, and in a blink of an eye, my son had grown up and started his own life journey. Watching him step by step towards independence, I had mixed feelings in my heart. On the one hand, I am extremely proud of his growth, and on the other hand, I am also a little reluctant to leave this child who was once closely cared for.
One day, my son said to me, "Mom, I decided to go out and go out to develop in other places." Rest assured, you and Dad, I will definitely work hard and come back to live with you in the future. "
I looked at my son's determined eyes, nodded and said, "Okay, mom supports you." As long as you have a dream, you should be bold to pursue it, and don't live up to your youth. No matter where you are in the future, your home will always be your safe haven. "
On the day my son left home, I saw him off with tears in my eyes. Zhang Ming was unusual, hugged his son with a resolute expression, and instructed: "Work hard and be a person worthy of yourself." No matter what the future holds, Daddy will always be with you. "
Fortunately, with Zhang Ming, a confidant by my side, my retirement life is not so boring. Sometimes we go for a walk in the park, or play cards and chess at home. Every time I see other couples in the park, I am even more grateful for my choice back then. It is Zhang Ming's independent personality and courage that have allowed our marriage to come to this day.
One day, we were chatting at home, and Zhang Ming suddenly said: "Do you remember the incident when your in-laws asked to take away your savings? If I hadn't insisted on defending you, our marriage might not have come to this day." "
I nodded, my eyes gloomy: "Yes, if you didn't have the courage and responsibility at that time, I might have been crushed by them." Fortunately, with you by my side, our marriage can be happy. "
Zhang Ming held my hand firmly and said solemnly: "Yes, our marriage is based on mutual respect. As long as we always respect and trust each other, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome. "
In this way, with Zhang Ming, a confidant lover, we spent the old age of our lives peacefully. Although the life after retirement is more leisurely, the inner happiness is unprecedented.
Sometimes I sit on the balcony and watch the sun go down, looking back on the experiences of my life. I remembered the decision I made back then, to marry this good man with an independent personality and assertive opinions. It was this decision that made my life go from twists and turns to flat, from bitter to sweet.
If I hadn't married Zhang Ming back then, I would probably have been crushed by my in-laws' family and lost myself. And with him by my side, I can maintain my independent personality and live a happy life.
I often thank God for letting me marry such a virtuous and capable man as Zhang Ming. It was his courage and responsibility that turned the tide in the face of the trials of marriage; It was his generosity and understanding that gave us a happy family; It is also his independent personality and assertiveness that will always make me full of confidence and expectation for the future.