From ancient times to the present, love has been a topic of discussion that we have always discussed.
We all long to have a relationship that we have always loved.
Meet a favorite person among thousands of people, only loyal to Ta in your life, whether it is Ta's best time, or Ta's bleakest time, you will never leave Ta.
You don't have to be vigorous, love to death, but you can survive the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, in exchange for a lifetime of together.
As Romain Rolland said, "Love is a permanent faith." ”
And its most beautiful appearance is hidden in these three sentences.
You make my heart move, I make you feel at ease
When I was young, I always thought that love must be romantic enough;
When you have a certain amount of experience, you can understand that beautiful feelings can also permeate some small details in life, and that is often the most moving.
At the age of 17, Lin Yutang fell in love with his classmate's younger sister Chen Jinduan.
Chen Jinduan had a flower-like appearance, and Lin Yutang fell when he saw her for the first time.
But Chen Jinduan's father was a wealthy businessman in Xiamen, and Lin Yutang's family was poor and the door was not right, so they failed to get together in the end.
Later, Lin Yutang was taken by Liao Cuifeng, the girl next door to the Chen family.
At that time, Liao Cuifeng's parents also tried their best to oppose it, but Liao Cuifeng said firmly:
"What are you afraid of being poor? I love his talent, his people, and I am not afraid of him being poor. ”
Lin Yutang was very grateful to this girl who did not dislike him.
On the day of the wedding, he burned the wedding book and said firmly:
"The marriage certificate is for divorce, and we don't need it. ”
In the days that followed, the two fell in love with each other and have always been affectionate and loving.
When he was obsessed with writing, it was Liao Cuifeng who silently prepared three meals a day, and when he was stretched, it was Liao Cuifeng who sold his dowry to accompany him to survive.
Even if Chen Jinduan has been in contact with Lin Yutang's family later, Liao Cuifeng is not afraid, because Lin Yutang can make him feel at ease.
Even, she can talk about Lin Yutang's love history in front of her children.
Source: Visual China
A really good relationship will make you very comfortable with each other, make you happy, and make him feel comfortable.
Although he may not say a lot of sweet words, he will do a lot of things that will put your mind at ease.
He will keep a certain distance from the opposite sex and give you enough security.
Therefore, you never have to be afraid that he will go, as long as you turn around, he is there for you.
As the writer Su Cen said:
"The best feeling is knowing someone who will not leave you easily.
No matter what kind of setbacks and disputes you go through, go around in circles and walk back. ”
In this life, it is enough to meet a person who makes me feel excited, I make you feel at ease, and hand in hand to see the flowers blooming and falling and the clouds rolling in the world.
You know my warmth and coldness, and I know your joys and sorrows
When I was young and ignorant, I always thought that a sentence of "I love you" was worth everything.
But love is only a momentary heartbeat, and in this chaotic life, understanding is more important than love.
People who understand you will pay attention to your words and deeds, will solve problems with you when you need to fight side by side, and will give you comfort and hugs in time when they see your strength and vulnerability.
Weibo blogger @Call MeAHe once shared the love story of one of his uncles and aunts online, which touched countless netizens.
They were childhood sweethearts, but in that era of lack of food and clothing, their married life was not easy.
In order to live a better life and provide a high-quality educational environment for his children, his uncle will work part-time on projects in his spare time, and he is often so busy that his feet do not touch the ground;
A few years later, the uncle saw that her aunt was working hard for the family, and the whole person was a lot haggard, so he asked her to quit her part-time job.
Later, in order to support her uncle's career, my aunt sacrificed her career again and again, and lived with him in various cities without complaint.
After a few more years, my uncle finally became famous, working as a supervisor in a large company, with a good salary, and my aunt thought that a good life was finally over.
Unexpectedly, my uncle wanted to quit his job and change his career to become an engineering designer.
Although her uncle's decision made her aunt feel pity, she still supported her uncle without hesitation.
This year, the blogger happened to see the silver wedding photos taken by his uncle and aunt in Xiamen, and only then did he understand the meaning of the sentence "You are enough in this life".
Maybe many people love your sparkling appearance, but there is only one person who can see the bitterness, helplessness and pain behind your glamour, and give you the company of a long stream of water with the warmth of a meal and a porridge.
Source: Visual China
When you are working hard, he will accompany you to stay up and endure;
When you fly high, he only cares about whether you are tired or not;
When others envy you for your success, only Ta can see the bitterness behind your scenery.
Romance and vows can be forged, but knowing your heart is true feelings.
As sung in the song "The Rest of My Life":
"For the rest of your life, the wind and snow are you, the plainness is you, the poverty is you, the glory is you, the tenderness in your heart is you, and you are also the one who looks at you. ”
From holding the hand of the son to growing old with the son, you know my warmth and coldness, I understand your joys and sorrows, life is like this, what more can a husband ask for.
You worship me like a hero, and I pamper you like a child
Cai Shaofen was once the ruthless queen in "The Legend of Zhen Huan", but in real life, she is a cute "Xuanfu maniac".
In 2003, Cai Shaofen met Zhang Jin while filming "Water Moon Cave Sky". At that time, she was already a very well-known actor, but Zhang Jin was only a small supporting role in the crew.
So the relationship between the two is not favored by everyone. After the relationship was announced, the Hong Kong media said in the newspaper that Zhang Jin, a young actor with no name, fell in love with a big star, and it was simply "a toad who wants to eat swan meat".
But Cai Shaofen doesn't think so, her eyes when she looks at Zhang Jin will always have light, a woman's trust in a man and the light full of love.
And there is a reason behind this, because Zhang Jin spoiled Cai Shaofen as a little girl, so that Cai Shaofen was always immersed in happiness and security.
Every time Cai Shaofen has a new play, Zhang Jin will support it to the end, and when Cai Shaofen is tired from filming, Zhang Jin will accompany her to be funny and make her laugh.
Over the years, Cai Shaofen has often praised Zhang Jin on Weibo.
With Cai Shaofen's encouragement, Zhang Jin has also counterattacked from an unknown young actor to today's actor, becoming calm and confident.
Zhang Jin won the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor, and when he came to the stage to accept the award, he said: "I want to thank my wife. Although many people say that I have to rely on her all my life, yes, my happiness in this life depends on her. ”
Cai Shaofen, who heard this sentence in the audience, instantly burst into tears.
Source: Visual China
It's easy to fall in love, but it's not easy to get along; marriage is easy to tie up, but it's too difficult to stay together.
If you love a woman, make her feel cared for, listen to her at all times, understand her emotions, and respond positively.
If you love a man, praise his merits, respect his career, and make him feel valued.
Only by knowing how to appreciate each other's goodness can feelings go further and further in praise.
As the saying goes: There is no better love than when you worship me like a hero and I love you like a child.
If you love the right person, marriage will not become a grave, but the starting point of another romance.
Mr. Yang Jiang said:
"Before I met you, I didn't think about getting married, and after I met you, I didn't think about getting married. ”
It started with love at first sight and ended with each other.
A good love is not just an unswerving promise, but also a tacit understanding.
He understands what you want to say, and you understand what he means.
No matter how strong the wind and rain are, you can hold each other's hands and not let go.
After the storm, everything will be more complete.
May you also meet that lover as soon as possible, watch every sunrise and sunset with you, and walk hand in hand to the end of the years.
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Author: Xiang Cheng, a young woman of literature and art wandering in the world of literature.