These days are conference days, and a few of our friends happen to be together, and we talk a lot. Today, I talked about the interesting things that happened when we traveled together in the past, and after many years, it is really full of memories.
A sister said that when she saw the pickles sold at the entrance of the scenic spot, she felt that it was completely different from the practice in her hometown.
But by coincidence, she didn't bring her mobile phone, so she asked her husband to pay 20 yuan.
But the gentleman took a look at her and taught her a lesson, saying that he would not eat it if he bought it, and if he didn't eat it, he would waste it, and he couldn't take it when he gave it away......
The point is, after saying so much and not paying yet, it really her off.
And another friend who was chatting with her today, who happened to be next to her back then, helped her pay for the 20 yuan pickles.
Speaking of this today, the two of them were quite emotional.
Back then, this man was very wise and said, "20 yuan can buy a lady's happiness, this investment is simply worth it!"
In fact, this friend has always been like this, and he has a wise saying: "If the lady does not bloom, it is the sorrow of a man." ”
Therefore, he is very tolerant of his wife, and everything in the family is decided by his wife. As long as his wife is happy, he is willing to spend as much as he wants.
But the more he did this, the more his wife had to save him money, and he couldn't spend much money.
This friend said, husband and wife, look at whether it is worth it? Don't look at the money, but look at the emotional value.
Cost is priceless, emotions are priceless, money is low-dimensional, and heart is high-dimensional.
If there is a little low-dimensional money, it can move the high-dimensional heart, but in fact, it is not the money that works, but the heart of the person who uses the money, which really has warmth, observation, understanding, and support.
Only those who use money and have such love in their hearts can use this little money to play an infinite role.
In fact, in the relationship between husband and wife, you can't be reasonable, you have to talk about love.
Reasoning, everyone will cling to their own reasoning, and when it comes to love, everyone has a common touch in their hearts.
Therefore, reasoning is to talk about a husband and wife on two paths, and to talk about love, two different people can be moved into a family.
In fact, to manage an intimate relationship, you don't need strong love and a lot of dedication.
As long as there are fewer attacks, fewer confrontations, less difficulties for the strong, and more understanding and acceptance, it is enough.
Because, for people to be harmonious with each other, all they need is emotional value.
Thank you for your sharing, and thank you for letting us know each other.
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