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As a daughter-in-law from the city, there is indeed some generation gap between me and my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law is a typical old rural lady with a very different lifestyle and values than mine. However, my mother-in-law has always cared about me and my husband, but sometimes she doesn't express herself in the right way, which makes me feel hurt. However, I understand that this is all due to her good intentions, so I usually listen patiently and rarely refute it.
Mother-in-law's personality characteristics: She is very curious about me, the daughter-in-law in the city, often asks questions, and does not agree with my lifestyle and work habits. She likes to nag and sometimes inadvertently says things that make me feel sad, such as that I don't pay enough attention to my family and husband. But I understood that it was all out of her concern, but it was just not expressed in a way that was appropriate.
My personality traits: I am a more introverted person who doesn't like to socialize too much and prefers to stay at home quietly. I usually listen patiently to my mother-in-law's nagging and nagging, and rarely refute it. Sometimes I deliberately avoid some topics because I feel that my mother-in-law's concept is more traditional and it is difficult to understand my thoughts.
The relationship between our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: Although there is a generation gap, we basically get along well. I will try my best to take care of my mother-in-law's feelings, give her some face, and not be too attached to my own opinions. My mother-in-law didn't make things difficult for me, and occasionally taught me some housewife skills, such as cooking, sewing, etc. I am also happy to accept her teachings on how to be a virtuous daughter-in-law. Sometimes, though, I can't help but refute some of her opinions, such as her belief that women should focus on their families and not focus too much on their work. I try to explain what I think, but it's usually about living in peace.
This time, my mother-in-law took the initiative to take care of me from the countryside, and I was very grateful. At the beginning of my pregnancy, I did feel a little unwell and needed to be taken care of. My husband is busy with work and can't be with him all the time, so I am comforted by the presence of my mother-in-law.
At dinner, my mother-in-law made some of my favorite hometown dishes, which made me feel warm. We chatted while eating and the atmosphere was very harmonious.
Mother-in-law: "Have you been eating well lately, is there anything special you want to eat?"
Me: "Mother-in-law, I like all these dishes you make. As long as you do it, I'm satisfied. "
The mother-in-law smiled: "Then I'll make you more from now on." You have to eat more and take care of your baby. "
I nodded: "Thank you, mother-in-law, I'll eat well." "
One afternoon, I was watching TV in the living room when my mother-in-law came out of the bedroom with a leather handbag in her hand. I noticed that I had never seen this bag before, so I asked her curiously, "Mother-in-law, is this bag new?"
The mother-in-law said with some humility: "Oh, this one, I brought it from home, and it contains some commonly used things. With that, she put her bag on the coffee table and sat down next to me.
I suddenly had a hunch in my heart, and I quietly reached for the bag. When I unzipped it, I was greeted by a neat pile of cash. I froze, unable to believe my eyes.
"Mother-in-law, where did all this money come from?" I asked cautiously.
The mother-in-law was silent for a while, and finally sighed and said, "Actually, I secretly brought all this money from home. As you know, our family is not very well-off, and I have always wanted to give you some subsidies, but there has been no right time. You're pregnant this time, so I want to take the opportunity to help you. "
My feelings suddenly became complicated. On the one hand, I was very touched by my mother-in-law's heart, but on the other hand, I felt that what she was doing was inappropriate. I know that her family's financial situation is really not good, but stealing the family's money is not a good way to do it.
"Mother-in-law, this may cause displeasure among the rest of the family, right? I tactfully persuaded her.
"Mother-in-law, I know you have good intentions, but we really don't need you to do this. I appreciate that you want to help us, but if your family finds out, I'm afraid it will cause a lot of trouble. Our lives are fairly stable now, and although we sometimes encounter some difficulties, we all know to support each other and take our time. "
The mother-in-law lowered her head and was silent for a long time, and finally said, "I know you are right, it is really not appropriate to do this. But I'm really worried about you, and I don't want you to be like I was back then. After all, we rural people live in poor conditions, and I just want to do my best to make you feel better. "
Hearing my mother-in-law's sincere explanation, my heart suddenly softened. I reached out and shook her hand and said, "Mother-in-law, I understand your feelings. Although there is a generation gap between us, I have always felt that you care about us. I will take good care of myself and believe that as long as we understand each other, everything will be fine. "
The mother-in-law raised her head, her eyes were slightly red, and she said excitedly: "You are such a good boy, I am really glad that you can understand me like this." I'm going to take good care of my hands and never do anything like this again. From now on, I will try to talk less and give you more space, hoping that you can live a happy and healthy life. "
I nodded, hugged my mother-in-law tightly, and felt her trembling body. At this moment, I felt that the gap between us had finally been dissolved, and in its place was a new understanding and affection.
After this incident, my relationship with my mother-in-law became more harmonious. I found out that my mother-in-law is actually a very kind person who cares about us. Although her expression is not appropriate, the love in her heart is sincere.
I started to take the initiative to communicate with my mother-in-law more to understand her thoughts and concerns. I found out that she turned out to be a person with a lot of stories. She has lived in poverty since she was a child, and she has supported her family with her own hands. She is very envious of the life of the people in the city and hopes that her children can live a better life.
"Mother-in-law, you've had a hard time growing up, right? I can understand how you want to help us. I asked softly.
The mother-in-law nodded, sighed and said, "Yes, our family has been very poor since childhood. Since I was a child, I had to help my family with farm work, and I didn't even have the opportunity to go to school. So I've always wanted my children to have a good life and not live such a hard life like me. "
"I see, no wonder you care so much about us. I understand your feelings. I took her hand and said sincerely.
It turned out that my mother-in-law just wanted to show her love for us in her own way. Although she is honest by nature, she also has a warm heart. She doesn't ask for anything in return, she just wants her children to live a happy and happy life. This kind of selfless love makes me can't help but look at her with admiration.
Since then, we've gotten along more well. I took the initiative to care more about her life and help her adapt to the rhythm of life in the city. We cooked together, chatted together, and gradually, the generation gap between us became smaller.
The mother-in-law did keep her promise and no longer made up her mind to steal money. She always told me to take care and not to work too hard. I looked at her kind face and was grateful. It turned out that my mother-in-law had always cared for us in her own way, but we were too stingy to understand her properly.
"Mother-in-law, just let me know if you need anything in the future. I would also like to repay you for your concern for us. I say it sincerely.
The mother-in-law smiled: "Good child, you can take care of the fetus, and let me help take care of the baby when it is born." I will do my best to take care of you. "
Now, with this little life in my arms, my heart is full of anticipation for the future. I believe that with the help and support of my mother-in-law, I will be able to be a good mother. Our family was finally able to truly come together and welcome this new life together.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, I am six months pregnant. My mother-in-law has been taking care of me, and although we still occasionally have conflicts over small things, our relationship has improved considerably.
Today was a sunny day, and my mother-in-law and I were drinking tea and chatting on the balcony. Suddenly, my mother-in-law said to me, "I'm going to go back to my hometown tomorrow to see how my family is doing." It's not good for you to be home alone, so why don't I take you back with me, and let you see your maiden home by the way. "
I was a little surprised, but then I said happily, "Okay, I haven't been back for a long time, and I miss the scenery of my hometown and my family." Then let's leave tomorrow!"
This experience of returning to my hometown has made my relationship with my mother-in-law even closer. Not only did we get closer to each other, but we also brought our family closer together.
After returning to the city, the mother-in-law became more considerate and thoughtful. She would take the initiative to help me with household chores and cook nutritious meals. Sometimes I can't sleep well at night because I am not feeling well, and my mother-in-law will silently take care of me, leaving me with warm memories.
One day at noon, I was taking a nap when I was suddenly awakened by a burst of fragrance. I opened my eyes and saw my mother-in-law walking in with a steaming bowl of soup.
"Wake up, get up and drink some hot soup, it's good for your body. The mother-in-law said gently.
I sat up and took the bowl from her hand: "Mother-in-law, you are so nice. Thank you so much for making me soup on such a hot day. "
The mother-in-law smiled and said, "It's nothing, it's all what I should do." You're my precious daughter-in-law, and of course I'm going to take good care of you. "
I took a sip of the soup and immediately felt relaxed both physically and mentally. My mother-in-law is really good at taking care of people, and this soup is not only delicious, but also refreshing.
"This soup is so delicious, mother-in-law, you really know how to make it. I will definitely learn more from you in the future. I praise from the bottom of my heart.
"Oh, you kid, what's this little thing. When you have a baby in the future, I will take care of you even more. You are my family, and of course I have to treat it wholeheartedly. The mother-in-law said, her eyes showing deep love.
Hearing my mother-in-law's words, my eyes moistened a little with emotion. I said sincerely, "Mother-in-law, I know that you have always cared for us in your way. In the future, I will be more proactive in communicating with you to make our relationship better and better. "
My mother-in-law nodded with satisfaction and reached out to stroke my hair: "Good boy, I knew you were a sensible person." Don't worry, I will be more considerate of you in the future. "
Since then, my mother-in-law and I have become more harmonious. We do chores together, talk and talk together. My mother-in-law is no longer as nagging as before, she has become more considerate and always concerned about my physical condition.
Sometimes, I would take the initiative to tell my mother-in-law about my work and life, so that she could better understand the life of people in the city. Although my mother-in-law still doesn't understand some modern things, she always listens patiently and responds positively.
One night, the three of us were chatting in the living room. The husband casually mentioned that there were some problems with one of the company's projects recently.
After hearing this, the mother-in-law pondered for a moment and said, "I heard you say that the company's recent projects have some problems, why don't you let me help you find a way." Although I am a rural person, I also have some experience in dealing with problems. "
My husband and I were a little surprised, but we listened to her.
After listening to it, we couldn't help but admire the wisdom of our mother-in-law. It turns out that she is not only good at taking care of her family, but also can give good advice on some work problems.
The husband said gratefully, "Mother-in-law, you are amazing. Your suggestion is insightful and I will definitely consider it seriously. Our family is so lucky to have someone like you. "
The mother-in-law smiled and said, "Oh, I'm just talking about it." You young people are the wisest, and I'm just offering a few insignificant suggestions. "
Hearing her say this, I couldn't help but go up and hug her, and said sincerely, "Mother-in-law, you have helped us so much. You are the one who brings us closer together as a family. In the future, we must honor you well and let you enjoy your old age by our side. "
My mother-in-law hugged me, her eyes moistened, and she said, "Good boy, you are really my baby." With you here, I feel happy all my life. "
In this moment, I felt the purest love between my family. This love is not only a blood relationship, but also a deep friendship born from running-in. I believe that as long as we cherish the happiness in front of us, our family will definitely get better and better.
In this way, my relationship with my mother-in-law became more and more harmonious. Not only did we become close family, but we also became best friends.
One afternoon, I was taking a tea break on the balcony when my mother-in-law came out of the kitchen and sat down next to me.
"Daughter-in-law, why are you resting here alone today? Do you want me to chat with you?" The mother-in-law asked with concern.
"It's okay, mother-in-law. I just want to be alone and feel this rare leisure time. I said with a smile.
The mother-in-law nodded: "Yes, you must have a good rest during pregnancy." However, if you're bored, I can chat with you. What's new lately?"
I thought about it for a moment and said, "Actually, it's nothing special. However, a few days ago, my husband and I discussed that if he was born a boy, I would name him 'Mingyu'. What do you think?"
"Mingyu, this name is good, it's good. The mother-in-law smiled with satisfaction, "After the boy is born, I must take good care of him." I can't wait to meet my little grandson!"
Hearing my mother-in-law say this, I couldn't help but hold her hand: "Mother-in-law, you are so good to us, I really thank you." If it weren't for your help and support, I wouldn't have survived. "
My mother-in-law smiled and patted the back of my hand: "Where, you are my treasure." Anything I can do for you, it's all due. In the future, when the baby is born, I will definitely take care of you more conscientiously. "
"Mother-in-law, you are so nice. "There was a generation gap between us before, but now I fully understand your intentions." I feel your concern for us. "
The mother-in-law nodded and said softly, "I know that sometimes my expression is not appropriate, and it is easy for you to feel irritable. But you have to believe that my love for you is genuine. I just want to do what I can to make your lives happy and healthy. "
"I understand, mother-in-law. In the future, I will also communicate with you more proactively, so that our relationship will become more and more harmonious. I say sincerely.
Just then, the husband came back from outside. Seeing the two of us talking intimately, he joined in.
"Ah, what are my two women talking about?" The husband asked with a smile.
I smiled and said, "We were talking about the baby's name and the mother-in-law taking care of us in the future." "
The husband nodded and said, "That's great." With my mother-in-law here, our family will be happy. "
The mother-in-law said with relief: "Yes, with you here, my old lady finally feels at ease." In the future, I will definitely take care of you wholeheartedly and make this home more warm and happy. "
The three of us looked at each other and smiled, as if we felt the warmth and affection in the air.
That very night, I had a strange dream. I dreamed that I gave birth to a healthy and beautiful boy, and my mother-in-law happily hugged him and looked at him with warm eyes. The mother-in-law in the dream has a happy smile on her face, as if she has finally fulfilled her dream.
When I woke up, I couldn't help but shed tears of emotion. Perhaps, this is what it was meant to be. I believe that as long as we tolerate each other and resolve differences with love, our family will be able to move towards a happier future.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, I am eight months pregnant. During this time, my mother-in-law has been taking good care of me and making me feel the warmth of my family. The relationship between us has also become more and more harmonious, and my mother-in-law is no longer so nagging, but more understanding and supportive.
One day, my mother-in-law suddenly said to me, "Daughter-in-law, I plan to go back to my hometown tomorrow." It's not convenient for you to be here alone, so why don't I take you with me?"
I was a little surprised, but I readily agreed: "Okay, mother-in-law." I haven't been back for a long time, and I miss the scenery of my hometown and my loved ones. Then let's leave tomorrow!"
When we arrived at our hometown, our parents and other relatives greeted us with joy. Everyone hugged me warmly and asked me about my current situation. I introduced my mother-in-law to them, and they greeted her kindly.
In the past few days at home, I have really felt the warmth of my family. My parents were also very kind to my mother-in-law, they patiently listened to her mother-in-law's nagging and responded. I watched the three old men talk happily and couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion.
The night before leaving, my mother-in-law and I had a long conversation in the yard. My mother-in-law told me that when she returned to her hometown, she really felt the importance of her family. She said that she used to think that she was the most important thing, but now she understands that only when her family is united is the most reliable thing to rely on.
"I will take good care of your family in the future, don't think I'm nagging, I'm all out of good intentions. Your parents are also good people, we should understand each other and maintain this big family together. My mother-in-law said to me earnestly.
When I heard this, my eyes couldn't help but moisten. I shook my mother-in-law's hand and said solemnly, "I understand, mother-in-law." We will always be together as a family, helping each other and getting through all the difficulties together. "
I believe that with this experience, my relationship with my mother-in-law will get better and better, and our family will definitely become happier and happier.