After giving birth, there must be a person at home to watch the child, and many mothers hope that their mother-in-law can help them take care of the baby, have enough time for their private life, and they don't have to face the child all day.
However, due to the influence of various factors, countless mothers have fallen into the difficulty of choosing, full-time mothers naturally have a lot of benefits for the baby, but the mother herself will be limited, but it is difficult to communicate with the mother-in-law to go to work with the baby, and the elderly with the baby is not worry-free, after all, there are still differences in the educational views of the next generation.
Yesterday, I also communicated a lot with my mother in the group, and according to the survey, there are still many mothers who like to go to work and don't want to stay at home all day with their children.
A mother also communicated with her mother-in-law in this way, and her mother-in-law gave her two choices:
First: The mother-in-law takes the baby, and the daughter-in-law gives 1,000 yuan per month
Second: The mother takes the baby, and the mother-in-law gives 1,000 yuan every month
In fact, this is not a financial burden, and 1,000 yuan for the cost of bringing a baby, the elderly will definitely use it for household purposes, so in the end, the mother still has to spend this expense.
After in-depth interpretation of the meaning of the mother-in-law, these two conclusions were drawn, and netizens looked at it and shouted: Good mothers-in-law are from other people's families, why can't I meet them?
Asking for funds to bring a baby, and it is a clear hint of the amount, maybe in the eyes of many mothers, the elderly are a little snobbish and a little reluctant to spend money, but in fact, this money is not enough for the daily expenses of the family.
If the mother-in-law has no economic income after taking the baby, she needs her son and daughter-in-law to pay for living expenses, which is also human nature, so this amount is not much, and it will not cause too much burden on young people.
Of course, at the age of my mother-in-law, she had savings to live well in her old age, and this amount of money was often spent on the daily expenses of the family, such as buying groceries and buying some supplies for the children.
Therefore, mothers should also know that if their own family can bring a baby, the mother-in-law is still willing to give herself money every month, which is actually enough to prove that the mother-in-law is a good mother-in-law.
There are also many mothers who said: If there is such a mother-in-law, I will not go to work, I would rather take the baby at home, not for the mother-in-law's 1000 yuan, but such a mother-in-law can consider the problem from the perspective of her daughter-in-law, which is really moving.
If you have the ability to be a full-time mother, it is recommended to be a full-time mother, because who the child grows with still has a great influence.
If you grow up with your grandmother, mothers will naturally have to accept that the baby is closer to your grandmother, and the child will also receive an intergenerational education, which will also alienate modern education, which will affect the child's social and language expression.
If you grow up with your mother, your child will have more self-confidence, be better able to socialize, and accept modern parenting concepts, and your child will be better able to adapt to the current growth environment. Especially after entering the school, the contrast will be great.
If you meet such a mother-in-law, will you choose to go to work or take the baby?