Many people and many things in the world are ignored, and only after being let down do they understand preciousness!
Mothers are the greatest people in the world! and the strongest and most caring woman in the world!
Whether it's beautiful or ugly, whether it's poor or rich! This love from my mother is incomparable, and there will never be anything else that can be replaced!
"Stay-at-home mom" refers to a mother who takes care of the whole family at home alone, and does not go out to work!
The topic of "stay-at-home mom" has always been very controversial in modern society, with some supporting and some opposing.
Strong women are against women being "stay-at-home mothers" because they advocate women's economic independence!
Recently, a female college student complained about her mother on the Internet!
The schoolgirl posted a post in which she mainly complained about her mother.
His family is a very ordinary family, and she is an only child. His family's main source of income is his father's part-time job.
And his family's house is also a bungalow handed down from his grandfather, which may be very dilapidated!
The father's income is not high, and he can barely maintain the basic life of the family! But the father is very good to his daughter and has never lacked the needs of his daughter.
After all, a person has limited energy to work to make money, and his income can only maintain the normal life of his husband and wife.
The living expenses that need to be given to grandparents every month are a little stretched!
But for as long as he can remember, his mom has never gone out to work!
Although the family's income is not high, and the source of income is not much, his mother never thought of working.
Instead, he stayed at home every day and didn't go out, nor did he socialize!
He described his mother as a primitive person! And his mother did not have a good relationship with his grandparents, and even did something to his grandmother when they quarreled!
once divorced his father, but later the two remarried. In his opinion, he didn't know why his father would accept such a mother!
Now this female college student has grown up, but his mother actually told him to let him earn money and buy a house for his mother in the future!
She was very incomprehensible. When I was a child, I didn't get much maternal love, and when I grew up, such a mother was embarrassed to say to her daughter that she would buy a house for herself!
He felt that his mother had been relying on her husband's support when she was young, and when she was old, he wanted to rely on her daughter!
He has relied on others to support him all his life, and he has never thought of working to support himself.
The living conditions of his family have never been very good, and his daughter once felt inferior to her family situation.
Now that he has grown up, he has become the object of his mother's demands!
What made him even more uncomfortable was that his mother actually told her that when looking for a boyfriend, she must find a good family condition!
And she already has a boyfriend, although this boyfriend's family background is very ordinary, and he is also an ordinary person.
But the two get along very well and have a good relationship!
But now his mother actually asked them to provide for his old age, he felt that he was under too much pressure, and he didn't have any gratitude for such a mother!
From this post, we can feel the despair of this female college student for her mother!
(1) The conditions of my original family have always been bad, but everyone is working hard to make their lives better. Except for his own mother!
(2) My mother's contribution to the family is basically zero, and she can't help anything.
(3) I have never felt mother's love, because I grew up with my grandparents since I was a child.
After the post was posted on the Internet, it caused controversy from countless mothers!
(1), some stay-at-home mothers brought in their roles and criticized this daughter very sharply!
(2) Some mothers say that they are also full-time mothers and have daughters, but they feel very depressed to see such a daughter look at their mother like this!
(3), some mother netizens directly broke the defense, and the mother didn't use you to raise it, so you started to talk nonsense!
(4) Some women say that full-time mothers really can't do it, not only their husbands look down on them, but even their daughters look down on them!
(5) Some mothers say that your mother may have taken you to support you and didn't go to work, or you may have forced your mother to give up her previous career when you were a child!
(6) There are also some mothers who understand the girl's complaints, after all, his mother does not work and gambles, which is an act that makes the whole family feel suffocated!
Is there anything wrong with being a "stay-at-home mom"?
The girl had a grudge against her mother, and even said that she had some resentment. Maybe it's not because mom never works.
Because in social life, many women are playing the role of stay-at-home mothers. They are constantly busy for the daily life and household chores of the whole family.
Every day, the child should make breakfast and dinner on time, and the child's homework should be tutored in the evening.
When the children go to school, the household chores at home should also be cleaned up.
Children are picked up and dropped off every day after school.
This could just be a very ordinary life experience for stay-at-home moms every day!
Even the whole family needs to go out and buy vegetables and cook three meals a day.
A large family of several people eats, drinks, and sleeps, and he is all responsible for taking care of it alone!
Once the child is sick or has a bump, then the mother will be busy and spinning, and she can't stop at all.
Those of us who are outsiders may look at these stay-at-home moms as if they were relaxed!
I didn't have to do heavy work every day, I was tired, I watched TV on the couch for a while, and when I was hungry, I went to the kitchen to get something to eat.
But in fact, in this whole process, the labor and mental exhaustion of women are very tormenting!
The mother of the female college student in the article has a lot of problems, she may be really lazy, and she also gambles, and she is not filial to the elderly, and her living habits are not good!
But he doesn't represent the profession of a stay-at-home mom made up entirely of women!
Everyone has the right to choose life, and simple complaining can't solve the problem, so it's better for two people to speak openly and honestly!
Hail to every mother, or woman who is about to become a mother!
Maybe he can't give you a very perfect life, but he will definitely dedicate all his love to you selflessly!
Women are weak, but mothers are strong!
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