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People who have watched "Thirty Only" have mixed opinions about Wang Manni.
Some people say that Wang Manni is a woman who worships money and is too materialistic, so she deserves to be deceived by Liang Zhengxian, the king of the sea.
But some people say that Wang Manni's three views are actually very positive, she knows what she wants, so she tries her best to work hard. And she was deceived by Liang Zhengxian, also because this scumbag concealed her feelings.
I think that Wang Manni, a woman, has many advantages, such as being sober and rational, such as being brave and firm. Of course, she also has many shortcomings, such as being ambitious, such as being arrogant.
But no one is perfect, and overall, I still think Wang Manni is a great woman, because she never wanted to get something for nothing, and she was able to stop losses in time at critical moments.
Of course, this does not mean that I think all of Wang Manni's actions are right, and her idea of relying on feelings to change her life at the beginning is indeed problematic.
And she always thinks about giving everything to Liang Zhengxian to reflect her own value, so it is not right to measure her own value with money.
We can understand from Wang Manni's experience that if a woman wants to be happy, she must rely on herself, but at the same time, we must also understand that a woman's sense of value comes from her own ability, not money or anything.
I hope that every woman can learn some lessons from this and understand what is the true meaning of feelings, and how to make herself happy and worthwhile.
The fundamental reason why Liang Zhengxian will not marry Wang Manni
If you want to learn from the lessons, you must first understand why it is wrong for Wang Manni to want to rely on feelings to change her life, and why Liang Zhengxian will not marry Wang Manni.
There is no problem for a woman to change her life, but when she thinks about relying on her other half to change her life, it is doomed to the beginning of tragedy.
Because people are selfish, no one will selflessly change the life of another person, and the reason why two people can be together is that the other person has what they need, and that's it.
Therefore, Wang Manni's idea of relying on her feelings to cross classes almost made her fall into the abyss of no return, but fortunately, she stopped her losses in time.
As for Liang Zhengxian, he likes Wang Manni, but he just likes it a little. So he has always emphasized that he is an unmarried, but he and Zhao Jingyu live a husband and wife life in Hong Kong.
No matter how hard Wang Manni tries, in Liang Zhengxian's eyes, she is just a wild flower, which is a fact that there is no way to change.
Therefore, even if Wang Manni has always shown that she is not with him for Liang Zhengxian's money, Liang Zhengxian will not change her mind of not getting married for Wang Manni.
And after Wang Manni left completely, Liang Zhengxian met her again, and the affectionate confessions he said were just a little uncomfortable after a man didn't get it.
That is, this man is inherently selfish, he will not stay for any woman, no one can be. Therefore, as a woman, you should also understand that not believing that men will be your own safe haven, this is the first step to being able to control your happiness.
Women can't measure their sense of worth with money
I admit that Wang Manni's desire for material things and money is very strong, but I don't think she is a woman who worships money. Because she never thought of getting something for nothing, after finding out that Liang Zhengxian was a scumbag, she left decisively.
But ah, one thing she is very stupid about is that she always wants to use money to measure her sense of worth.
There is such a scene in the play, Wang Manni is reluctant to buy a water dispenser of more than 100 yuan, because she may have to move at any time, and she can't take it with her, and she bought a suitcase of 20,000 yuan for Liang Zhengxian, hoping that the other party feels worthy of him.
But as a result, Wang Manni's efforts are ridiculous in Liang Zhengxian's opinion, and I really feel unworthy for her.
Women, don't be in love, don't be naïve to think that as long as you give enough, the other party will love you very much.
You know, men are very realistic, and sometimes reality scares you. And your sense of worth in the eyes of a man is not how much money you can spend for him, but what kind of ability you have and how much value you can create.
In other words, Wang Manni, as a cabinet sister, even if she spends tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands of dollars on Liang Zhengxian, he will not think that Wang Manni is worth it, but if Wang Manni is a strong woman in her career or has other things that Liang Zhengxian particularly needs, then he will change for her.
Therefore, as a woman, don't think about using money to measure your sense of worth, but strive to improve your ability and increase the chips in your hands, which is the guarantee of your happiness.
The basis of adult affection is the exchange of interests
"Thirty Only" is actually a very realistic TV series, which makes the feelings between adults clear.
Especially Wang Manni and Liang Zhengxian, let us understand that in the relationship of adults, love and non-love are only a foundation, and other things are the fundamental elements to measure whether this person is suitable or not.
For Wang Manni, who gets up early, Liang Zhengxian is a very good other half, because he has beauty and money, once they can be together, Wang Manni can get everything she wants.
But for Liang Zhengxian, Wang Manni is not a suitable person to marry, her identity, ability, background, etc., are not the person Liang Zhengxian wants to marry.
Therefore, Liang Zhengxian proposed to come up with one south and one north, without interfering with each other. At this time, if Wang Manni agrees, it may not be long before Liang Zhengxian will completely dislike her.
Fortunately, Wang Manni's mind is clear, she did not lose herself, but decided to use her own strength to get the happiness she wanted.
Although we don't know if Wang Manni met the right person later, I am sure that a woman like Wang Manni will definitely be happy.
I hope that all women can live so soberly and constantly improve themselves, so as to get the happiness they want. Remember, don't take shortcuts, it's the quickest way to do it.
The role of Wang Manni in "Thirty Only" is very vivid, no matter how many people are criticizing her, I still think she is a model of a big woman.
I hope that every woman can know what she wants, have the ability and courage to fight for herself, and finally be able to get this happiness.
Never pin your happiness on others, I hope that every woman can believe in herself and work hard for herself. Come on.