My name is Zhang Xiaoyang and I am an ordinary office worker living in Guangzhou, China. My wife and I are named Li Na and we have been married for eight years. Our marriage has always been stable and our relationship has always been good.
I am a sales manager in a company, and I have a lot of work pressure, and I often need to work overtime to cope with various work tasks. His wife, Li Na, is a designer at a clothing company and a woman with a strong sense of career. We are all busy at work, and every day is fulfilling, but it is also hard.
However, with the busyness of work, our lives are gradually losing some of their sweetness and intimacy. I found that it had been a long time since we had a moderate sex life, and our intimacy had gradually faded.
Every night, I would come home from work very late, and my wife would often be exhausted from working overtime. Back at home, we didn't have the energy to run our marriage, so we simply ate, watched TV, and went to bed.
One night, I was tossing and turning in bed and feeling uneasy. I realized that there had been problems in our marriage and that our intimacy had become more and more indifferent. I began to reflect on myself if I should work harder to manage our marriage and make our lives full of love and passion again.
So, I decided to be honest with my wife and talk about the problems between us. I found a suitable opportunity, and when my wife put down her work and was ready to rest, I said, "Nana, we haven't had a good chat for a long time, and I think we have some problems that need to be resolved. ”
My wife, Li Na, listened to my words and looked at my serious expression, and she also realized the problem between us. She sighed softly and said, "Yes, Xiaoyang, I feel it too." Our lives have become too busy, and our intimate relationships have become less and less indifferent. ”
My wife and I began to have an honest conversation about our thoughts and feelings, and we talked about the pressures of work and the troubles of life. In the course of the conversation, we not only got to know each other better, but also found solutions to problems.
We decided to start by making lifestyle changes, minimizing work stress, spending more time with each other, and regaining our love and passion. We made a new life plan that included regular appointments, gym activities together, and more.
As time passed, our marriage gradually returned to its former sweetness and intimacy. We rediscovered our love and passion for each other, and our lives became better and more fulfilling.
Through this experience, I have come to realize that moderate sex is essential to maintaining the stability and happiness of a marriage. Only by maintaining good communication and intimacy can our marriage go further and be happier.