As time passed, the focus of the family gradually shifted from the older generation to the younger generation. In this transformation, we older generations need to learn to step back into the background at the right time and let the new generation shine on the stage.
Once we were used to calling the shots from home, now we need to adapt to new roles. Children have grown up and they have their own thinking and decision-making skills. Therefore, we should talk less and do more and avoid unnecessary interference and accusations. Isn't it often said that "silence is golden"? Perhaps, at this time, silence is really a kind of wisdom.
Yesterday, I heard from a friend. Her grandson tried cycling to school alone for the first time, and her grandmother was worried about the safety of the road and wanted her son to pick him up. However, the daughter-in-law believes that the child is independent enough and does not need to be overprotective. In the face of such differences, should we reflect on whether the excessive concern of our older generation has become a burden on the family?
In addition, we should also maintain an appropriate distance between our children's work and life. They have their own pursuits and ideals, and our suggestions and interference may only make them feel constrained and pressured. After all, everyone has their own path in life and needs to explore and move forward on their own.
At the same time, we must also learn to take care of ourselves and maintain a healthy body. Don't stress too much about your discomfort in front of your children, as this will only worry them and even annoy them. Treat when you are sick and stay optimistic so that we can better enjoy life and let our children pursue their dreams with confidence.
The times are progressing, and thinking is changing. We older generations also need to keep pace with the times and learn to let go and trust. Don't always worry that your children will make mistakes, because making mistakes is part of growing up. Let's embrace this ever-changing world with a more open and inclusive mindset.