The office expectant mother, Xiao Deng, is due to give birth, and in the past few days, Xiao Deng has been handing over work, and at lunchtime, Xiao Deng told us that she doesn't want to go home.
Working so hard with a big belly, most people want to rest early and go home early. Why doesn't this mother-to-be want to go home?
It turned out that the mother-in-law was in the countryside to find a 70-year-old "stepping on the baby" in Xiao Deng's belly.
The mother-in-law said that the "stepping person" she was looking for was more popular in their local area, and many people chose her as the "stepping person", and this "stepping on the living person" had children and daughters, and was full of children and grandchildren, and was a blessed person.
This "stomper" came to their house in the past two days. Xiao Deng was born in a scholarly family, and he has never believed in this concept that lacks scientific basis, and his home is already small, and a stranger suddenly appeared to come to live at home for a few days, not to mention how awkward it is.
This "stomping person" is over 70 years old, and he has no idea what his health is and what his personal hygiene is. Besides, the newborn baby's resistance has not yet been established, who is responsible for the problem?
Because of this incident, Xiao Deng and his mother-in-law had a conflict. So much so that Xiao Deng didn't want to go back to his home.
Although the matter of "stepping on life" is a bit mysterious, the first person to hold a baby is really important, which has nothing to do with superstition.
01, "stepping on life" is really not superstition, I don't believe in "stepping on life", children get sick frequently
When I found a boyfriend, my mother often said to me: "If you have a child in the future, you must find a good 'stepping person', so that the baby can grow up healthily and smoothly in the future." ”
I was just smiling and skeptical. At that time, I always felt that it was just a legend, and it wasn't until I saw the matter of the small family that I felt that my mother's words had some truth.
The two of them are highly educated and usually very rational. But at the critical moment, when the old people in the family mentioned "stepping on life", they couldn't help it.
When the child was born, the mother-in-law found a "stepping person" in advance, so that the "stepping person" was the first to hold the baby, hoping that the baby would be healthy and have a good omen after birth.
But who would have thought that on the day of Fa Xiao, the caesarean section would go well. But the "stepping on the living" who was looking for was unable to get to the hospital because of traffic jams.
On the one hand, the husband has to assist the doctor in taking care of the newborn baby and wife, and on the other hand, he does not want to miss this tradition.
So, at the moment when the nurse pushed the baby out, he decisively took the baby from the nurse and handed it to the father who was waiting next to him.
This can make the little mother-in-law angry. Her husband has been lazy all his life, both smoking and drinking, and has a bad temper, how can he become his grandson's "stepping on life"?
Coincidentally, since the child was born, he has been sick for three days, and he often takes the child to the hospital, which can be tossed.
Seeing this, you may have questions, this is too mysterious, in fact, the baby is indeed because it was "stepped on" by "inappropriate" people, so it will have poor physical fitness.
This has nothing to do with "superstition", but has a scientific reason.
02. After the baby is born, the first person to hold him is really particular
Because after the baby is born, the first person to hold him is really particular about it, and it has nothing to do with superstition. Newborns are weak, and as parents, we have to plan everything in advance to ensure the health and safety of our little ones.
When the newborn comes, who will hug it? You need to be cautious when holding the baby, these people are really not suitable!
The first category: people who like to smoke
People who smoke will have a smoke smell on their body, which is very bad for the baby's respiratory system. Moreover, smokers can also carry the harmful substances in secondhand smoke, which poses a potential threat to your baby's health.
The harmful substances in tobacco can not only cause damage to your baby's respiratory system, but may also affect their nervous system development. This is the reason why the little mother-in-law is very angry with her husband, who smokes and drinks and has a bad temper, is the first to hold the baby.
Category 2: People who have never held a newborn baby
Some people may say, "What's so hard about holding a baby?" But in fact, people who have never held a newborn are really not suitable for getting started right away.
Imagine what might happen to someone who has never held a newborn on their first attempt? they may be too nervous, their arms stiff, or they may be pushing too hard, or they may even accidentally touch the baby's sensitive parts. Such a "caresse" not only does not bring comfort to the baby, but may make them feel uncomfortable.
People who have never held a newborn baby, when holding a baby for the first time, cannot grasp the proportion and strength, and are likely to accidentally injure the baby.
Category 3: People who have recently become unwell
The body resistance of newborns is like a newborn young leaf, which is very fragile. Imagine if your baby is hugged tightly by a cold or cough, those invisible germs may be like cunning foxes, taking the opportunity to sneak into the baby's little body and cause an unnecessary illness.
For adults, the resistance is very strong, and even if you get sick for a while, you may recover on your own. However, for newborn babies, their own resistance is still very poor, and if they are held by a sick person for a long time, it is very likely that bacteria or viruses will be transmitted to the baby.
Thank you for reading, I'm a nursery-qi xiang mother, a mother of two children.