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Halfway through the show, it can be seen that the adaptation of the play has made many things in the original novel concrete, and the analysis is more straightforward. So let's talk about it according to the plot.
Mai Chenghuan probably broke up, but he didn't quite understand why he liked Xin Jialiang.
Their encounter is the kind of fate, Xin Jialiang's mobile phone is out of battery and he is very anxious, Mai Chenghuan handed the power bank to solve the difficulty. is such a heart-warming action, so that the two of them sparked a spark of love, and this love is three years.
In the past three years, there has been no discomfort in the way they get along, and even the two of them have enjoyed it very much. But are they really okay with each other?
Mak Chenghuan's problem-solving ability is undoubted, a jack of all trades in the workplace, and a treasure chest in life.
The first intersection between Yao Zhiming and Mai Chenghuan was in the elevator, and the coffee that Mai Chenghuan took spilled on Yao Zhiming's sleeve, although it was only a little, but the cuffs of the white shirt had stain marks.
This encounter is indeed very earthy, but there are bright spots in the follow-up. Although Yao Zhiming disliked it, he also left, Mai Chenghuan didn't want to go, caught up with Yao Zhiming, and took out a stain remover pen from his bag, and soon the stains on the cuffs were gone.
Later, we found out that the small bag on Mai Chenghuan's back is like Doraemon's pocket, which can always come up with a tool to solve the problem at a critical moment.
But I later learned that the reason why Mai Chenghuan's bag contained a lot of emergency things was because of her boyfriend Xin Jialiang's loss.
Xin Jialiang and his friends were playing games at home, and they forgot to eat. The doorbell rang, it was the takeaway who brought food, and none of them called for takeout, including Xin Jialiang.
But the takeaway was indeed given to Xin Jialiang, and it was also Xin Jialiang's favorite food, don't think about it, this was ordered by Mai Chenghuan. Mai Chenghuan not only remembered Xin Jialiang's taste preferences, but also pinched his work and rest time, knowing that he hadn't eaten at this point.
This is a happy moment for Xin Jialiang and Mak Chenghuan.
Yes, for Xin Jialiang, a big reason why he likes Mai Chenghuan is to enjoy Mai Chenghuan's care. But for Mai Chenghuan, it's the same, a big reason why she likes Xin Jialiang is that she enjoys the process of taking care of Xin Jialiang.
Their love interactions are complementary.
In the eyes of others, Mai Chenghuan is so busy and too hard, but for Mai Chenghuan, she can only feel her value in this kind of busyness, because she has grown up like this since she was a child.
Of course, this is Mai Chenghuan's advantage, but everything has its two sides, whether it is in the workplace or in love, this advantage will eventually hurt himself because of unreserved giving.
Perhaps, when Mai Chenghuan handed Xin Jialiang a power bank for the first time, thus starting a love journey, it was determined that the interaction between them was destined to be a mode of taking care of and being taken care of.
Mai Chenghuan and Xin Jialiang broke up in the heavy rain, Xin Jialiang did not hold an umbrella at that time, he rushed into the rain to chase Mai Chenghuan, Mai Chenghuan came to Xin Jialiang with an umbrella, the two talked a lot, and in this process, it was always Mai Chenghuan with an umbrella.
Even after breaking up in the end, Mai Chenghuan still left the umbrella to Xin Jialiang, walked into the heavy rain by himself, and did not look back. When she got in the car, she found that the umbrella was lost in the rain, Xin Jialiang threw the umbrella, he didn't appreciate it, and it can be said that Xin Jialiang no longer wanted Mai Chenghuan to take care of him.
If their love is not cared for and cared for, it will collapse and disappear.
It's their own growth. For Mai Chenghuan, she has watched her mother take care of the whole family since she was a child, and she has also learned a lot of things in it, especially helping people solve problems, which makes her feel happy.
For Mai Chenghuan, taking care of her lover and relatives is an expression of love, she does not feel hard and burdened, on the contrary, if no one needs her help, she will be at a loss.
If Xin Jialiang is not a rich second generation, but a Shanghai drifter, Mai Chenghuan has also made up his mind to work hard with Xin Jialiang to create a small family that belongs to them.
It's hard to imagine what their married life will be like? If they grow up after they get married and realize the problem of how they get along, it will be a mess.
As Mai Chenghuan said, fortunately, he found out the problem without getting married, but just broke up.
In this fruitless love, Xin Jialiang certainly has his own problems, and he will write a separate article about this issue later. However, Mai Chenghuan has grown, that is, he is aware of his own problems.
Many things in the character, even if there are positive and negative, are two-sided. For example, Mai Chenghuan's carefulness and kindness made her gain a lot of warmth, but she also suffered a lot of injuries. For another example, Xin Jialiang's unreliability does make people speechless, but many times he also listens to Mai Chenghuan's words very much.
You can't want to be a person, and your personality is the same, and you can change your personality according to the occasion, there is a high probability that there is no one in reality.
It can only be said that growth is a process of self-awareness. Just like Mai Chenghuan after breaking up with Xin Jialiang, after being backstabbed by his boss Yao Zhiming in the workplace, he will realize that the boundaries and proportions of his efforts are problematic.
When you enjoy a need very much, you should also remind yourself in time to be aware of whether this need will make you feel wronged.
Taking care of others to get pleasure is the need of a girl like Mai Chenghuan, and it will also become the biggest need in love, this need will make Mai Chenghuan-style girls meet Xin Jialiang-style boys, this is their respective love code.
It's not that this kind of intimate interaction is undesirable, but that it should be done in moderation, because if the other person wants you to take care of too many needs, it will give birth to desire, and in the same way, if you want to take care of others, you will also have desire.
Once desire forms a potential energy, it can become a disaster in a love marriage.
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