Painter Fan Zeng marries young wife:
Why is there so much scolding on the Internet?
Text | The fog is full of barrage
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Fan Zeng was born in 1938.
He is 86 years old.
married to a girl who was 50 years younger than him:
Fan Zeng's marriage was announced, and there was a lot of scolding on the Internet:
According to netizens, Fan Zeng has five major crimes:
First, in a special era, he bullied the famous writer Shen Congwen.
The second is that Fan Zeng was in trouble, and his friend came to help him, but he snatched his friend's wife with lightning speed.
Third, Fan Zeng had fled the motherland.
Fourth, after fleeing the motherland, he couldn't get along, and Fan Zeng came back again.
Fifth, Fan Zeng bullied Shen Congwen's cousin Huang Yongyu, and also turned his face with his teacher Li Kuchan.
Netizens believe that Fan Zengchao is not a fuel-efficient lamp.
Fan Zeng's practice of marrying a young wife is not supported.
Why is that?
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Love, is there an age limit?
Listen to the story of Xiao Du's sister.
Little Du's sister, French.
In her early years, her parents ran from France to Vietnam.
Then Xiao Du's sister's father died.
Mother hugged Xiao Du Mei and said: My life is up to me. Mom wants to buy a piece of land and become a big landowner.
Mom took all the money and bought a piece of land.
Then my mother hugged Xiao Du and went to see her own land.
Then my mother was shocked to find that the land she bought was deep in the sea.
Mom was in a hurry and asked the developer for a refund.
The developer said: Big sister, what you have to do is buy another boat, not a refund, OK?
Buy a boat again...... But my mother had no money.
What to do?
My mother thought about it and said, "Yes, what then, if I build a dam in the sea, won't my land be exposed to the sea?"
Think of it, do it, the most important thing in life is execution.
Mom took Xiao Du's sister and began to build the embankment.
Reporters flocked to him: Hey, silly big sister, the sea is boundless, and human life is limited. Build an infinite dam with a finite life, and if you don't wait for the dam to be built, you will die.
That's right, my mother replied: my life is much shorter than the dikes in the Pacific Ocean, but I have a daughter, and if I die, my daughter will continue to build dikes. My daughter died, and she still had daughters, grandparents, mothers and daughters, and they kept building it, and the dam would be built one day.
After speaking, the mother said to Sister Xiao Du: Is it daughter?
Be...... You're big. Sister Xiao Du collapsed.
She didn't want her mother and daughter to build dikes in the Pacific Ocean for generations.
Taking advantage of her mother's efforts to build the embankment, Xiao Du's sister fled back to Paris.
Then she wrote a book: "The Dam Against the Pacific."
And then she was on fire.
He is a well-known writer.
And then she got old, 66 years old.
One day she went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, and a beautiful young man suddenly appeared in front of her and shouted: Duras, you were as beautiful as a flower when you were young, and countless men were willing to die for you. You are old now, and I love your face, which has been ravaged by time, more than your delicate girlish youth.
Sister Xiao Du...... No, she is 66 years old, and she should be called Grandma Xiaodu.
Yes, she is the writer Duras.
Duras didn't hear what the other party said, and asked: What do you mean?
The boy shouted: I love you, I will let you give me a monkey!
Die, Duras is angry: I'm 40 years older than you, don't make such jokes.
Then, Duras was with the young man.
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The young man who courted Duras was named Jan Andre.
27 years old, currently in college.
He is with the female writer Duras, who is 39 years older than him.
The media blew up.
thinks that these two people can't last long.
Everyone was waiting for them to break up.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait for 16 years.
At the age of 82, Duras left this world peacefully.
Andrei, who has been with her for 16 years, howled and cried and wrote the book "My Love Duras".
It was only then that everyone realized that Duras and André were true love.
True love is invincible.
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Why is Duras and Andre's love across ages recognized by everyone, but Fan Zeng marries a young girl, but everyone is angry?
First, human nature has two dimensions, one is virtue and the other is talent.
What is virtue?
It's that this person is unreliable.
What is it called?
It's this person, the top is not the top use.
There is a word called having both ability and political integrity. Meaning, you have to be able to use it for your dog's day, and reassure us, OK?
Second, the big people seek talent, and the small people seek virtue.
Many people believe that big people should have high morals.
But in fact, the bigger the person, the worse the character.
Most people in the world have no virtue and no talent, and they are not reliable if they are not useful, and if they are used, even if they are not reliable, everyone must rely on them. Those who don't use it can't be relied on.
The big man seeks talent, the little man seeks virtue, Fan adds a word, and the market price is 10 million. If you can fool him into writing for you, do you care if his character is reliable or not?
The third, the big waves wash the sand, and the rain hits the flowers and falls.
The poet Bai Juyi said: The jade test should be burned for three days, and the identification must wait for seven years.
Meaning, don't jump to conclusions just yet, let the bullets fly for a while, OK?
André and the female writer Duras were not optimistic at first, but after 16 years, everyone realized that this was true love.
What is Fan Zeng's character?
It may take a few hundred years before a conclusion can be reached.
If you don't like Fan Zeng, scold them to death. But don't forget to scold while snatching his calligraphy and paintings, a drop of ink that the strange old man drips on the paper can be sold for a lot of money.
Thousands of people pointed out, and died without a problem. Old man Fan is so old that he can't walk, instead of scolding him to death, it is better to let him paint to death to exhaust him. If his character is really bad, this is his punishment. If his character is not so unbearable, this is precisely his life reward.
Wouldn't that be better?
(*The picture in this article is from the Internet)