In the bustling city, Ash is an ordinary young man who is ordinary-looking, introverted, and always lives in obscurity among the crowd. However, Ash has an untold secret - he is a man.
Ash is not the kind of blatant and unscrupulous womanizer, his lust is more reflected in the depths of his heart, his appreciation and yearning for beautiful things. He likes to look at beautiful women, and likes to admire their graceful posture and elegant temperament. Whenever he saw a beautiful girl, there would always be an inexplicable excitement and joy in his heart.
However, Ash's lust didn't bring him much luck. On the contrary, he often finds himself in embarrassment and trouble because of his lust. Once, he accidentally glanced at the girl next to him on the bus, only to be spotted by the other party and glared at him fiercely. Another time, he expressed his affection for a female colleague at a company party, only to be sneered at by the other party.
Ash's lust makes him feel miserable and confused. He began to wonder if he had really done something wrong, and was it a mistake for a man to be?
However, by chance, Ash meets an elder named Lao Li. Lao Li is an experienced and wise old man, and he sees the confusion and struggle in Xiao Zhi's heart.
Lao Li told Xiao Zhi: "There is nothing wrong with men being lustful, this is human nature. However, lust does not equate to indulgence, nor does it equate to disrespect for others. A truly productive man should know how to control his desires and how to maintain his dignity and demeanor while appreciating the good. ”
Lao Li's words made Xiao Zhi suddenly brighten. He realizes that his previous lustful behavior was indeed a bit excessive, without taking into account the feelings and dignity of others. He began to reflect on his actions and tried to find a more appropriate way to express his lustful heart.
Over time, Ash gradually learns how to control his desires. He no longer stares at beautiful women as unscrupulously as before, but has learned to look at them with an appreciative eye. He also began to pay attention to his image and demeanor, and no longer lost his dignity because of lust.
Gradually, Ash's life begins to change. He found that when he expressed his lustful heart in a more mature and steady way, others became more kind and respectful towards him. His self-confidence also improved, and he began to dare to pursue the girl he really liked.
At a company-hosted dance party, Ash meets a beautiful and generous girl. Attracted by her temperament and charisma, he decided to muster up the courage to express his heart to her. He showed his lustful heart to the girl in a graceful and respectful way, and the girl was also impressed by his sincerity and demeanor.
Eventually, Ash and the girl come together. Their relationship grows deeper and deeper, appreciating and respecting each other's strengths and traits. Ash also realizes that it is precisely because of his lustful heart that he has more courage and motivation to pursue true love and happiness.
This story teaches us that it is not a mistake for men to be. However, we need to learn how to control our desires, how to maintain our dignity and demeanor while appreciating the good. Only in this way can we truly become a productive man and win the respect and recognition of others.
At the same time, the story reminds us not to be too ourselves or others. Everyone has their own preferences and pursuits, as long as we can treat others with respect and understanding, we can build a more harmonious and beautiful interpersonal relationship.
Finally, let's end the story with a meaningful sentence: "There is nothing wrong with men being lustful, and men who are not lustful are generally unproductive." But the real thing is how we control our desires, how we maintain our dignity and grace while pursuing the good. ”