My name is Wang Meili, I am 45 years old this year, and I am an ordinary housewife. I have a husband and two children, and my life is uneventful but also happy.
My husband and I met when we were in college, when we were both young students and full of longing for love. We fell in love for four years and finally entered the palace of marriage. At first, our lives were full of passion and romance, but as the years passed, our feelings gradually became flat.
In the long course of marriage, we have also encountered a lot of tribulations and troubles. My husband is busy with work and often works overtime, while I am busy with family chores, children's education and care, and my life is fast-paced and stressful. Gradually, the communication between us became less and less, and even a kind greeting seemed strange.
I found myself craving more and more for my husband's attention and concern for me, but he seemed to pay less and less attention to me, and even sometimes my cold attitude towards me made me feel lost and frustrated. I'm beginning to wonder if our relationship is still as strong as it used to be, and if there's a future ahead of us.
One day, I was chatting with a friend in a teahouse, and she suddenly asked me, "Do you think that women who have passed middle age actually like to listen to some 'dirty words' the most?"
I was a little surprised, and I didn't understand what she meant: "Why?"
"Because middle-aged women can easily feel neglected and left out in the cold, they crave some attention and attention, and 'dirty talk' can often get men's attention and make them pay attention to you again," she explains with a smile. ”
My heart moved, as if I understood something. Perhaps, the reason why I am more and more eager to listen to some "dirty words" is because I long for my husband's attention and concern for me, hoping that he can rekindle the flame of love between us.
Back at home, I decided to give it a try. That night, I took the initiative to chat with my husband and deliberately ridiculed some "dirty words" to see his reaction. At first, my husband was a little surprised, but soon laughed and started teasing me. We are like returning to the lovers of our youth, full of laughter.
Since then, I have noticed that my husband's attention and concern for me has increased significantly, and our relationship has become more harmonious. Perhaps, sometimes, some "dirty words" are not so lewd, they can be a way to mobilize the feelings of husband and wife, so that we can feel each other's love and warmth again.