Preamble:
Recently, a video of his wife splashing boiling water has aroused widespread attention and heated discussions on the Internet. In the video, a wife suddenly splashes boiling water on her husband, causing him to burn his head and arms, while the family members next to her scream that the condition is very critical. Such a scene makes people feel very heartbroken to watch, and it also makes people feel very angry and incomprehensible about what his wife is doing.
First, the incident of splashing boiling water has sparked heated discussions
The video of the boiling water incident quickly became popular on the Internet, making many netizens very angry and shocked after watching it. Everyone accused the wife of being too extreme, no matter what the reason, she could not use violence to hurt others, let alone her husband.
Subsequently, after an investigation by the relevant departments, it was learned why his wife would make such an extreme move. It turned out that the wife splashed the boiling water because she was dissatisfied with her husband's lack of help when she was in trouble at home, which made her very aggrieved and angry.
Because the brother-in-law was injured outside, he needed a lot of medical expenses, and the husband did not give money to help the brother-in-law, which made the wife feel very sad and disappointed, and also caused a big rift in the relationship between the husband and wife.
Second, the distribution of money leads to family conflicts
It can be seen from this incident that it turned out to be the distribution of money that made his wife make such an extreme move. In fact, in many families, the conflicts between husband and wife are inseparable from money problems, especially in small families, if money problems are not dealt with, it is easy to have conflicts and frictions because of some things about money.
For example, in this incident, if the husband could communicate with his wife and tell her about his difficulties, it was not that he didn't want to help her, but that he was also nervous now, maybe the wife would not have such a big resentment towards her husband because of this incident, and she would not have made such a hurtful act.
Therefore, in married life, the distribution of money must be communicated and negotiated by both husband and wife, whether it is expenses or savings, there needs to be a clear plan and arrangement, so as to avoid conflicts and short-term problems caused by money problems.
3. The relationship between husband and wife needs to be understood and respected
Of course, when dealing with money issues, couples also need to understand and respect each other, and cannot only take into account their own feelings and positions, but ignore each other's emotions and situations.
Both husbands and wives should think from each other's point of view, understand each other's difficulties, and give sufficient support and understanding. Instead of blindly blaming and complaining, let alone hurting each other in some extreme ways, this will only make the relationship between husband and wife more tense and worse.
In addition, in the family, it is also necessary to establish a good communication mechanism and a way to solve problems, no matter what kind of difficulties and contradictions are encountered, you can find the root cause of the problem through rational communication and discussion, and find a solution together, rather than through violence and cold violence to solve the conflict.
Epilogue:
I hope that such a spilled water incident can sound the alarm for more people, and sometimes the contradictions and problems in the family can not be solved by blindly complaining and blaming, but need to be faced and solved by both husband and wife together, and more understanding and tolerance are needed to resolve the contradictions and mend the feelings.
It is also hoped that couples who have disagreements on money issues can learn from this incident, communicate and understand more, and be less resentful and impulsive, so that they can have a happy and happy marriage.