#精品长文创作季#
Recently, a short video on the Internet has attracted widespread attention and heated discussions among netizens.
The man in the video sits on the sofa and sipps tea leisurely, enjoying a moment of tranquility.
However, his wife couldn't prevent him from giving him a large pot of freshly boiled hot water.
It was nearly 100 degrees Celsius hot water, and the man's scalp and arms were all burned, and he was currently in need of extensive skin grafting.
What is the reason for a wife to do this to her husband?
It's far from that simple, and today we're going to find out.
1. The wife pours hot water on her husband's face
The ancients said that a husband and wife for a day are a hundred days, that is to say, even if they have been a husband and wife for a day, the deep bonds and emotions between the two are constantly parted.
But the couple we're going to talk about next is an eye-opener for us.
The widely circulated version of the video reads a middle-aged man in a white T-shirt and jeans, sitting leisurely on a sofa at home with a relaxed expression that seems to be enjoying.
To the right of the man is a small coffee table with a kettle on it, and the steaming heat in the kettle indicates that the water has just been boiled and the temperature is about 100 degrees Celsius.
At this time, the man's wife came to the coffee table, picked up the kettle, and seemed to want to pour her husband a cup of hot water.
Seeing this, the audience didn't think there was anything wrong, and they felt that all kinds of scenes were so warm and his wife was so virtuous.
The next second everyone was stunned, and his wife poured the pot of boiling hot water from the man's head expressionlessly.
In the next moment, the man jumped up screaming in pain, but to no avail, his entire face, scalp and arms were burned.
It can be clearly seen from the video screen that when the hot water is sprinkled on the man, the white steam immediately rises, which makes people tremble to watch.
Just as viewers in front of the screen, we have all deeply felt the pain, and it is hard to imagine how uncomfortable the scalded man is.
His whole face was flushed by the hot water, as if it had been burned by fire.
The screams echoed through the room, very harsh. In the end, he curled up on the sofa in great pain, his whole body shaking without pain. It looked like the man was almost disfigured.
At the same time, his wife appeared very calm, natural and decisive throughout the process of splashing the water, without any hesitation or hesitation.
From picking up the kettle to pouring all the hot water on her husband's head, the whole process was as natural as a knee-jerk reaction.
After seeing her husband's tragic appearance, the wife did not have any relent, she decisively threw the hot water kettle in her hand far away, and then fled the scene as quickly as possible.
I didn't forget to look back at my husband, as if to tell him that I am a fast runner, what can you do to me?
This video made many people angry, what kind of hatred has made this couple get to where they are today?
The wife will treat her husband in such an extreme way, but some people say that it is a long-term family conflict that makes the wife lose her mind in anger.
There is also speculation that the husband's cheating has caused the wife to have a strong sense of revenge.
However, the above answers are incorrect, and the video we see is actually edited by the marketing account.
Half an hour before the boiling water incident, the husband and his wife had a fierce argument, and the husband slapped his wife three times angrily, and even tried to punch her.
So is the wife fighting back against her husband because she can't tolerate domestic violence? It's not that simple.
Second, my wife is a "Voldemort"?
In the comment area of the video, a netizen who claimed to be the buddy of the hot male protagonist appeared, and his answer solved the doubts of netizens.
He first revealed the current situation of the scalded person, which was very tragic and required a large area of skin grafting, and he himself was determined to divorce his wife, but he was opposed by his wife.
In order to be able to get a smooth divorce, the man released the video.
But seeing this, netizens are puzzled again, since you can pour hot water on your husband's face ruthlessly, it means that you don't love him, you don't love him, why don't you agree to divorce?
It turned out that this wife was known in the circle as the well-known "Voldemort".
She married her husband just because the other party had a successful career and was very financially strong.
It can also be seen from the video screen that the woman's home is very gorgeously decorated, and it is definitely not an ordinary family background.
And the woman's younger brother is very angry, not only asking for a lot of money from his sister, but also wanting his sister to help her buy a house.
Of course, my sister doesn't have any money, so all this money is out of my brother-in-law, and it's the scalded male protagonist in the video.
Over the years, he has spent at least more than 1 million on his brother-in-law.
And the reason why I quarreled with my wife that day was because my wife wanted her to use the money to buy a house for her brother-in-law.
The man was very angry and felt that he could not go on like this.
If you continue to help your brother-in-law, the family will be hollowed out sooner or later, so the two burst into a fierce quarrel.
When the wife was supposed to drink the medicine, but in order to quarrel with her husband, she couldn't even take the medicine, so she had to argue with her husband for a few words, and later I don't know which sentence ignited the man's anger.
After the woman saw that the man was enraged, she calmly walked to the sofa and sat down, and the man's anger had not subsided, so he went up and slapped the woman three times.
This woman is also a person who must be revenged, on the one hand, because her husband beat herself, and on the other hand, because her husband did not agree to buy a house for his brother.
So she felt a wave of anger and revenge in her heart, and when she sat defenselessly on the sofa, she poured hot water over his head.
During the whole process, the husband and wife's responses were very extreme, so it eventually led to the outbreak of this fierce conflict, which evolved into a boiling water incident for this kind of person.
What kind of punishment did the wife suffer in this process? Next, let's listen to the response of a professional lawyer.
3. Lawyer's response
The lawyer said that it is undeniable that the wife's actions have been suspected of intentional injury, and if the man insists on pursuing the woman's legal responsibility, he may be punished with a prison sentence.
At this point, their families will also fall apart as a result.
And the most serious thing is that if the wife is sentenced, their children are likely to lose their eligibility to take the public examination.
Therefore, many netizens speculated that the husband was burned like this, and he did not take his wife to court, and he still thought about getting rid of this painful marriage through divorce, which is undoubtedly a way to stay alive.
This practice not only leaves a way for his wife and himself, but also for his children, and does not affect them to take the public examination.
However, there are some netizens who hold the opposite opinion, they feel that the woman's behavior is indeed excessive, after all, it has caused irreparable damage to the man.
But the man's domestic violence is also wrong, and he slapped the woman so many times, which is a threat to the woman's personal safety.
Although it is said that the last punch did not fall, it cannot hide the fact that he has been subjected to domestic violence, and there is no difference between hitting a few times and hitting a few times.
It can only be said that there is no winner in this battle.
Fourth, stay rational, refuse domestic violence, and refuse Voldemort
This incident that shocked the Internet has conveyed a very profound truth to us.
That is, when choosing a partner and partner, you must consider the personality and emotional stability of the other party, and never go too far.
If we live with someone who is unable to remain calm and rational, we will definitely suffer a lot in the future.
Some netizens have shared their boyfriend before, in order not to break up with herself, she did not hesitate to come up with some kneeling and self-harm tricks to save herself, she could only get back together with each other because she was afraid. That's the terrible thing about emotional instability, we look for partners for each other to be able to help and support each other in difficult situations, not to exacerbate conflicts and conflicts.
Therefore, when girls encounter the above situations, or encounter domestic violence in their marriages, they must seek help from the outside world in time and seek legal help.
Don't think like your wife, respond and retaliate in the most radical way, only affecting yourself and your children.
In addition, domestic violence is absolutely intolerable and no form of violence is tolerated. The reason why the family exists is because people are tired of working outside and want to return to the warm harbor to rest.
Therefore, the home is not a place where fear and violence arise, and no matter how great the contradictions and conflicts between husband and wife are, they should not be resolved through violent means.
Instead, we should first explain the misunderstanding, and then resolve the contradiction.
In addition, it should also be eliminated that some women are still overly dependent on and take care of their younger brothers after marriage.
In particular, the behavior of daring to sacrifice one's own family interests to help the younger brother is obviously irresponsible to the family, and it will also lead to the deepening of contradictions and conflicts between husband and wife.
It is normal to help your younger brother after getting married, after all, there is always a good life between brothers and sisters, and there is always a bad life between one party, and it is natural to help each other.
But if it touches the main artery of your own family, it is unreasonable to take out most of your savings to help.
Therefore, many netizens said that although domestic violence is wrong, she should fight it, and she will remember it for a long time.
epilogue
Even so, the statement of the person who claimed to be the man's friend has not been confirmed, and the truth of the matter needs to be watched from time to time.
The ending is not yet clear, and netizens need to eat melons rationally.
However, this incident has also brought us a profound revelation that the loss of emotional control and the lack of communication will cause all kinds of contradictions in life.
In daily life, we must remain calm and rational, and face it with a calm mind to avoid escalating conflicts.
There are also various problems and challenges in the process of marriage, and if the couple can resolve the problems in the bud, it will enhance the relationship and trust between them.
What do you think about this?