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What is embarrassing is that the marriage process of Luo Meiwei and Jacky Cheung, the golden boy and girl, is not smooth sailing, but full of twists and turns. Their story is like an encyclopedia of life, making people think deeply about what it means to be truly successful in marriage.
This article will delve into the ups and downs of their 28-year marriage and reveal the true meaning of happiness. Although their stories are not perfect, they allow us to see the delicate and real emotional depictions and life scenes of ordinary people's homes.
We will explore the value of life and the essence of marriage through the bits and pieces of their married life.
In 2008, Luo Meiwei lost her investment due to greed for small profits, and the loss was as high as 40 million Hong Kong dollars. In order to make up for this huge financial hole, Jacky Cheung, who has entered middle age, resolutely decided to return to the stage and embarked on a year-long global tour.
Airplanes and hotels have become his most familiar "home", and he has little time for other things. Whenever he arrives in a new city, Jacky Cheung has to leave for the next stop the next day.
The pace of his life is completely dominated by a tight performance schedule, and he has no time to spend with his family.
For his thriving daughter, Jacky Cheung can only pay attention to her from a distance in the video call, he knows that his daughter urgently needs her father's company at the moment, but he can't fulfill his duties as a father.
Every time he hung up the phone, Jacky Cheung would always stare at his daughter's bright smile on the screen for a long time, and his heart was full of emotion.
Once, Jacky Cheung, who was physically and mentally exhausted, suddenly had weak legs on the stage and fell to the ground. The staff present were stunned and rushed forward to try to help. However, Jacky Cheung got up quickly, declined the support of the staff, and insisted on completing the whole performance.
Because he deeply understands that only by completing this performance can he win the applause and wealth of the audience, so as to fill his wife's investment deficit. The bright lights on the stage obscured his inner exhaustion, but he knew he had to grit his teeth and persevere.
Luo Meiwei has a tough personality and has had a slight cleanliness habit since she was a child, and this situation has become more and more serious after marriage. She strictly forbids anyone to touch her daughter, not even her in-laws. As long as there is the slightest contact with others, she will immediately take out wet wipes and carefully wipe her daughter, lest her daughter be "contaminated".
In addition, Luo Meiwei also changed nannies frequently, and in just three years, 21 nannies were replaced, and each nanny was fired after working less than a month. If the babysitter is negligent, she will be furious.
She insisted that the nanny in the house follow an almost morbid standard of cleanliness, and that the slightest dissatisfaction would immediately explode into her violent temper. And at the funeral of her close friend Anita Mui in 2003, Luo Meiwei's performance stunned everyone - just because of an ordinary sneeze from others, the lady was nervous to search for disinfectant wipes.
This scene was unbelievable, and in front of all the relatives and friends present, people shook their heads and sighed, thinking that her behavior had exceeded the normal range and was too neurotic.
Jacky Cheung was also very embarrassed by this and was embarrassed by his wife's behavior.
Time flies, and after many years, Jacky Cheung finally couldn't stand it anymore and frankly expressed in an interview that his wife's cleanliness habit had seriously affected their family life.
Luo Meiwei even prefers to travel with a large number of disinfectant supplies rather than stay in any hotel, for fear of being contaminated with a trace of dust, and she rarely takes her children to participate in outdoor activities, for fear that the children will be "polluted", which makes the children lose the opportunity to contact with the outside world.
The experience of Jacky Cheung and Luo Meiwei has made us deeply realize that serious cleanliness will not only cause trouble to individuals, but also cause harm to the whole family. We should understand and respect each couple's unique lifestyle, but excessive cleanliness can be a hindrance in relationships.
In the 80s of the last century, Luo Meiwei was one of the members of the smash hit "Happy Girl Group", she has a bright and charming smile and exquisite facial features, which is deeply loved by the audience.
At that time, Jacky Cheung was just an unknown amateur singer, who participated in the singing competition through the recommendation of a friend, and unexpectedly won the championship and became famous in one fell swoop.
The two met for the first time in the movie "Wealthy Night Banquet", and Jacky Cheung was deeply attracted by Luo Meiwei's unique temperament, so he launched a passionate pursuit. During the rest of the crew, they often sit together and talk about life, Jacky Cheung can always make Luo Meiwei laugh, looking at her eyes brightened with laughter, and the corners of her mouth outlined cute dimples.
Luo Meiwei was also impressed by Jacky Cheung's personality and charm, and quickly accepted his pursuit, and the two fell into a sea of sweet love.
Luo Meiwei went all out to support Jacky Cheung in pursuing his music dream, and Jacky Cheung also found a solid support from her. They support each other and their relationship grows stronger.
Under the encouragement of Lo Meiwei, Jacky Cheung's career ushered in its first glorious period, and he gradually grew into one of the superstars in the Hong Kong music scene.
While Jacky Cheung and Luo Meiwei are in love with each other and their careers are thriving, his new album has encountered an accident, and the sales and response have been greatly lost compared with expectations. The huge gap and blow made him unbearable, and he was immersed in frustration and loss all day long, borrowing alcohol to kill his sorrows, and even becoming addicted to gambling.
Luo Meiwei saw that her beloved was depressed and decadent in front of her eyes every day, and her heart was full of anxiety. She tried all kinds of ways to help Jacky Cheung get out of the predicament, but her kindness and dedication were repeatedly rejected.
Jacky Cheung's mood became more and more irritable, hurting Luo Meiwei's emotions again and again.
Finally, Luo Meiwei tearfully proposed to break up in a fierce dispute. She couldn't stand Jacky Cheung's current state, so she could only choose to leave, hoping that this painful decision would awaken his senses.
After the breakup, Jacky Cheung fell into endless pain and self-blame.
This made him deeply realize that he must cheer up, and only by recreating a responsible and mature image can he win back Luo Meiwei's heart. As a result, he began to deeply analyze his own problems, gradually got out of the trough, and finally rose again in the field of music, film and television.
After his career was successful, he mustered up the courage to pursue Luo Meiwei again, and the two reunited.
This twists and turns of love have made their relationship more and more deep, and it has become a precious memory in their marriage.
However, the story doesn't end there. In 2017, Luo Meiwei's investment suffered another setback, and the family's financial situation fell into difficulties, forcing Jacky Cheung to devote himself to acting again.
However, just as he was ready to start his journey again, the outbreak of the new crown epidemic completely disrupted the global economic order, and the family's financial situation was facing collapse again.
In these 28 years of ups and downs in their marriage, Jacky Cheung and Luo Meiwei have experienced countless reunions and separations, and they have also tasted the ups and downs of investment and career. We cannot simply criticize or praise their marital relationship.
Everyone's path to marriage is to seek their own happiness, and the insights gained in the process are enough to enrich their lives.