The high-profile actor Li Youbin, nicknamed the "hero image", has recently become a tipping point for public opinion. In his early years, he was once famous all over the world for his successful performance of the role of the famous Li Yunlong in the TV series "Bright Sword", but in real life, he completely tore the camouflage of the former hero image!
When his career was in full swing, he ruthlessly abandoned his wife Zhang Ruiqi, who had been with him silently for 24 years, and turned around to marry his third wife Shi Lanya, who was thirteen years younger than him.
This move is like a thunderbolt in the clear sky, stirring up thousands of waves in the entertainment industry, and the majority of netizens have criticized his behavior, denouncing his bad behavior As a public figure, Li Youbin's private life has fallen to this, which is really embarrassing.
What's even more puzzling is that in order to win Shi Lanya's favor, Li Youbin cared for her and her children, and even openly snubbed his own son Li Xiaoke.
This move undoubtedly aroused strong indignation among widely concerned people, accusing him of sacrificing his parents and children for a new love, and turning a blind eye to family affection.
Despite the suspicions and criticism, Li Youbin still went his own way and firmly maintained his close relationship with Shi Lanya and his children. Such a favoritism is infuriating, and one can't help but wonder if he has completely lost his way and fallen into the abyss.
What is the reason for this once-beloved heroic character actor to fall into such a predicament? To get to the bottom of the truth, we need to unravel the mystery of Li Youbin's family and explore the grandeur of his inner world.
Looking back on Li Youbin's growth process, he was originally a hot-blooded young man with beautiful ideals. Twenty-four years ago, in order to chase the acting dream in his heart, he did not hesitate to take his wife Zhang Ruiqi and son Li Xiaoke on the journey to Beijing.
At that time, he was full of enthusiasm, full of longing and expectation for the future, eager to show his skills in this bustling city and realize his self-worth.
However, when Li Youbin first set foot in the capital, Beijing, the family suffered from severe financial hardship, making it difficult to maintain even the most basic living expenses.
Just when they were almost facing despair, his wife, Zhang Ruiqi, bravely stepped forward and became a strong backing for their survival in Beijing.
With the selfless support of his wife, Li Youbin was finally able to gain a firm foothold in Beijing, where the heroes gathered, and ushered in a series of precious performance opportunities one after another.
There is no doubt that it is precisely because of Zhang Ruiqi's dedication and dedication that Li Youbin was able to forge ahead in those difficult years, and finally emerged in the entertainment industry and became famous.
Although the relationship between the couple has cracked due to a long period of separation, Li Youbin has always been deeply grateful to Zhang Ruiqi.
Just when Li Youbin's career was in full swing, a woman named Shi Lanya quietly walked into his life. Compared with Zhang Ruiqi, Shi Lanya is undoubtedly more elegant and charming, and her family background is more prominent.
She was born in a prestigious family, and her parents are leaders in the entertainment industry, which undoubtedly accumulates rich resources for her in the entertainment industry. Shi Lanya, who came from a privileged background, has married the famous director Liu Bin twice, but both marriages ended in failure.
At this time, she and Li Youbin met and got to know each other, and a deep relationship gradually developed between the two.
Looking back on Li Youbin's life process, it is not difficult for us to find that he was once a hot-blooded young man with beautiful ideals. 24 years ago, in order to chase his dream of being an actor, he did not hesitate to take his wife Zhang Ruiqi and son Li Xiaoke on the journey to Beijing.
At that time, he was full of longing and expectations for the future, looking forward to shining in this bustling city and showing his talents. However, Li Youbin's family, who first arrived in Beijing, fell into financial difficulties and could not even afford the family's basic living expenses.
Just when they were on the verge of despair, Zhang Ruiqi reached out and became the pillar of their life in Beijing.
Although the relationship between the husband and wife has inevitably cracked because of the long-term separation between the two places, Li Youbin's deep gratitude to his wife Zhang Ruiqi has not changed.
Just when Li Youbin's career was in full swing, a woman named Shi Lanya quietly walked into his world. Compared with Zhang Ruiqi, Shi Lanya undoubtedly shows a softer and charming temperament, coupled with her prominent family background, she has accumulated rich resources in the entertainment industry.
Shi Lanya, who comes from a famous family, has twice entered the marriage hall with the famous director Liu Bin, but unfortunately, both marriages ended in failure.
Despite this, she did not give up her determination to find happiness.
At this time, she and Li Youbin met and got to know each other, and the relationship between the two gradually warmed up.
It is worth mentioning that Slanya not only has a stunning appearance, but also has excellent social skills. She always makes people laugh with just the right words, and people can't resist her charm.
In the process of getting along with Li Youbin, she successfully created a virtuous and gentle mother image, which deeply touched the former hero.
Faced with Shi Lanya's gentle side, Li Youbin quickly fell into the whirlpool of love, and even ignored the world's eyes and the pressure of public opinion, and firmly chose to move forward with her.
Although this decision has caused widespread controversy in all walks of life, Li Youbin seems to be unconcerned. For him, the arrival of Slanya has undoubtedly injected fresh life into his life, which may be the comfort and solace he has been looking forward to for a long time.
However, when Li Youbin immersed himself in Shi Lanya's gentle and virtuous side, he was unable to find understanding and support from his family. In order to satisfy his personal desires, he chose to stay away from home for a long time and keep his distance from his wife and children.
Li Youbin's ex-wife, Zhang Ruiqi, really couldn't understand why her husband would make such a decision. After 24 years of companionship, she suddenly found herself ruthlessly abandoned.
As a well-respected wife, she could not accept her husband's sudden decision, so she had to take measures to preserve the dignity of both parties.
In order to cover up his infidelity, Li Youbin did not hesitate to deceive and despise his wife and young son, treating them as insignificant.
After completing the divorce procedures with Zhang Ruiqi, he impatiently turned to Shi Lanya's arms and proposed to her affectionately.
At that time, Shi Lanya's heart was full of doubts. Although she has developed a deep emotional dependence on Li Youbin, she still needs to think carefully about her future and how to properly accommodate her son.
As a woman who has experienced two failed marriages, she does not want to fall into the same tragedy again, so she carefully weighs the pros and cons of this marriage proposal before finally deciding to accept Li Youbin's sincere confession.
In order to win Shi Lanya's absolute trust, Li Youbin began to show her his deep love for his children in various ways. He personally picked up his stepson to and from school, always accompanied the child, and did his best to show his fatherly love.
This nuanced action deeply touched Shi Lanya and strengthened her belief in spending the rest of her life with Li Youbin.
However, while devoting himself to Shi Lanya and his son, Li Youbin completely ignored his own son Li Xiaoke.
What's more serious is that he even said a hurtful sentence in front of his son, "You are far inferior to my stepson", which completely shattered his son's trust and expectations for his father.
Since then, Li Xiaoke has developed a strong disgust and anger towards his father's behavior. As time passed, he gradually learned the real reason behind his parents' divorce, which made his dislike for Li Youbin even worse.
Sadly, this breakdown of the father-son relationship has brought irreparable trauma to Li Xiaoke's life journey. Until the age of 38, he still did not dare to enter the palace of marriage easily, for fear that he would also fall into a predicament like his father.
It is no exaggeration to say that Li Youbin's behavior has left an indelible shadow on his son's life.
Li Youbin's bad behavior has undoubtedly aroused widespread concern and heated discussions from all walks of life. In the online world, the majority of netizens have strongly condemned his behavior, believing that his behavior has seriously violated the bottom line of human ethics.
Some netizens actually treated his ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi with sympathy, lamenting that her lifelong emotions were invested in a bad scumbag, which not only caused a devastating blow to her life, but also deprived her of the possibility of pursuing a happy life as an only child.
Other commentators lamented that women need to be cautious in choosing a mate, such an excellent woman should have a hopeful life path, but she changed her fate due to a wrong marriage choice, which is really sighing!
There is no doubt that Li Youbin's behavior has had a profound impact on himself, his family and even the audience. As a public figure, the chaos of his private life has become the focus of public opinion, which has aroused widespread attention and heated discussions from all walks of life.
Even now, the new family formed by Li Youbin and Shi Lanya seems to be happy, but many netizens firmly believe that the trauma caused by the breakdown of the marriage destroyed by Li Youbin himself may be with his son Li Xiaoke for life.
The heroic image that was once loved by the audience is now reduced to an irresponsible man who indulges in the lust for power. In order to win Shi Lanya's favor, he did not hesitate to snub his own flesh and blood, and even openly showed his partiality for his stepson, which undoubtedly seriously stabbed Li Xiaoke's heart.
Since then, Li Xiaoke's image of his father has completely collapsed, and he can no longer regard Li Youbin as a respectable father. On the contrary, due to the occurrence of this family tragedy, he developed a deep fear and vigilance about married life, and it was not until he was nearly 38 years old that he barely got rid of the haze and began to pursue his own happiness.
It can be said that Li Youbin's actions not only damaged his good reputation accumulated over the years, but also brought irreparable damage to his biological son Li Xiaoke's life path.
His extreme and irresponsible behavior is undoubtedly incomprehensible and unforgiving. It was Li Youbin's series of negative behaviors that brought a heavy blow to the life of his biological son Li Xiaoke.
From the moment he first learned that his father abandoned his mother and married his third wife, who was 13 years younger than him, Li Xiaoke was full of strong dissatisfaction and indignation at his father's behavior.
It is incomprehensible and extremely sad that he can't understand why his father treats his mother Zhang Ruiqi, who has been taking good care of them and giving them full support for many years!
What's even more heartbreaking is that instead of paying attention to his own needs, his father Li Youbin poured all his love into Shi Lanya and his son.
Li Youbin even unabashedly expressed in front of his son that his stepson is far more important to him than his own son.
This remark was undoubtedly a heavy blow to Li Xiaoke's trust and expectations for his father, causing it to completely collapse.
Under such blatant partiality from his father, Li Xiaoke's heart was full of anger and despair. He couldn't stand his father's indifference to him, even belittling him, which undoubtedly made him feel like a knife.
From then on, he developed a deep dislike for his father.
As he grew older, Li Xiaoke gradually gained insight into the truth behind his parents' divorce. He knew very well that his father's actions seriously violated ethics and morals and deeply hurt the feelings of his family.
This made him more and more disgusted with his father's hypocritical and selfish behavior.
There is no doubt that Li Youbin's actions have left an indelible scar on Li Xiaoke's life journey. Until the age of 38, Li Xiaoke still failed to get rid of the haze of this family tragedy and had a deep fear of married life.
He fears that he too will find himself in the same predicament as his father and lose faith in love.
It was these bad influences of his father that completely shattered Li Xiaoke's yearning for a good marriage. He didn't dare to set foot in the palace of marriage easily, lest he would follow in his footsteps and become another negative man who betrayed his relatives.
It can be said that Li Youbin's behavior has left an indelible mark on his son's life.
Faced with his father's treatment of him like this, Li Xiaoke's heart was full of pain and despair. He couldn't understand how a man could be so selfish and irresponsible, in order to satisfy his own desires, without regard for his own flesh and blood.
It can be said that Li Youbin's negative behaviors not only ruined the good reputation he had accumulated over the years, but also brought irreparable damage to his biological son Li Xiaoke's life path.
His paranoid and irresponsible behavior is really incomprehensible and even indignant!