Recently, I swiped a news that a woman in Heilongjiang was so angry with her husband that she divorced on the third day of caesarean section.
After listening to the woman's story, netizens expressed their distress that they were really guilty of living with such a man.
The woman said that in the eyes of outsiders, her husband is an extremely honest person, but after giving birth to a child in the past few days, she really saw her husband's selfish and indifferent face.
We all know that a woman who has a caesarean section will be much weaker than a person who has a natural birth and needs to be taken care of by her family. But this husband didn't feel sorry for his wife at all, and actually gave his wife cold water.
He didn't want to serve his wife, and his wife didn't drink more water if she wanted to, and she didn't buy food when she got to it, and she secretly ran to drink, drinking 350 days out of 365 days a year.
On the third day, the woman finally couldn't stand it anymore and had a big fight with her husband. My husband's performance is extremely impatient, he thinks it's good for me to serve you, what kind of trouble.
The woman couldn't help but file for divorce, but her husband didn't keep it, but said: "Hurry up and get out of the calf, love to go wherever you go, Lao Tzu won't serve anymore!" He even threatened the woman that the child would not be given to her after the divorce.
Looking at the arrogant face of the man in the video, netizens expressed their anger: This kind of man also has a wife?
Many female friends say: A woman only knows if you are married to a human or a ghost after giving birth to children. Before giving birth to a child, a man has to disguise, afraid that you will run, after giving birth, there are many trivial things, and he also feels that you are stable and feels that you have done it.
There are also many netizens who say that this kind of honest man must not marry. We often have a kind of habitual thinking, that is, a person with an honest appearance, although he will not say anything sweet, but he is honest, down-to-earth, reliable, and suitable for life.
But is this really the case in the hearts of these men?
A reminder for married women: A man who looks honest on the outside is not necessarily honest
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Don't marry a man who looks very honest, he has no opinions, he doesn't communicate when there are contradictions, and he never apologizes, let alone say anything that warms your heart." Pretend to be deaf and dumb in case of trouble, and choke you to death when you open your mouth. is also very selfish, always feels that he is right, ignores your efforts and grievances, and only stares at your mistakes in his eyes".
Some honest people are really honest, but they have a stuffy gourd, they can't kick a fart with three legs, they have no temper and no opinions, and they have no interest.
There are also men who are just honest on the surface, treating outsiders kindly, but treating their family members with a short temper.
He left all his good temper to outsiders, and all his negative emotions were brought to his family. If you are slightly dissatisfied, you will hang your face, you want to communicate with him, but he will sleep with his eyes closed and ignore you, and he will not take you seriously at all.
This kind of person is very selfish and indifferent in his bones, he will not feel sorry for your efforts, ignore your grievances and pain, you are angry and shed tears in front of him, just like a punch on cotton, he will not look at you.
In the eyes of outsiders, he is a good person who is hard-working and hard-working, but only you know that he has no responsibility or responsibility, he has no ability and machismo, and he would rather discuss things with others than listen to you in family affairs. Once you quarrel with him and divorce, everyone thinks it's your fault, you are too strong, and they don't understand how suffocating you are living with this kind of person.
A good old man in the eyes of others, but at home he fights his wife, even if you say it, no one will believe it, others will only think that you are not satisfied, you are a resentful woman, this kind of pain can only be understood by experiencing it yourself.
Many of us get the definition of honesty wrong
Weak and incompetent, dull, refusing to communicate, that is not called honesty, it is called a nest. Many men think they are honest, they have no ability and no emotional intelligence, and then they give themselves a quality that traditional parents like.
Honestly, it's more about following your duty. As this netizen said:
In marriage, a man who is truly honest will not see his wife being wronged and then ignore it. They know how to feel sorry and appreciate their wives' contributions, and they may not say any rhetoric, but they will definitely show their care with actions.
When a woman marries, she just wants to find a man who knows the cold and the hot, and everyone communicates together when there are problems, and everyone carries them together when there are difficulties. Instead of silently bearing the pain of marriage alone, he ignores you. If you marry someone like this, you will be driven crazy sooner or later.