In today's era of soaring housing prices, buying a house is a big challenge for many families. However, when the pressure to buy a house comes not only from high housing prices, but also mixed with conflicts and misunderstandings within the family, life is like being shrouded in dark clouds, and it is difficult to see the sun. 近日，安徽一位女子因公婆不帮扶还房贷而倍感压力，生活过得紧巴巴，此事一经曝光，便引起了广大网友的热烈讨论。
The woman and her husband were ordinary working-class people, and in order to have a sense of belonging, they decided to buy a house of their own. However, the high housing prices made them feel pressure, the total price of the house was 3 million, they had paid 1.5 million, and the remaining 1.5 million were loaned, and with the loan came the repayment of the monthly payment, which has undoubtedly become a mountain in their hearts.
The woman mentioned that because her father-in-law was 7,000 per month and her mother-in-law was 3,000 per month, this income situation made her feel that she could lend a helping hand to them, but her husband refused, thinking that when she grew up, she would have to be self-reliant, not gnawing at the old, and her parents' wages should be at their discretion.
The woman also began to complain, mentioning that in addition to the mortgage, living expenses, and children's tuition, she usually did not dare to buy a few clothes, and in the face of such a dilemma, her in-laws were obviously able to help, but why were they so indifferent? The woman's heart was full of incomprehension and grievances. She didn't understand why her in-laws would choose to stand by in the face of family difficulties. This kind of contradiction and confusion not only made her feel painful, but also made the whole family atmosphere tense and heavy.
As soon as this matter was exposed, it sparked heated discussions among netizens.
You don't have the ability, what 3 million house to buy?? Whatever you do, you have to decide according to your ability!!! You must not kidnap others, no one owes you! Mother-in-law is rich, and she has no obligation to help you!!! And I helped you, what if you can't say that you are a white-eyed wolf??? My parents-in-law are old and retired, and it is the time to enjoy happiness, so let them travel, go to the tea and eat with their peers, go to the gym, and chat, this is the right way!!
Since your young couple has a low income, why do you go to buy a house of more than 3 million yuan? Why don't you do what you can? Ask yourself more! Don't nail your eyes to your in-laws, why don't you nail your parents? When you look at your heart, you are not authentic! You also say that your in-laws do not subsidize you, but your husband still understands people and is also a filial son! It is worthy of praise!
As much as you have the ability, you should do as much as you can.
Why don't you think about your mother-in-law and father-in-law? Why are you staring at the old man's money? They have no obligation! They have already worked hard to raise their son, and it is time for you to repay the old man's kindness!
Why don't you ask your parents to help?
Discuss it well, as a junior, you shouldn't count on the elderly.
If I support you, do you want to set up a courtyard house in Beijing?
In this discussion, we saw that everyone expressed confusion about the woman's behavior, and that she was an adult and should take responsibility for her own life.
However, in the face of difficulties, we should maintain a positive attitude and firm belief to meet the challenges of life together.
The editor has something to say:
For this incident, I deeply felt the delicate relationship between family responsibilities and affection, as well as the profound impact of life challenges on personal growth. In approaching this question, we need to look at it from multiple perspectives to gain a more complete understanding of the complexity and diversity involved.
We need to admit that in today's society, buying a home can be a huge challenge for many families. High housing prices have put many young couples under heavy financial pressure. In this case, the woman's hope to be able to receive financial support from her in-laws is also out of a desire and pursuit of family happiness. However, we must realize that everyone has their own lives and responsibilities, including in-laws. They may have already made plans for their own lives and retirement, and not all elderly people are able or willing to bear the financial pressure of their children.
The woman's husband's attitude towards self-reliance and self-reliance is commendable. He understands that as an adult, you should take responsibility for your own life and not rely too much on your parents. This spirit of independence is very important for both personal growth and family harmony. At the same time, he also respects his parents' wishes and choices, and does not force them to pay for their financial problems.
We should also see that in this family conflict, the pressure and confusion that women are suffering from are real. She not only has to face multiple financial pressures such as mortgages, living expenses, and children's tuition fees, but also has to endure emotional distress caused by family conflicts. In this case, we need more understanding and love instead of blaming and complaining. As family members, we should support each other and face difficulties together, rather than passing the blame on each other or external factors.
All in all, the relationship between family responsibilities and affection is complex and delicate. We need to understand, support, and respect each other when facing life's challenges. Both the in-laws and the children should take on the family responsibilities according to their abilities and wishes. At the same time, we should also maintain a positive attitude and firm belief to meet the challenges of life together. Only in this way can we build a harmonious and happy family environment and face the wind and rain of the future together.
No matter what difficulties and challenges we face, we should not forget the power of family affection. Family is our most solid backing and safe haven, only by supporting each other and moving forward together, can we overcome all difficulties and meet a better future.
What do you think of the woman's behavior?
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