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Twenty years later, my daughter-in-law said why she didn't like me, but I still don't think I did anything wrong

author:薏苡

Hey, dear readers, today I'm going to share with you a story that makes people feel emotional. Just like in the movie, twenty years later, my daughter-in-law finally says why she doesn't like me, and I never realize what I've done wrong. What the hell is going on? Let's unravel the mystery!

The story began twenty years ago, when I was young and beautiful, and I entered a new stage of my life - marriage. At that time, there wasn't much intersection between me and my daughter-in-law, we respected each other, but we didn't have much intimacy either. However, no one could have imagined that twenty years later, she would suddenly tell me that she didn't like me.

Twenty years later, my daughter-in-law said why she didn't like me, but I still don't think I did anything wrong

I was a little shocked and didn't understand where she was coming from. I asked her why, and she was silent for a moment, then finally spoke. She said she felt like I had never really cared for her and never treated her like family. I always excluded her from the family, making her feel lonely and neglected," she said. When I heard this, I felt a pang of regret in my heart because I never realized what I had done wrong.

So, I began to reminisce about the bits and pieces between us. I've found that I've never really cared about her feelings, never had a real intimacy with her. I always put my own things first and ignored her presence. I began to realize that there was something wrong with my attitude towards her, and that I had made her feel lonely and neglected.

Twenty years later, my daughter-in-law said why she didn't like me, but I still don't think I did anything wrong

But even if I realized what the problem was, I couldn't change my behavior for two decades. I started trying to change myself and try to have a more intimate relationship with her, but she seemed to have lost trust in me and couldn't really connect with me anymore. I felt very lost, I knew that I had missed the opportunity to change, and now I had to silently accept that fact.

This story teaches us that sometimes we ignore the presence of those around us, making them feel lonely and neglected. We should learn to care for the people around us, build real intimacy, and let them feel our love and warmth. Otherwise, we will only realize our fault when they leave us, but it will be too late.

Twenty years later, my daughter-in-law said why she didn't like me, but I still don't think I did anything wrong

So, have you had a similar experience?Have you made the people around you feel lonely and neglected?Welcome to share your stories and opinions with me in the comment area, let's explore this topic together, communicate together, and grow together!