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My name is Li Mei, I am 32 years old, and I am a middle executive of a large advertising agency. I have been doing this job for 8 years, and the work is very intense, often working overtime. My husband, Zhang Wei, is an ordinary employee of a manufacturing company with an average salary and has little interest and support for my career. We have been married for 6 years and our married life is at an impasse.
My boss's name is Zhao Gang, who is in his 40s and is the actual person in charge of the company. He is handsome and dashing, generous in conversation, and very charismatic. He appreciates my work, praises me a lot, and is very close to me in private. I sometimes think about it, but I never dare to step on that line.
My husband and I have been arguing a lot lately over the trivial things in life. He thinks I work too hard and rarely spend time with him at home; I think he is too rigid and conservative and does not understand and support my career enough. The gap between us is getting wider and wider, and the relationship is almost broken.
"Meimei, next week we are going to Shandong on a business trip for a week to prepare the materials. Zhao Gang said to me in the conference room.
"Okay, boss. I answered, and my heart was a little excited.
When I got home, I started packing. Zhang Wei saw that I was busy and asked me where I was going on a business trip.
"Shandong, about a week or so. "
"You're going on a business trip again, can't you just stay at home?" He said with some displeasure.
"This time it was the boss who led the team himself, so it was a good training opportunity for us. I explained, secretly glad that I was able to escape from this suffocating home for a while.
A week later, we came to a small city in Shandong. The hotel is very good, Zhao Gang arranged a senior suite for us. When I got to the room, I opened my suitcase and had mixed feelings.
"Meimei, you can rest first, and we'll have a small meeting later. Zhao Gang walked into my room and smiled slightly.
Looking at his heroic face, my heart suddenly beat hard. This business trip was a dangerous start, should I stop right away, but on the other hand, I was so desperate for a little fresh excitement and attention.
At 10 o'clock in the evening, we finished the meeting, and everyone went back to the room to rest. I took a shower and sat at my desk in my pajamas working on paperwork. Suddenly, there was a knock on the door.
"It's me, open the door. It was Zhao Gang's voice.
I hesitated, but got up and opened the door. I saw Zhao Gang standing at the door, with a slight smell of alcohol on his body.
"What's wrong, boss?" I chuckled inwardly.
"Nothing, just wanted to come and see you. As he spoke, he went inside.
In the next few days, Zhao Gang was kind to me, and his words and deeds were intimate. He always finds opportunities to be alone with me after work and say some ambiguous things that are not there. I wanted to draw the line, but he was my boss and I had to gruesome to cope. On several occasions, he put his hand directly on my lap or waist, and I did not resist, and there was a secret excitement in my heart.
One night, I was smoking on the balcony when Zhao Gang came over.
"Haven't you been under too much pressure lately?" He hugged me from behind, his chin resting on my shoulder.
"Well, a little. "My heart was beating hard.
"Why don't you relax? Let's do it again?" His hand roamed over my waist, his breath spraying on my neck.
I didn't answer, just closed my eyes tightly.
When I returned home from a business trip, I deliberately avoided intimate contact with Zhang Wei. But a few days later, he was keenly aware of the anomaly.
"Meimei, do you have anything to do with other men?" He asked me solemnly.
"What do you say? How could I do such a thing?" I asked weakly.
"Then why have you been so cold to me lately? Is there something wrong with your body?"
"No, maybe I've been too tired lately. I was perfunctory, secretly glad that he hadn't found out that I was pregnant.
A month later, I started experiencing recurrent morning sickness and fatigue. After going to the hospital for an examination, the doctor said that I was already two months pregnant! I was frightened and hurriedly called Zhao Gang.
"Boss, I'm pregnant, what do you say we should do?"
"You calm down first, I'll figure out how to deal with this. Don't tell anyone, including your husband, just yet. "
However, plans have not kept up with the changes. One night half a month later, I was retching in the toilet again. Zhang Wei found out and immediately guessed my situation.
"Are you pregnant? He asked me angrily.
I was stunned by the question, and I didn't know how to answer.
"You tell me the truth! Did you have a child with someone else?" He grabbed my arm and shook me hard.
"I'm sorry, I ......" I lowered my head, tears welling up in my eyes.
Seeing me like this, Zhang Wei was completely enraged, and he began to roar wildly: "You slut! I worked so hard for this family, and you actually messed around with others behind my back! What kind of bastard did you do such a lack of morality? You tell me!"
"It's with my boss Zhao Gang, only that one thing......" I cried and confessed everything.
"You're so fucking slutty! Let's get a divorce, I don't want you anymore!" Zhang Wei was so angry that he trembled all over, and he raised his hand to hit me.
I hurriedly protected my stomach and screamed, "Don't do it!
And just like that, a violent quarrel broke out, and the two of us went back and forth, smashing things everywhere in the house. In the end, Zhang Wei left home angrily and said that he would file for divorce immediately. I slumped on the floor, crying bitterly.
Seeing that the marriage was about to fall apart like this, I could only make a desperate bet and dialed Zhao Gang's phone.
"Boss, Zhang Wei found out that I was pregnant, and now he wants to divorce me. What do you think we're going to do?"
"What? Why are you so stupid? Didn't I tell you to keep it a secret first?" Zhao Gang said angrily on the phone, "I already have a plan for the child's affairs. Don't do anything now, just wait and see. "
I was choked by him like this, and I completely understood. It turned out that he didn't take me seriously from the beginning, but just treated me as the object of an affair. There was no commitment between us at all, and I had illusions. My heart was half cold, and tears welled up in my eyes again.
I began to reflect on my life, realized the value of marriage, and realized that my career did not make me truly happy. I am determined to take responsibility for my wrongdoings, raise this child well, and regain happiness from a new beginning.
Sure enough, Zhang Wei soon officially submitted the divorce application. We had to go through legal proceedings for the custody of our children. Although the law tends to put the child in the custody of the mother, Zhang Wei still wants to get full custody of the child 100 percent.
"You complete liar! How can I let a child be raised by someone like you?" Zhang Wei angrily accused me in court.
I bowed my head and wept silently because I had nothing to say. It was I who destroyed this home with my own hands, and I was the first to lose.
Finally, after several negotiations, the court ruled that custody of the child should be exercised by me temporarily, but Zhang Wei had visitation rights and needed to bear a part of the child support. I know it's already the best outcome.
From then on, I began a long life of pregnancy. Without my husband's company, I was left alone to face all the discomfort and difficulties. Sometimes morning sickness in the middle of the night is unbearable, and no one can take care of it, so I can only vomit in the bathroom by myself; Sometimes my stomach can't bear the weight, my back hurts, and no one massages me.
Just when I was about to have a nervous breakdown, a friend said to me, "You've missed it, so don't dwell on it anymore." The most important thing now is to raise the child well so that he can grow up healthy and happy. You also have to start a new life for him. "
My friend's words gave me great encouragement. Yes, instead of blaming yourself bitterly, it is better to spend your energy on something more meaningful. I began to actively adjust my mindset and strive for the future of my children.
I quit my old job and got a better salary; I began to learn all kinds of parenting knowledge to prepare for being a good mother; I've also regained my shape and kept myself in good shape. I am determined to create a new and beautiful life for my children!
"Mommy's good boy, you've finally come into the world. "I weakly picked up the baby, tears welling up in my eyes.
This is a healthy, ruddy-skinned boy with big, vermire eyes. Looking at him, my heart was completely filled, and I gave birth to unprecedented maternal love. From now on, we'll only have each other.
Raising a child is not easy, and you have to deal with various situations every day. But every time I see the innocent smiling face of the child, I feel that all the hard work is worth it.
In order to provide a good environment for my children to grow up, I quickly returned to employment. As a result of my efforts, I am now a senior executive at a well-known PR firm, with a high salary. I gradually regained my self-confidence and the ability to take charge of my own work and life.
Gradually, I also began to pursue my own private life and met some new friends. Although I don't have the idea of falling in love again for the time being, I have stopped clinging to my old marriage and learned to face life with an open and inclusive mind.
I often take my child for a walk in the park and watch him chase and jump on the lawn, and I feel so happy and innocent at such a young age, and I feel sincerely happy. Yes, I am destined to live for this child, in order for him to grow up healthy and happy.
That was my mother's biggest mistake when she was young, I did something unreasonable and contrary to human ethics. Although I also suffered the due price afterwards, it did not offset my fault.
I hope you will be able to understand and forgive Mom. At the same time, I hope that you can learn from this experience and live a meaningful and proud life as a decent person. Don't repeat your mother's mistakes, be cautious, and respect yourself and others.
No matter what, mom loves you and will always support you and be your strong backing. I wish you a bright future and a happy and healthy life!