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She glanced up at me with a shy smile on her face, "Oh, I'm reading Jane Eyre, do you like this book too?"
"Yes, I love it. I nodded hurriedly, "But I like you more than books." "
She was amused by my bluntness, giggled and said, "You're really good at talking." "
In this way, we went from strangers to friends and started a new relationship journey.
After a few months of getting along, the relationship between me and her became closer and closer. She is gentle and considerate, and will always take care of everything for me; And I was attracted to her pure heart and was willing to do anything for her.
Once, as we sat on a bench in the playground, she suddenly asked me, "What do you want to do in the future?"
I thought about it for a moment and said, "My dream is to be with you and form a warm little family." "
She said happily, "What a coincidence, I thought the same way." I hope to marry a considerate and kind person in the future, and then have a lovely child and live a happy and fulfilling life. "
When I heard this, a wave of fear suddenly rose in my heart. I remembered what my mother used to say to me: "After marriage, okay, you can give birth to the child yourself and wash the clothes yourself." "
Seeing that I was silent, she asked with concern, "What's wrong? Did I say something wrong?"
I shook my head, forced a smile and said, "It's nothing, I'm just thinking about something that I don't have." "
One night, I asked her to go to the lake on campus. The moonlight is reflected on the surface of the lake, and the scenery is pleasant. We sat side by side on a bench by the lake, chatting with each other.
Suddenly, I mustered up the courage to turn to look at her: "Actually, there's something I've always wanted to tell you. "
She also turned around and looked at me seriously, "What's the matter?" "
She was stunned at first, and then showed a shy smile: "I've always liked you too." You are a good person you can trust, and I would like to be with you. "
With that, she took the initiative to come over, and we kissed softly. In this way, we embarked on a new emotional journey.
After falling in love, we are like a little couple in love, tired all the time. She often told me about her vision for married life.
Once, when we were on a date, she suddenly said to me, "What kind of life will we live when we get married?"
I replied with a smile: "It should be an ordinary life, what is the difference between work, housework, and loving each other?"
I looked at her sparkling eyes, and my heart suddenly tightened. I am reminded of my mother's teaching: "After marriage, all right, you can give birth to your own children and wash your own clothes." This sentence has always haunted me, and it has made me instinctively fear and resist married life.
Faced with her longing, I began to hesitate. Mother's words were like a nail, firmly nailed to my heart, and I couldn't pull it out no matter what.
Once, when we were discussing getting married, she mentioned wanting a lovely child. But I suddenly remembered my mother's words "You give birth to your own child", and I couldn't help but feel a sudden shock.
When she saw that I was looking different, she asked me with concern, "What's the matter?"
I hesitated, but told her truthfully: "Actually, I have always had some fears and worries about marriage. When I was a child, I often heard my parents arguing and seeing them arguing over all kinds of trivial matters in life, which really made me fear and resist the word marriage. "
"Moreover, my mother often said to me, 'After marriage, okay, you can give birth to the child yourself, and wash the clothes by yourself', which made me subconsciously feel that marriage is a troublesome thing. Therefore, whenever you mention things like getting married and having children, I will subconsciously think of them, and I will inevitably have some hesitation in my heart. "
When she heard this, a sad look appeared on her face. She took my hand and whispered, "I understand your concerns, but we shouldn't be held back by the shadows of the past. The essence of marriage is that two people support each other and trust each other, as long as we treat it with patience and love, we will definitely be able to live a happy and fulfilling life. "
"You have to believe in me, in our feelings. As long as we have this trust, there is nothing that we cannot cross. She said, looking at me affectionately.
I opened my mouth, but I was speechless. Her words are like a key, opening the lock in my heart little by little.
However, due to my fear of marriage, our relationship was in crisis. I couldn't completely let go of my worries, which made her feel that I didn't trust her at all, and I didn't believe in our relationship.
At one point, we had a big fight over it. She said to me angrily, "Do you want to be single like this all your life? We have been in love for so long, and you still can't dispel your worries, so why should we continue?"
Just when I was in great pain, a bad news came, my mother was seriously ill due to an accident and her life was in danger. I hurriedly bought a plane ticket back to my hometown, and when I saw my mother's weak appearance, my heart was extremely painful.
When my mother woke up, she weakly said to me, "The biggest regret of my life is the lack of mutual understanding and trust between me and your father, which has led to our married life full of quarrels and pains. The words 'after marriage' were just momentary words at the time, not my sincere words. "
"You and her really love each other, so you have to cherish this fate. Don't let my mistakes happen to you again, trust her and approach the relationship with all your sincerity. "
My mother's words were like a baptism of love, and I finally let go of the fear of marriage in my heart. I realized that my fear of marriage was due to the fact that I witnessed discord with my parents as a child, but that doesn't mean that all marriages are like that. As long as we truly love and trust each other, we will be able to grow old together and live a happy life.
Out of my mother's advice, I made up my mind to pursue her heart again. I sincerely apologized to her and admitted that I was wrong.
"I'm sorry that I've been bound by my own fears and prejudices all this time, and I've neglected your sincere love for me. My mother's dying words finally woke me up to the fact that I am willing to open my heart, believe in you wholeheartedly, and work together to build a happy marriage. "
She looked surprised at first, then her eyes turned slightly red, and she choked up and said, "I've been waiting for you to say that." I've never doubted our relationship, I just want you to trust me and trust this relationship completely. "
As she spoke, she hugged me tightly, and the two of us hugged each other and cried, releasing the emotions that had accumulated for a long time.
From that day on, I made the right decision of my life: to spend the rest of my life with her. We begin to plan for our future married life and make all kinds of beautiful visions. She hopes to have a lovely child; I hope to create a warm home for her. We promised each other that no matter what difficulties we encounter in the future, we will resolve them with patience and love, and we will never let the quarrel hurt this feeling.
Although she forgave me, the wounds in her heart still need some time to heal. For some time at first, she would doubt my commitment to her from time to time, fearing that I would waver again.
Once, she suddenly said to me, "You say, if we get married in the future, will you still have the same fear of marriage as before?"
I shook my head firmly and said solemnly, "Absolutely not." My mother's dying words have completely changed the way I think about marriage. I know very well the value of marriage, it is not a bondage, but a testimony of mutual support and trust between two people. As long as we treat it with patience and courage, we will definitely be able to grow old together. "
She looked into my eyes and finally smiled knowingly.
In this way, inspired by my mother's words, we rekindled the fire of trust in each other. We began to plan for our future married life and planned a blueprint for our future life.
One day, she said to me with great interest: "You say, in the future, after we get married, will we buy a house or have a husband and children?"
I smiled and said, "Of course we should buy a house first, otherwise where will the children go to school in the future?"
I nodded and said solemnly: "Don't worry, I will definitely work hard to create a happy family for you and our children." No matter what difficulties I encounter in the future, I will resolve them with patience and love, and I will never let the quarrel hurt our feelings. "
After hearing this, she happily kissed me on the face and said happily, "With you, I have nothing to fear." "
In this way, under the teachings of our mother and the nourishment of love, we are fully prepared for a happy life in the future and are back on the right track of life.
My mother's words undoubtedly gave me great inspiration. It not only completely dispelled my fear of marriage, but also made me deeply appreciate the power of love.
Love is like a warm current that warms our hearts in the cold winter day. With its nourishment, we can truly let go of the mustard in our hearts, be honest with each other, and understand each other. It gives us the courage and strength to stride forward on the road of life and overcome many difficulties together.
My mother's words "after marriage" were just momentary angry words, but they were regarded by me as a lifelong fear. Love, on the other hand, is eternal, the purest and most beautiful thing in the world. With love, we have the power of mutual understanding and tolerance; With love, marriage is no longer a shackle, but a harbor for two people to support each other.
Yes, love is so great and magical. It gave me the courage to be born again, and I opened my heart again and embraced this sweet marriage. As long as there is love nourished in the heart, there is nothing that we cannot cross.
After this ordeal, I cherish the happiness in front of me even more. I told myself that no matter what difficulties I encountered in the future, I must face them with patience and courage, and never let the quarrel hurt this feeling again.
Once, I accidentally lost one of her favorite books. Although she was angry with me, she didn't make a lot of noise like before, but patiently listened to my explanations. I know very well that this is what she is telling me with her actions, that she is trying to fulfill her promise of "resolving conflicts with patience and love".
Seeing this little bit of change in her, I was extremely touched in my heart. I stepped forward and hugged her and solemnly said to her, "Thank you for always waiting and understanding me so patiently." From now on, no matter what happens, I will face it with the same patience and courage, and will never let the quarrel hurt our feelings. "
She nodded and whispered in my ear, "With you, I'm fearless." "
In this way, after some twists and turns, she and I finally set foot on the palace of marriage. On the wedding day, she wore a long white gauze dress, radiant and beautiful. In the presence of the priest and my relatives and friends, I exchanged rings with her and made a lifelong vow.
"Whether rich or poor, healthy or sick, I will always love, cherish, and accompany you until the last moment of my life. "
On the wedding night, I carefully carried her into the cave room. She bowed her head shyly, a blush on her pink cheeks. I kissed her gently on the forehead and whispered in her ear, "From now on, we will spend our lives together." No matter what difficulties I encounter in the future, I will face them with patience and courage, and never let anything hurt our feelings. "
Although the married life is happy, it is inevitable that there will be some conflicts and quarrels. Once, when I came home late for work, she was already fidgeting in the living room.
"Why did you come back so late? What time is it, you haven't heard from you, I've been waiting for you at home for hours!" She rebuked with some anger.
"What explanation? Do you think I'm a three-year-old and still need you to explain?" She interrupted me, her tone becoming more and more excited, "You don't take family affairs to heart at all, you work every time, and you never take my feelings into account!"
I was stung by her words, and I couldn't help but be angry, and retorted loudly: "Isn't this to earn money to support my family? If you don't work hard, then go to work yourself!"
Just when we were talking and fighting, I suddenly remembered the promise I had made to her: no matter what difficulties we encounter in the future, we must face them with patience and courage, and never let the quarrel hurt our feelings.
I took a deep breath, tried to suppress the anger in my heart, and gently said to her, "I'm sorry, I was too impulsive. Let's calm down and have a good talk, there is nothing that cannot be solved with a little patience and understanding. "
She was stunned for a moment, then burst into tears and threw herself into my arms and sobbed. I hugged her and comforted her softly: "Don't cry, I will definitely be more considerate of your feelings in the future and be a qualified husband and father." As long as we deal with it with patience and love, we will be able to resolve any contradictions and difficulties. "
"You see, how lovely he is, as pure as an angel. I said to her excitedly.
Although she was still a little weak, she also had a happy smile on her face. She nodded and said softly, "Yes, he is the crystallization of our love and the greatest gift that God has given us." From now on, we will do our best to nurture and teach him so that he can grow up healthy and happy in a loving environment. "
I nodded vigorously and said firmly, "Don't worry, I will definitely do my duty as a father and work hard to create a happy family." No matter what difficulties I encounter in the future, I will face them with patience and courage, and I will never let anything hurt our feelings and family. "
In this way, with the birth of my child, my life was also injected with a new meaning and motivation. In the past, I just worked to support my family, but now it's different, and I have to work hard for the future of my children.
Every day when I come home from work, I see my wife gently nursing her children, and I see the innocent smiling faces of my children, and my heart is filled with unprecedented happiness. Yes, this is the happy life I have always longed for, and it is for all this that I will do my best to work and struggle.
Sometimes, in the dead of night, I would sit by the window with my child in my arms and look at the starry sky outside the window. I would think that maybe God saw our hardships and efforts in the past few years and decided to give us such a lovely child as a reward.
Yes, it's worth it. For this little family full of love, for the happiness of my wife, and for the future of my children, I am willing to give everything, even if I have to go through thousands of mountains and rivers. As long as there is love nourished in the heart, there is nothing that we cannot cross.
Let us continue to work together to overcome all difficulties and obstacles with patience and courage, and create a happy and happy homeland! This is our lifelong pursuit, and it is also our greatest commitment to each other.