My name is Ms. Wang, and I am a secondary school teacher with more than 20 years of teaching experience. I have only my daughter Zhang Lin and I in my family, and she is a bright star in my life. But lately, I've noticed that she's become a little depressed, and she's not as lively and cheerful as she used to be.
Zhang Lin's conflict stems from the relationship between her and her boyfriend Li Ming. Li Ming is a high-yielding and self-motivated college student, they met on the college campus, from knowing each other to falling in love, everything is so beautiful. However, as Li Ming's academic pressure increased and his internship work was busy, he gradually distanced himself from Zhang Lin, rarely spent time with her, and no longer cared about her emotions and needs.
Zhang Lin began to feel lonely and lost, and she tried to communicate with Li Ming, but Li Ming always used busy work and academic tension as an excuse, which made her feel more and more helpless and anxious. So, she began to run away from the problem, becoming more immersed in her own world, reluctant to communicate with others, and even me, a mother, was reluctant to share her heart with her.
Watching the changes in my daughter, I have mixed feelings in my heart. I wanted to help her, but I didn't know where to start. Until one day, when I was chatting with my neighbor Aunt Wang, she gave me some valuable advice. She told me that in the face of family conflicts, the most important thing is to communicate openly and find each other's problems, rather than avoiding and avoiding.
After listening to Aunt Wang's words, I decided to give it a try. I first talked to Zhang Lin to try to understand what she really thought in her heart. Zhang Lin was a little resistant at first, but with my patient listening, she finally opened her heart and confided in me about her uneasiness and anxiety. She said that she felt the emotions of being ignored by Li Ming, but she did not know how to communicate with him, for fear of hurting his self-esteem.
I comforted Zhang Lin and told her to learn to express her feelings honestly without worrying about hurting the other person. I also suggested that she and Li Ming sit down and have a good talk and find a solution to the problem together. With my encouragement and support, Zhang Lin began to re-examine this relationship and was full of expectations for the future.
However, just as Zhang Lin was about to sit down with Li Ming to have a good talk, a sudden accident broke the apparent tranquility. Li Ming encountered some work challenges during his internship, which caused him to become very depressed. After Zhang Lin learned the news, he decided to go to Li Ming to comfort him, but found that he had left the city and went to another city to look for job opportunities.
Zhang Lin was flustered for a while, she didn't know what to do. I looked at my daughter's anxious expression, and my heart also plucked. I knew that this sudden turn of events could have a big impact on their relationship, and I had to find a way to help them through this.
So, I discussed it with Zhang Lin and decided to calm down first and not panic. We believe that as long as we insist on communication and trust each other, we will be able to get through this difficult time. I comforted Zhang Lin and told her to believe in Li Ming, believe in the relationship between them, and don't give up because of temporary difficulties.
After some hard work, we finally found Li Ming's contact information. Zhang Lin did not hesitate to call Li Ming and expressed her worries and concerns to him. Li Ming listened to Zhang Lin's words, and was almost choked up with emotion, he told Zhang Lin that he just wanted to leave for a while and think about his future, and he didn't think about giving up their relationship.
Hearing the news, Zhang Lin finally breathed a sigh of relief. I know that although there will be many challenges in their relationship, as long as they can understand and support each other, they will definitely be able to get through it. I looked at my daughter's smiling face, and my heart was full of relief.
In the following days, Zhang Lin and Li Ming cherished their feelings for each other more, they learned to communicate more honestly, and their relationship with each other became more stable. I watched my daughter smile again, and my heart was full of happiness.
Gradually, the atmosphere at home became more harmonious, and we were reunited as a family to meet the challenges of the future. I believe that as long as we support each other and understand each other, we will be able to create a better tomorrow.