A young body is always worth obsessing, but addictive poisons must not be touched. Some actions not only cause hardship and pain to oneself, but can also affect the family and have a negative impact on the children.
What are some things that a man in his forties should not do?
Rejecting extramarital affairs, the young body is worthy of infatuation, it is indeed poison. If you are single, keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex.
Men, they are like a burning flame, craving endless excitement and passion. However, when they enter the threshold of 40 years old, the spark of many marriages gradually extinguishes and turns into the warmth of family affection. At this time, some thrill-seeking men may turn to extramarital affairs, but this choice is actually very unwise.
Once an affair starts, it's hard to go back. This two-way relationship is always fraught with trouble, and it's not something you can end up trying to over. If the other party is entangled, or even uses this to blackmail you, destroy your marriage, and break your family, the price is really not worth the loss.
Don't go this way, it took more than a decade of hard work to build a complete family. If you get into an extramarital affair, the hearts of your children who have raised them for more than ten years will hate you and may even cut off family ties with you. Take into account your physical condition, the stability of your family, and the future of your children, and don't take risks or pursue short-term thrills.
Don't borrow money to start a business, don't toss even if you take a salary cut, it's always right not to toss.
If a middle-aged man fails to achieve outstanding achievements in his career, his heart will be full of anxiety. He worries that the opportunities he had had in his youth had faded away, and that he had lost the opportunity to succeed. Therefore, he desperately wanted to work hard while he was still young.
When I see some of my friends succeeding in starting a business, my heart is filled with impulse and desire. Seeing that other people's businesses seem to be successful, I am full of anxiety and can't wait to decide to start a business as well. Due to his lack of funds, he borrowed money from everywhere and borrowed everything he could from friends, classmates, and relatives.
However, starting a business is by no means as easy as you seem, and in the end, not only did you lose all your money, but you also owed debts to many friends, and your wife quarreled every day for divorce. Therefore, if a man is over forty, if he fails to achieve anything in his career, he should not borrow money to start a business, otherwise, he will not be able to repay his debts if he loses money, and eventually he will be embattled and lose the sympathy of his friends.
Refuse to drink excessively, it is better to quit drinking, stay away from ineffective social interactions, and no one will really help you.
Once a person enters the age of 40, the physical fitness will decline sharply, and at this time, excessive alcohol consumption may cause serious damage to our body. We must recognize that although many people like to drink heavily, drinking alcohol is not a good thing after all.
As we get older, we should learn to control our poor eating habits and protect our body so that it remains relatively healthy. If we don't take good care of our bodies, we are destined to suffer a lot in a few decades. The costs are often outweighed.
When you are over forty, you should reconcile with your parents in everything, otherwise you can only regret it in your old age
When young men are often ambitious, believing that their parents do not know them, they are always at odds with their views. It is often said that life needs to experience more things to go better. Indeed, as most men grow older and mature, they understand how foolish it is to act against their parents.
Let go of the mustard in your heart, respect and care for your parents. However, if a man who has already passed the age of forty is still antagonistic to his parents, believing that his parents do not understand him, he will only end up with regretful regrets and helpless old age. As the old saying goes: "The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait". For such a life, they will face endless remorse and desolation.
Entering the age of 40 is actually a relatively stable stage, most people have established a stable family and career, and no longer have to go through as much hardship as when they were younger. However, comfort tends to put men into a state of boredom. Once bored, people are eager to find something new and exciting to fill the emptiness.