Some people say that the stupidest behavior of a woman is not to study well and be motivated, but to fall in love early, find a bad man at the bottom, and be moved by the low-cost payment.
When a woman has a wealth of knowledge and the ability to think independently, they are more likely to succeed in their careers and realize their own values.
I know a few beautiful and feminine people with good figures, one is beautiful and has a good figure to marry the owner of a real estate business in Jiangmen City, and one is married to Macau, bought a house in Zhuhai, and bought a house in Guangzhou.
has bought a house in Chongqing, with assets of tens of millions, and a second wife from the Jiangmen Municipal Government, who has a house and a car to help his ex-husband raise his son and help his ex-husband's son buy a house, and there are also several million. A woman without culture will also live well if she has beauty, figure, IQ and emotional intelligence.
There are rotten men at every level, at the bottom, but there are fewer, and there are more simple men. Academic qualifications can't filter out people with bad conduct, they can only filter out scum.
There is no necessary correlation between the level of education and the happiness index. If you don't get married, the happiness index will not be high.
For women, they must first have good looks. In real life, many girls who can't read and don't have a high education often marry early, get married and have children, while those girls with high education often can't get married.
I am still very happy to have someone to accompany me through my life, I feel that it is much more interesting to have someone to accompany me when I go out to travel, someone to take care of when I am sick, and someone to discuss in case of trouble.
Often, on the contrary, girls with low educational qualifications have a higher happiness index because they get married early. For people in their 30s who marry late, the biggest pain is to start raising children at an old age.
At that time, the energy and physical strength were not enough, if the children went to school well, they were still going to school around the age of 60, and when they entered the society, their parents were old, so they should do what they should do at what age.
If people's desires are not big, life is good At least there is no quarrel, if two people are together and will only ask for it, when they get married, they will be the same forever, and they will not be happy.
High cognition is sometimes not necessarily useful, especially in the Internet era, since ancient times there has been a verdict, what horse is worthy of what saddle, just high cognition, self-cultivation can not be improved, is the most painful.
Everyone wants to find a rich and handsome man with good moral cultivation, just like I want to marry Liu Yifei, but ask yourself, can I be worthy? And now there is a big fallacy, that is, hard work can lead to success, and wealth can be free.
Take a look at the current environment, look at your own ability, earn a few dollars a month, talk about independence, talk about picking a good other half, don't look at the master and the low, it is better to be happy with the eyes and hands, and the desire is difficult to fill.
Reading will definitely change your fate, but some things are really destined from birth, so I think life still needs wisdom, such as contentment, I am afraid that my vision is high, but my ability has not gone up, and I have become a master of vision.
There are also different needs of men and women, and the choice of a good man's mate really likes to be young and beautiful, with good character, education, work, and family is what you will look at when you have the previous options.
So now many women say that they earn 10,000 and ask their husbands to earn 20,000, which is a fallacy, men looking for a wife don't care too much about how much money you earn, this can only be a plus point for additional options, and it is really important to have a good character.
As long as the person who asks for food can eat enough every day, he feels very happy, and the fool lives happily every day, and the simpler the thought, the easier it is to be satisfied and feel happy.
In many villages, grandparents have never read a book, and they don't know what whisky is, what LV is, and what advanced mathematics is. But happier and more accommodating than most people I've ever met.
The significance of women's reading is that when marriage comes to an end, you can be brave enough to say no because you have the ability to support yourself and your children without being dependent on your other half.
And having enough ability comes from your study, high education, and work, which is the meaning of women's study, not to study to marry a man with a high education!
Helpless, the school period is too long, graduate school, find a good job, 35 years old, low-level don't look down, high-level don't look at us, fragrant or not, stinky or not, half-dead in marriage and love, drowsy.
I feel that I can't see clearly that men have nothing to do with academic qualifications, it is related to the love brain, some women are not highly educated, but they are very sober, can carry clearly, have strong goals, and often the marriage is not too bad. Some of them are highly educated, and there are many people who are in love.
There are different things to do at different ages, ordinary people just follow the crowd, most people's cognition is lagging behind, and when they figure it out, the time may not be right.
From a personal point of view, it must be to improve oneself, to be a better self is the most important thing, from the perspective of the country, it is better for women to have more children. Some hard-mouthed people say that it is not delayed, I want to say that it is impossible to give birth to one without delay, and to give birth to three.
No matter how much you read, you can't change your emotional intelligence, it's a law that can't be changed. If there is no love between men and women, there will be no unhappiness in marriage and family.
There are many women who marry rich people early and live very well, live in luxury houses, drive luxury cars, we graduated from college, failed to pass the civil service examination every time, and finally had to give in in order to live, and found a small business to work first to support themselves, and they couldn't get married, so there is a big difference between the ability to make money and academic qualifications.
Moreover, EQ and IQ are two different things!
For anyone, reading a book is not determined by diligence alone, but more importantly by your IQ. Come back to it, who didn't think about studying hard back then? How many of them were so angry when they read well?
Whether the education level is high or not, it really doesn't have much to do with whether the marriage is good or not, all classes have a lifetime of companionship and divorce, and the divorce rate of highly educated people is not low.
A girl next to me fell in love in high school, of course, the object she chose had a certain economic foundation at home, and then she was a boy who could handle it herself, and now she is living a very happy life.
It is good to study more and have a high degree of education. However, many highly educated people are deceived when they meet low-educated people who can speak well and have rich social experience.
Knowledge cannot replace social experience, knowledge also has social experience, and we must go into the circle to listen, see and contact more in order to go further in this complicated society.
A good marriage has nothing to do with academic qualifications, mutual understanding, mutual respect, and a sense of responsibility, no one is perfect, since they can come together at the beginning, they are basically satisfied, and marriage should tolerate each other.
Women do not read more books to oppose men, but to improve their cultural literacy, arm their minds, understand more things, and make themselves better. No matter what field you encounter scum and scum things, you can defend yourself, because there are scum things and scum people at any level in any field.
The level of education of a woman determines the level of her career and social status. But whether or not to find a bad man doesn't seem to have much to do with the level of culture.
First of all, we must define what a bad man is, different people may have different opinions, my subjective definition of a bad man is selfishness, laziness, eating, drinking, prostitution and gambling, vanity, violence, and sanctimoniousness.
Obviously a addict who has taken a fancy to your status but keeps saying that he loves you, isn't there such a man with a high level of culture?
A person's cultivation is only the embodiment of his external behavior, while a person's quality determines his inner essence, that is, his character. The so-called rotten man is a hypocritical man who uses the so-called cultivation to package the essence of the rotten top, and this kind of person is not worthy of being called a man.
In fact, what this person said at the beginning was more biased, everyone's intelligence is different, and not every woman is suitable for reading. Even if every woman studies well, it is impossible for every woman to achieve good grades, because there is a gap in each woman's intelligence.
If you don't have a smart mind, you let her learn from her and feel distressed, it's a kind of torture. Only by letting smart people study hard can they succeed, stupid people are not suitable, and people are needed to engage in various industries!